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Whats an advantage in being gay ...

justaguy said:
... apart from having no choice in the matter? Being in tune with the feelings of your partner perhaps? Not having to remember to put the toilet seat down? For some reason reason the disadvantage list seems longer ...
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In a similar vein, why is it cis gay men always forget they have to shit when the toilet seat advantage comes up I always wonder.
 
The whole toilet seat thing has fascinated me since I was a kid. I was convinced me that women are just plain stupid. I have never met a man who has fallen into a toilet (at least not one who bitched about it), but it seems women go through life falling in. How many times does it need to happen, before looking becomes a habit.

I had a dog that ran across the pool cover and fell in.....he never ran across the pool cover again.............maybe women are just dumber than dogs.
 
Males will take most things at face value, just as guys mean them to be. ..|

With females, Everything has to be about something else! #-o ](*,)
 
zombiekiller said:
Not having to deal with BS's and drama that women like to stir up. I speak as someone that used to date women.
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Yeah, sure.

Of course men can't be drama queens.
 
No man has to remember to put the toilet seat down. All men and women have to remember to check the state of the toilet before they use it.
 
The Fly said:
The whole toilet seat thing has fascinated me since I was a kid....but it seems women go through life falling in. How many times does it need to happen, before looking becomes a habit
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Me too. But I've always thought it makes more sense to keep the toilet seat up. One puts it down when needed. It eliminates the chance of the guy peeing on the seat.

Women insisting we remember to keep it down for them is an example of unnecessary domestic drama that gay couples don't have to deal with.
 
I'll take 'Things that make your house smell like spoiled cat food' for a thousand, please, Alex.
 
These threads are strange to me in that the overwhelming response always tends to be "haha females, amirite?", as if people's only exposure to women in relationships has been through low effort sitcoms or when their buddies are venting at the bar. Women don't look for ways to be offended by their partners or misconstrue words/intentions to create petty drama. They're not evil beings who feed off negativity or their partner's frustration either. They're people just like you and me and their personalities are just as diverse as ours.

Citing anecdotes of women being picky or dramatic shows nothing but your own bias.

As for the advantages of being gay, I've always felt that we are given more opportunities to think introspectively since our identities challenge the default. We are conditioned to believe certain things or to behave in certain ways that are often just reflective of cultural ideals, and I believe it's significantly easier to recognise conditioned thoughts when they are a direct contradiction of our identities. I say that we're only given more opportunities for introspection because, as noted above by bankside and lucky, many tend to perpetuate restrictive gender roles or struggle to recognise their conditioned thoughts despite them being largely inconsistent with homosexuality. Conversely, I think it's much easier for straight people to avoid questioning much of their conditioning as it tends to be consistent with their sexuality.

I also enjoy the sexual versatility of being able to top and bottom. I get to feel a partner inside of me, and he gets to feel me inside of him. Prostate stimulation is a beautiful thing, and I'm not sure it can be experienced on the same level with a straight couple and some toys. Then again, that's probably more of a personal preference thing than a universal advantage, as many gay men do not enjoy anal, and many are not versatile. I still believe it's worth mentioning though.
 
You can admire other men in locker rooms, str8 guys can't go in the women's to do the same.
 
Women nag just as much as men. It's the personality, not the sex.

They complain no more than some of you on this very website. A few of you sound really sexist to me and that explains as to why SOME of you can't stand female images in HT.:rolleyes:
 
What I'd say has already been mentioned a few times. Honestly, it's as if men and women aren't even meant to be together, they're just so different!
About the toilet seat issue; I always close it, but that's just because it looks more tidy, but the main reason is that you might accidentally drop something in.
 
When 2 guys getting hot, they usually go in the same pace..unlike with a girl.
 
mikemizanin729 said:
Women nag just as much as men.
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Tell me something I didn't already know! Women, I don't know. It's just nag, nag, nag, bitch, nag, nag, nag, moan, nag, storm off, oops, sorry, apologise, make nice meal. Those women. They're a funny bunch. They don't know how lucky they are to have us butch men around to save them from each other and calamity.

Three cheers and hooray for the men!!!!!!! ..| Hip, hip hooray!
 
^
the quick factor might not our best interest -_- but the good thing from us that it's very rare for us (when having gay sexual intercourse) to be completely frigid and unresponsive to our partner until the sex turned out to be like .. "date-rape" like the thing which often happening in heterorelationship :roll:
 
I can't believe this :##:

justaguy said:
I'm thinking men in a relationship don't analyse as much.

Example :

Guy : Honey, I've made Lasagne for dinner tonight
Woman partner : Why did you do that?

as opposed to

Guy : Honey, I've made Lasagne for dinner tonight
Guy partner : Great. Thanks!
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Anders123 said:
These threads are strange to me in that the overwhelming response always tends to be "haha females, amirite?", as if people's only exposure to women in relationships has been through low effort sitcoms or when their buddies are venting at the bar. Women don't look for ways to be offended by their partners or misconstrue words/intentions to create petty drama. They're not evil beings who feed off negativity or their partner's frustration either. They're people just like you and me and their personalities are just as diverse as ours.

Citing anecdotes of women being picky or dramatic shows nothing but your own bias.

As for the advantages of being gay, I've always felt that we are given more opportunities to think introspectively since our identities challenge the default. We are conditioned to believe certain things or to behave in certain ways that are often just reflective of cultural ideals, and I believe it's significantly easier to recognise conditioned thoughts when they are a direct contradiction of our identities. I say that we're only given more opportunities for introspection because, as noted above by bankside and lucky, many tend to perpetuate restrictive gender roles or struggle to recognise their conditioned thoughts despite them being largely inconsistent with homosexuality. Conversely, I think it's much easier for straight people to avoid questioning much of their conditioning as it tends to be consistent with their sexuality.

I also enjoy the sexual versatility of being able to top and bottom. I get to feel a partner inside of me, and he gets to feel me inside of him. Prostate stimulation is a beautiful thing, and I'm not sure it can be experienced on the same level with a straight couple and some toys. Then again, that's probably more of a personal preference thing than a universal advantage, as many gay men do not enjoy anal, and many are not versatile. I still believe it's worth mentioning though.
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Totally agree. I thought this was going to be a light hearted thread but there's a lot of misogyny in here. The most amount of drama I've come across online is at JUB for the past month and I'm part of fashion/models - forums full of women.
 
carey579 said:
Totally agree. I thought this was going to be a light hearted thread but there's a lot of misogyny in here. The most amount of drama I've come across online is at JUB for the past month and I'm part of fashion/models - forums full of women.
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Well, I think the jokes on you :) All my contributions here ARE light hearted. Trust me. :lol:
 
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