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Whats an advantage in being gay ...

No no no. Bi people and straight people are totally different from gay people. We can't relate at all.

That's why marriage is reserved for straight couples, because marriage is for straight people and the gay world is nothing like that at all. No similarities. No parallels. No common ground. No mutually applicable insights.
 
The Fly said:
Maybe you can't read...or comprehend. The title of the thread is "What's an advantage in being gay..." It has nothing to do with Bi-sexuals, or relationships. Gay men who've never been in a relationship,or been with another man sexually, are still gay...bi-sexuals are not gay.

You may know the advantages and disadvantages of being a Bi-sexual in a relationship with a man, a woman, or both....but you'll never know what it's like being gay. Don't delude yourself...you're not one of us.

Not intended to be a slam...it's just a fact. I'll never know what it's like being bi-sexual, and wouldn't pretend to.
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To me, and perhaps I might just be over simplifying this, but "bi" means attracted to both sexes. So... if one were to be bi, I would think that they could understand both gay and str8.

They could see any advantage of being gay as well as str8, unless a guy is in a threesome he is either having gay sex or str8 sex, he is
perhaps in a relation ship with a person of either gender at the same time, but that would not mean that he would be unable to discern
what gay life is like.
 
I hope women don't come across this thread even if it's just a joke from justaguy - who is from New Zealand (that shtick sounds familiar - only gay in the village :rolleyes:)

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justaguy said:
Oh, that sounds mysterious?? Please explain. Spell it out instead of talking in riddles :roll:
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Can't sleep so am revisiting :)
Oh sorry. Didn't see the invisible bit. I see it's a reference to an episode of Little Britain. Thanks. :) Only gay in the village is closer to the mark than you think. Lol.
 
In a heterosexual relationship,

the man is always the one to buy a ring and propose. While the woman does nothing, she just say "yes" or "no".



But in a gay relationship,

you and your male partner can choose and decide who is the one that is going to propose.
 
In a heterosexual relationship, the role that you play during sex is pretty much fixed and pre-determined.

The man is the penetrator. While the woman is going to be penetrated.




But in a gay relationship,

you can switch it up with your partner. You can be versatile and choose to be either top or bottom.
 
medic1 said:
^I am sorry that there is disrespect, not only in this thread but many others about bisexuals. My fella is bisexual, and his thoughts on this topic are just as valid as mine.
Please accept my apologies on behalf of members who show such ignorance on this topic............(*8*)
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There was no disrespect intended, but if you perceive it that way I really don't care.

You say your "fella" is bisexual.....why? Because gay and bi are not the same. It's not a matter of better or worse, but they are NOT the same. Bisexuals (men) also sleep with women does that make them the same as straight men, or lesbians, or bisexual women? No, because though we're all equal, we're not the same. Respecting differences is not the same as pretending they don't exist.

As to the quip about "community" ...get real. The umbrella of "community" has become so broad it now encompasses everyone. It used to be Gays and Lesbians, then Bi, then, Trans,..... then got stretched to include more and more identities to the point that it became everyone but straight people, and they'll be under the umbrella soon as well.
 
peeonme said:
To me, and perhaps I might just be over simplifying this, but "bi" means attracted to both sexes. So... if one were to be bi, I would think that they could understand both gay and str8.

They could see any advantage of being gay as well as str8, unless a guy is in a threesome he is either having gay sex or str8 sex, he is
perhaps in a relation ship with a person of either gender at the same time, but that would not mean that he would be unable to discern
what gay life is like.
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What I'm saying is simply, gays and bisexuals walk different paths in life. Are there intersections? ...sure, but we have intersections with straight men as well. When I hear that bi and gay is the same, it sounds like people are promoting the myth that bi means gay in denial.

I don't know what it's like to come to terms with ones bisexuality....but I'm pretty sure it's not the same as accepting you're gay. It's a separate sexual orientation. Not better not worse....but not the same.
 
carey579 said:
I hope women don't come across this thread even if it's just a joke from justaguy - who is from New Zealand (that shtick sounds familiar - only gay in the village :rolleyes:)

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Rose McGowan is a guest in Charlie XcX's music video above. She was exelent in Charmed. She is a celebrity.

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Women have periods and menopauses. And when that happens, they get moody and hot tempered. Straight men will have to deal with that.
 
If there is a guy I like or have doubts about, specifically a co-worker or something. I just follow him into the restrooms without his intent during break or lunch or whatever and make observations. ^_^.
 
In a straight relationship, if the couple have a child and they decide to break up, the man and woman will have to fight for the custody of the child.

Because the child belongs to both the man and the woman and has both their DNA.


This also means neither the man nor the woman can ever have a "clean break" from each other because of the child. The woman will always be a part of the man's life because of the child. ( Whether he likes it or not.)


And custody of the child is usually awarded to mothers. Therefore, straight men are stuck with paying alimonies, child support to their ex-wives.
 
When a straight couple fights or quarrels, all the sexism remarks come out from their mouths.


The man: You women are all like that.....bossy, controlling, nagging.....


The woman: You men are all like that....impatient, spoiled, insensitive





However, in a gay relationship, you can at least be free from sexism remarks occurring to each other.
 
Being gay also means you don't have to deal with double standards that straight people deal with.



Example, in a straight relationship,

it's okay for a woman to hit a man. But it is not okay for the man ( under any circumstances) to hit a woman.


People are more likely to believe a woman had been physically abused by her boyfriend.


But people are less likely to believe a man had been physically abused by his girlfriend.
 
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