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What's Been Your Longest Sexual Dry Spell?
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PalacePaul
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I can relate to that, but somehow I've managed to have sex at least a few times a year. My longest dry spell was something around 7-8 months.
On a side note, I'm curious about your hobbies and how did you meet your boyfriend. PM if you want to share
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PipeDream
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I can relate to that, but somehow I've managed to have sex at least a few times a year. My longest dry spell was something around 7-8 months.
On a side note, I'm curious about your hobbies and how did you meet your boyfriend. PM if you want to share
If I'm being perfectly honest I'm surprised my dry spells haven't been longer than they have.
I'm not the most outgoing person and almost all of my hobbies can be done solo. I like reading books, listening to lectures/watching documentaries, playing video/board games, working out, hiking, and rock climbing. I've had to cut back heavily on the last three in recent times because of my health issues which fuckin' blows, but I have plans to go indoor climbing again this weekend and I'm really hoping I don't have to cancel them. Pray4me.
I met my boyfriend at a board game night. We have a big group chat of friends and friends of friends where people host events and everybody is welcome (like a more insular/invite only Meetup group I suppose). I go to the board game nights every week and it's one of the only places I regularly meet new people. We hit it off as soon as he started showing up.
bankside
JUB 10k Club
Not to go all Bill Clinton but it depends what you mean by “is.”
Started out too young playing doctor. By our mid teens we had specialised in urology. Then just as we were thinking about a switch to proctology, my family moved, I pretended it never happened, and that was the end of it.* I guess I have to count that as the start, but honestly as self-aware as we were about being up to no good, we were also hopelessly naive and didn’t really achieve anything. Was damn fun though.
Then I was “straight” except the kind of straight where you hold hands and go to the mall but you don’t fuck her because that would be sexist and I’m not like that. She’s not a piece of meat, and neither am I! I respect her. Soooo respectful!!! How can I respect her even more, say, from a greater distance?
Then a couple of fumbling awkward encounters, one more naked than the other. I guess that would be the official end of the dry spell so 8 years? 14-22 if you want to count that way. Then my guy, from 24 to the present. He’s the first guy to do everything with me that two guys can do. He’s the only one to see the look in my eye when I cum, and the only one responsible for it. With him it’s usually a minimum of once a week. I am sure we went through a dry spell of a couple of months a few years ago when life got busy.
To me it had been optimal. Don’t know what’s next, and there’s a far better chance of me being single in a year than there was two years ago. I don’t have much patience for mid life crises, and I don’t think it’s too much to ask a grown man to say confidently and convincingly what he actually wants, whether it’s “Sounds crazy but I think we should try a threesome,” or “I need to go find my own way” or “I’m scared that I’m aging faster than you but I realize trying to cling to my youth is making me look like a fucking idiot and I’m sorry for what I’ve put you through.” I honestly don’t care which one he picks but I would like him to pick one, like a grown-up can do, with some degree of self-awareness. Anyway, we’ve cashed in 18 good years to figure out what’s next and we’re coming up on two years of that weirdness. I think this has to be the last summer of waiting.
* depends what you mean by “the end of it.” Thirty years later, he’s married, wants out, and wants me to get him out, preferably using my penis. Ffs.
Started out too young playing doctor. By our mid teens we had specialised in urology. Then just as we were thinking about a switch to proctology, my family moved, I pretended it never happened, and that was the end of it.* I guess I have to count that as the start, but honestly as self-aware as we were about being up to no good, we were also hopelessly naive and didn’t really achieve anything. Was damn fun though.
Then I was “straight” except the kind of straight where you hold hands and go to the mall but you don’t fuck her because that would be sexist and I’m not like that. She’s not a piece of meat, and neither am I! I respect her. Soooo respectful!!! How can I respect her even more, say, from a greater distance?
Then a couple of fumbling awkward encounters, one more naked than the other. I guess that would be the official end of the dry spell so 8 years? 14-22 if you want to count that way. Then my guy, from 24 to the present. He’s the first guy to do everything with me that two guys can do. He’s the only one to see the look in my eye when I cum, and the only one responsible for it. With him it’s usually a minimum of once a week. I am sure we went through a dry spell of a couple of months a few years ago when life got busy.
To me it had been optimal. Don’t know what’s next, and there’s a far better chance of me being single in a year than there was two years ago. I don’t have much patience for mid life crises, and I don’t think it’s too much to ask a grown man to say confidently and convincingly what he actually wants, whether it’s “Sounds crazy but I think we should try a threesome,” or “I need to go find my own way” or “I’m scared that I’m aging faster than you but I realize trying to cling to my youth is making me look like a fucking idiot and I’m sorry for what I’ve put you through.” I honestly don’t care which one he picks but I would like him to pick one, like a grown-up can do, with some degree of self-awareness. Anyway, we’ve cashed in 18 good years to figure out what’s next and we’re coming up on two years of that weirdness. I think this has to be the last summer of waiting.
* depends what you mean by “the end of it.” Thirty years later, he’s married, wants out, and wants me to get him out, preferably using my penis. Ffs.
@Bankside
Sorry to hear you're having to go through that. You might want to take that to the Coming Out & Relationships subforum or even make a Hot Topic if you haven't yet. That seems like a lot to deal with.
I'm sort of dealing with something similar myself, though it's not a partner-type-thing.
Sorry to hear you're having to go through that. You might want to take that to the Coming Out & Relationships subforum or even make a Hot Topic if you haven't yet. That seems like a lot to deal with.
I'm sort of dealing with something similar myself, though it's not a partner-type-thing.
bankside
JUB 10k Club
Ha I did kind of ramble there! It probably came to mind becaus a dry spell can be something other than sexual and I think that’s what we’re in. We shall see!