What's It Like To Be In Love???

[VenomGGXX]

As tara's mom said on True blood, "True love rips you apart." I think true love hurts because you really care about someone, and the person you care about will probably hurt you in some way. That's human nature. If you are in love, the person you love will make you feel great, but they will also make you feel bad sometimes.

 

[hotb0d]

You can't really describe love. Love means differently to different people, you have to experience it to know what love is. But most people would agree that love requires devotion, perseverance, and a whole lot of forgiveness.

 

[Beanstalk]

It's wonderful when someone loves you, but that is just nothing at all compared with the enormous joy you feel when you love someone else. It is the one who loves who enjoys the most pleasure in sex (or even just in relationship) -- by FAR.

When you love someone, all you can think about is giving them pleasure and joy in any way you can think of. Do you know how, ordinarily, you are the center of your world? Well, when you are in love, suddenly your loved one becomes the center of your world, and everything revolves around Him. Every time you can do him any service or give him any pleasure, it fills you with joy.

Once you have felt this joy in your life, you will always need to have a boy friend to love.

So many people think about love and sex in terms of finding someone to give them love, but they are really missing out on the source of the real stuff.

 

[TickTockMan]

Its like everything at once.

 

[kallipolis]

True love, has only eyes, for its love.

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TCG9jOxzcOs[/ame]

 

[MisterMajestic]

I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend.Of course I've had crushes,but has anyone ever been in love??? I want a boyfriend and I want to know what it's like to be in love??? I really want to know.I'm curious.What's it like???

Now this is sad...You're 19yrs old and you NEVER saw how much your Parents loved each other? That's where it's suppose to start....At home...My Mother & Step-Father are divorced today but I remember growing up watching how much they loved each other, hearing them say it and watching them embrace and kiss in front of me and my younger brother...

Surely you had parents or relatives that showed you what a Loving couple looks like?

 

[kallipolis]

Love strips us of our self focus, and encourages us to live, in appreciation of the one we love.

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzL0tsUIn8w[/ame]

 

[operafan]

It's going with your boyfriend to a Barry Manilow concert when you hate Barry Manilow.

From a lovely video about the first same-sex couple to be featured in the NY Times wedding announcement

http://video.nytimes.com/video/2009...65/vows-state-of-the-unions.html?ref=weddings

 

[voyager1994]

You'll discover something about yourself that you never thought was there.

That and it drives you nuts.

 

[Titanic]

It's hard to be certain when you're truly in love, or whether you just think you are. Either way, I've been pretty close and here's my verdict.

Love heightens all your emotions tenfold. After a good day out with your lover you'll be happy enough to literally skip down the street singing. After an argument you'll be fuming for ages. And when something comes between the two of you, it'll hurt more than anything you've ever felt before.

This may sound bad, and in many cases it can be, but when you find a love that brings you more happiness than sadness, you'll truly be in paradise.

 

[Daximus]

Love is a trap. I really wish I was still single. Single with tons of gay friends. Some friends with benefits. That would be the life. But instead I'm stuck with someone I loved at first, now it's just the same shit different day routine. Getting so tired of it. But like I said, a trap. I have no where to go. All my money goes to our life style. Moving would be damn near impossible even 'if' I could find a new place just for myself. Trapped.

Seems like we are room mates more than anything. And the benefits are not worth it at all. I could get better benefits from a 50 year old down the street for fuck sakes.

I shouldn't have posted in here cause now I'm all down an shit. Fuck.

 

[MisterMajestic]

I never saw my parents showing that they loved each other.They divorced when I was almost 8,because my Mom had another.I couldn't really understand how she loved him either because he was a liar and my sisters and I tried to warn her but she just ended up being hurt in the end.Now she's with a married Muslim man (We are catholic) and I'm trying to open her eyes that it's wrong.Sorry if it seems like I'm going on a shit-talking rant but I just never saw either one of my parents being in love with anyone.I just figured if having a crush can feel so nice being in love would probably be 1,000,000 times better lol

Love your Mom and continue to be the Great son that you are. A Mother always needs her children in her life especially when she makes mistakes. My Mother knows that regardless of how many failed relationships she's been in she can always count on me to be there for her to Lean on. So many times I've seen her repeat the same mistakes and it got to the point where I had to step back and Let God show her the way.

Being in Love is the best feeling in the world. You think about that person all the time and you look forward to seeing them and hate leaving them..Just wait until you find that special someone, you'll see...

 

[saymyname]

It's wonderful when someone loves you, but that is just nothing at all compared with the enormous joy you feel when you love someone else. It is the one who loves who enjoys the most pleasure in sex (or even just in relationship) -- by FAR.

When you love someone, all you can think about is giving them pleasure and joy in any way you can think of. Do you know how, ordinarily, you are the center of your world? Well, when you are in love, suddenly your loved one becomes the center of your world, and everything revolves around Him. Every time you can do him any service or give him any pleasure, it fills you with joy.

Once you have felt this joy in your life, you will always need to have a boy friend to love.

So many people think about love and sex in terms of finding someone to give them love, but they are really missing out on the source of the real stuff.

Found this very well said. Think 420inc sounds bitter and is giving you a false impression.

Ah, love... to me, it makes me feel completely timeless. When I'm around my boyfriend, I just feel like everything is perfect, the world stops making me so angry. It's hard to explain the timeless aspect. Everything just melts away. I also feel like WE'RE timeless, in a way, like internally, and not just timeless in an external sense. It's breathtaking. I've also come to experience how love can be completely terrifying and scary, too, in it's total sublimity. How I can have this strong of a feeling for someone, how I can feel SO MUCH for him, it's just scary in a way. Unnerving, rather... I suppose it's because you feel so HIGH up with them, that it's absolutely terrifying to think of what it would be like to go back to a life without that kind of love. It's scary to know that someone is so inside of your heart, and vice versa, it's overwhelming, and beautiful.

 

[GL]

I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend.Of course I've had crushes,but has anyone ever been in love??? I want a boyfriend and I want to know what it's like to be in love??? I really want to know.I'm curious.What's it like???

that's a good question. sadly i don't have an answer.

 

[kallipolis]

I'm not certain I could ever love someone so much.

Just for you:


[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tBbZb1-oHtc[/ame]

 

[frankfrank]

Many poets and song lyricists have described love much better than I ever could.

It can be the most wonderful thing EVER to be part of your world, and the most anxiety-and-insomnia-causing thing in your world as well. Sometimes simultaneously...

 

[jubalon]

Absolutely terrible right now. Because I don't know what the guy I've completely fallen for feels about me. And I know that a relationship isn't a realistic option, because of the distance. Both moving and a long distance relationship is out of the question (at least for me). But all I want is to spend more time with this guy, which I probably will in three weeks. That will probably end up with me feeling more in love and more fucked up.

I guess that's one of the ways being in love can feel like.

 

[thewiz]

True love is not getting upset when your boyfriend burns dinner -- or when he leaves the dishes in the sink to go to work. You enjoy eating the food because you know he made it and spent hours trying to do something special for you.

True love is doing your boyfriend's laundry (I actually do and love it). He cooks some really good meals (occasionally burning something or maybe getting something too spicey). It's folding it and making sure things are in place, including picking up his underwear or socks (perhaps that you took off him the night before).

True love is falling asleep in each other's arms without having sex but yet feeling totally satisfied. It is waking up and not minding each other's morning breath because you get to have your lips meet his.

True love is smiling when you hear his voice mail or laughing aloud at his messages just because. It is being disappointed when you can't talk to him for a day because each of you keep missing each other while working. You feel cheated and that something didn't happen.

True love is also work. It is being mad and talking to your lover to work through whatever problem started the disagreement. It is talking and finding out what your partner likes, dislikes, enjoys, or does not enjoy; and it is avoiding the things that aggravate or disappoint in favor of things that bring you closer.

I suppose I could go on....but love also takes work. It does happen but to stay and build, it requires effort less it is taken for granted and subsequently disappears.....

 

[hotdog1846]

All is right with the world when you're together, and when you're apart, everything is wrong, and when you have to leave each other for good, it's like someone's ripping your heart out of your chest and squeezing it to a bloody pulp.

I didn't say much about how wonderful it is to be in love ... ending it sucks, though.

 

[lennon]

Wonderful and dreadful at the same time.