Whats sex with a woman like compared to with a guy?

[AsianDream]

I’ve never had sex with a woman only with guys – Im after hearing from bi-sexual guys about the differences between sex with a woman and with a guy?

A fuck buddy of mine invited me to a dinner party last night and we spent most of the time with a Lesbian couple he knows well. It turns out the younger of the two women has never been with a guy and she’s curious to try it – also that the other woman sometimes has casual sex with my buddy (he’s also older and Bi).

Like me and my buddy – the girls are into watersports – and I ended up agreeing to take part in a foursome with them next weekend. Afterwards my buddy admitted he’d set me up – and said no worries if I wanted to cancel.

I am curious – but think it might turn out very embarrassing – and not sure I want to go. I’ve looked at a few “Hetro porn” sites and find the pictures of female genitals do nothing for me – also their arses don’t look as nice as a guys.

Plus Ive not got much idea of what you do with a woman – except for an alternative hole to fuck.

Anyway – any advice on what to do with women – or any experience of other gay guys who’ve tried it – good or bad?

 

[lonnie1]

Women are more into the emotional side of sex. Maybe you guys should try a foursome so there is something to keep each person excited. And for the guys--hard.

 

[AsianDream]

AsianDream- You have an interesting dilemna. I don't know if it will help but what about thinking of this as a chance to bond most closely with your fuck buddy? He's bi- right? With my straight buddies in the past, the closest that we ever came to having sex with each other was when we shared a pussy and became "'cunt brothers". Of course, you have already gone beyond this with your fuck bud. I assume that you both plan to shoot your semen into the pussy; just imagine your sperm mixing with your bros inside of that warm pussy. I don't know, but does that turn you on?

This image might help also:

Thanks Superboy - afraid the picture didn't help much - only made me want to be the one sucking his dick

When we talked later - My Buddy said anal bareback with the girls is safe - but that "Cunt = Condom" as neither of them use the pill! - so - if I don't chicken out first - guess we won't be "cunt brothers"

Well, I can't really give you insider advice into this situation, but wouldn't it make better sense if you and this curious woman hooked up first, one on one? Think about it, neither of you has been with the opposite sex, neither of you know "what to do", you're both gay, for all intents and purposes, but you're both curious. So imagine how much less pressure and embarrassment there will be if you guys have a few drinks, relax, and just fool around a bit to see if anything works for you? It would seem much more intimate and less pressure than a big foursome, you know?

The thing about a doing it with just the younger girl is that I don't think I'd get hard - plus I only met her once - so it could be really awkward. A few drinks wouldn't help me - even a few beers makes me go bright red and get drunk

Women are more into the emotional side of sex. Maybe you guys should try a foursome so there is something to keep each person excited. And for the guys--hard.

I think the foursome is probably best - at least Id have somone there to tell me what to do - and guess I could just watch if I can't perform.

 

[kingzulu]

dude pusssy is wet and just hmmmm...you ot to try..whereas man ass i dunno much about yet but guys can suck a good dic lol

 

[sktguy]

Beats tghe heck out of me.

 

[tick37]

I've never been with a man, but I have been with many many women, and they are great. Especially when they are kinky.

I find myself fantasizing about cock now whenever I'm fucking though.

 

[AsianDream]

I've never been with a man, but I have been with many many women, and they are great. Especially when they are kinky.

I find myself fantasizing about cock now whenever I'm fucking though.

I've looked at a few straight porn sites - and I'm still not sure what to actually do sexually with a woman except for fucking?

I've found a couple of videos of girls masturbating - but can't work out the actual technique from these

 

[ShihTzuTylenol]

Where to begin?

She's gonna have what they call a clitoris at the top of her vag. It's like a teeny weeny uncut cock that never gets hard. Alright, you're gonna wanna lock onto that little dude and suck the hell out of it!

If she starts freaking out and her legs start to quiver and shake and she starts pulling your hair, then you're doing it right!

And then she might take you to the mall the next day and buy you lots of clothes and sunglasses. That's what happened to me.

Here's a thought too;
___ Have you seen those candies called Pop-Rocks? They're sour and they tingle in your mouth when they get wet.
Anyway, see if she'll let you put some of those Pop-Rocks in the lips on her pussy.
That might be fun. You'll hear them snap, crackle and pop, and her twat will taste sweet like grapes or cherries.
But if she starts complaining, you may have to literally dig your tongue down into the pit area and eat the candy back out of her.

So, good luck AD, and have fun.

Remember to wear a condom! You never know what that hole's had stuffed inside it! You might be playing around down there--looking for her G-spot--and suddenly discover a half eaten pink jelly dong toy she lost 3 months ago!

Seems to me; a vagina is like a kangaroo's pouch......you never know what you're gonna get.

 

[traveler1111]

the worst thing that you can do is pretend that you know what you are doing. since one of the girls has not been with a guy yet, its possible that you could hurt her if you try to fuck her too hard/too quickly.

best thing you can do? ask them how they like it. let them show you. every girl is different.

this is a pretty good primer on the subject:

http://www.viceland.com/nl/v1n1b/htdocs/eating_pussy.php

do the girls know that you are gay? if so, they shouldn't expect you to know how to pleasure them.

i personally find the smell of pussy to be absolutely intoxicating. that said, if either of them smells fishy, they need to hit the shower.

best of luck.

 

[traveler1111]

You might be playing around down there--looking for her G-spot--and suddenly discover a half eaten pink jelly dong toy she lost 3 months ago!

this is hilarious.

 

[TylerDurden222]

never touched a guy, but had a fair share of pussy in my day. pussy is great, when its fresh it tastes sweet like nectar and can get super slippery. i love to pin my wife down, eat her pussy and fuck her good. i love pussy

 

[AsianDream]

the worst thing that you can do is pretend that you know what you are doing. since one of the girls has not been with a guy yet, its possible that you could hurt her if you try to fuck her too hard/too quickly.

best thing you can do? ask them how they like it. let them show you. every girl is different.

this is a pretty good primer on the subject:

http://www.viceland.com/nl/v1n1b/htdocs/eating_pussy.php

do the girls know that you are gay? if so, they shouldn't expect you to know how to pleasure them.

i personally find the smell of pussy to be absolutely intoxicating. that said, if either of them smells fishy, they need to hit the shower.

best of luck.

Thanks Traveler - the link was interesting - but Im a bit worried about where it says:

"Unlike fellatio, cunnilingus can never be done as a favor. Doing it when you don’t want to will only bring on the dry heaves"

That would be really embarrasing
They're a lesbian couple - but the older woman and my buddy are BI. I think part of the idea is that they know I'm a virgin with women.

 

[ShihTzuTylenol]

...if either of them smells fishy, they need to hit the shower.

Long John Silvers is out of the question for this evening! That's just nasty information to know!

 

[bankside]

Okay, so you, a bi guy, and two kinky women into watersports.

Looks like there are two opposite-sex virgins in the room. I think you should ask one of the women to give you a guided tour of her partner, and I think the bi guy should do the same with you for her. Put on a show for each other. It will make it much easier for the fully homo people in the room. Then take it from there and enjoy the fun.

 

[AsianDream]

Where to begin?

She's gonna have what they call a clitoris at the top of her vag. It's like a teeny weeny uncut cock that never gets hard. Alright, you're gonna wanna lock onto that little dude and suck the hell out of it!

If she starts freaking out and her legs start to quiver and shake and she starts pulling your hair, then you're doing it right!

And then she might take you to the mall the next day and buy you lots of clothes and sunglasses. That's what happened to me.

Here's a thought too;
___ Have you seen those candies called Pop-Rocks? They're sour and they tingle in your mouth when they get wet.
Anyway, see if she'll let you put some of those Pop-Rocks in the lips on her pussy.
That might be fun. You'll hear them snap, crackle and pop, and her twat will taste sweet like grapes or cherries.
But if she starts complaining, you may have to literally dig your tongue down into the pit area and eat the candy back out of her.

So, good luck AD, and have fun.

Remember to wear a condom! You never know what that hole's had stuffed inside it! You might be playing around down there--looking for her G-spot--and suddenly discover a half eaten pink jelly dong toy she lost 3 months ago!

Seems to me; a vagina is like a kangaroo's pouch......you never know what you're gonna get.

One site I've looked at said about Cliterisses - but that they did get hard

At least Ive actually seen a real Kangaroo - I often lose remote controlls down the gaps in the sofa - sounds like women have got one more place they need to search for it

 

[AsianDream]

Okay, so you, a bi guy, and two kinky women into watersports.

Looks like there are two opposite-sex virgins in the room. I think you should ask one of the women to give you a guided tour of her partner, and I think the bi guy should do the same with you for her. Put on a show for each other. It will make it much easier for the fully homo people in the room. Then take it from there and enjoy the fun.

Thanks Bankside ! - that sounds a really great idea

Im quite an exhibitionist - would like putting on a show - plus means no pressure to "perform".

Wouldn't have agreed in the first place - except for them sharing the same fetish.

Still worried that pictures and videos of women do nothing for me - anyway going to tell my budy I want us to do your idea.

 

[conrad]

IMHO a person who has experienced a loving sexual relationship with a man should come away from that experience with an appreciation of the genuineness of sexual love on that side of his sexuality.

If that same person , at another time, experiences ses in a loving relationship with a woman he should come away from that experience also with an apprecixtion of the beauty and the wonder of sex on that side of his sexuality.

But, IMHO, a gentle man will not ever be inclined to talk comparisons; to do so, IMHO, is to degrade both experiences.

If to be called a bisexual is to recognize a person who honors love on both sides of his sexuality I am very happy to be so labelled.

 

[DJ1990]

woman= possible child support

just stay away from them

 

[sm8591]

Being bi i can say women impose a lot emotional aspects, need a longer foreplay and remain turned on after being fucked.

Good you have a foursome, as like in trio or group the emotional aspect is less or absent and you enjoy pure sex. Being on women or men feels very similar: the body warmth, skin, flesh and bones all feel the same. Breasts are just fat and feel not else than on a male chest, you will miss feeling a penis against yours between the legs, but slip into a vagina instead if the lesbian is wet and willing.

Good you share fetishes with a lesbian couple. When lesbians are interested in a male to share a fetish or for sm, i can assure you lesbo's are great. i 'm close with a lesbian couple and had to do with several other: really worthwhile!

 

[JNewYork]

With a man: Intensely hard erection, hot, exciting, fun.

With a woman: No erection. Gross. Meaningless. Boner killer. (Did it once and never will again.)