Whats sex with a woman like compared to with a guy?

[purpleppl]

One site I've looked at said about Cliterisses - but that they did get hard

Mine gets hard so it does.

 

[AsianDream]

With a man: Intensely hard erection, hot, exciting, fun.

With a woman: No erection. Gross. Meaningless. Boner killer. (Did it once and never will again.)

That's what Im worried about - especially about making her feel bad - I'm sort of hoping as she's gay as well - and only curious about guys - if I can't do anything she won't mind.

 

[AsianDream]

Mine gets hard so it does.

Is it right that you shouldn't touch the Clitoris itself - but sort of massage the area next to it?

 

[snakkie]

men, i wish i was on your place.
you don't have nothing to lose.
they are lesbians and want to experience something with a guy, and more than anything, they know that you are gayy! (right?)

once, i was "trying to sleep" and two of my best friends started to make out (girl and boy) by my side (thinking i was sleeping) and men, i don't know if i can get hard with a girl, but that night, hearing their moahns, i had one of the biggest erections of my life!

go for it. i think that having a cock by your side, and because a foursome is something much less intimal, you will love it.

keep updating
i

 

[EJMichaels]

A useful web site:
www. babeland.com/sexinfo/ (I can't post actual links yet)

Although the site sells sex toys and other goods, the "How To" section could provide some info. You probably don't need the section teaching women how to fuck their boyfriends with a dildo, but "How to go down on a woman" might be worth your time. Be sure to click on the links within the articles to get more details on things like the G-spot.

Het porn probably isn't very educational.

 

[bankside]

Is it right that you shouldn't touch the Clitoris itself - but sort of massage the area next to it?

These are all questions you should ask the women. Seriously I think this kind of evening will be way more fun if it is "show and tell.." Hands-on learning.

 

[lm-biHD]

Well, I won't give any advice since I go both ways as easily. But I can recommend some bi porn. It's very exciting and it helped a friend of mine in a similar situation (he stuck with guys, though - but he says that it was great).

 

[playful6969]

Is it right that you shouldn't touch the Clitoris itself - but sort of massage the area next to it?

Generally women like indirect stimulation, or very gentle direct.
It can vary with the woman. In any case its rarely a good idea to be aggressive
with her clit...unless she asks for that.

Most women I have known like to be given oral and also enjoy being
fucked by a nice hard cock. Many can only get off with oral or manual
stimulation so when/if thats the case dont take it personal, its just women.

 

[alli-berri]

For me, I can enjoy pleasuring a woman when I take the sensation I get when MY penis is stimulated, and project it onto the girl's vagina - for example, my shaft stimulation goes to the labia, and my glans stimulation gets projected onto her clit or something. Then, I can imagine how good oral/sex might be feeling for her, and it makes ME feel good.

It's strange, but works for me! It's based on the concept of "sense memory", I learned about it from acting classes (Strasberg & Stanislovsky know what I mean). I take the sense memory from my cock stimulation and "perform" it (in my mind) on the woman.

Now that I reread that, it sounds pretty confusing haha. Good luck! And don't be stressed about it, because she's probably just as worried as you are! Yes, if you're not hard it will be obvious, but if she's not wet, it will be obvious too!

 

[Nomenclature]

Here's a thought too;
___ Have you seen those candies called Pop-Rocks? They're sour and they tingle in your mouth when they get wet.
Anyway, see if she'll let you put some of those Pop-Rocks in the lips on her pussy.
That might be fun. You'll hear them snap, crackle and pop, and her twat will taste sweet like grapes or cherries.

Uhm, I don't think women think yeast infections are sexy. I masturbated after eating a cookie once, and I got the yeast infection from hell in my foreskin. I can't imagine how much worse it would have been if I actually put the cookie in my dick.





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One site I've looked at said about Cliterisses - but that they did get hard

Biologically, they literally ARE simply an underdeveloped penis. They have erectile tissue that swells as a response to arousal. They don't actually get a boner the way we do, but it does come out of its hood a little bit for most women. Vaginas are incredibly unique in women; no two are going to look the same.

Generally women like indirect stimulation, or very gentle direct.
It can vary with the woman. In any case its rarely a good idea to be aggressive
with her clit...unless she asks for that.

Think of it this way:

If you're going to hard, it would be hot in the heat-of-the-moment for her to tell you go a little harder. . .but if you're stimulating her too hard to begin with, then she's just going to be in pain and it will IMMEDIATELY kill the mood.

Most women I have known like to be given oral and also enjoy being
fucked by a nice hard cock. Many can only get off with oral or manual
stimulation so when/if thats the case dont take it personal, its just women.

That's why so many straight guys i've spoken to told me that they play with her clit while they fuck her; some even managed to get her to orgasm simultaneously with them this way.







if you aren't sure how to stimulate a clit, the best thing you can do is try to find porn of girls masturbating, or watch the girl play with herself a little bit before you move down there yourself.

 

[playful6969]

That's why so many straight guys i've spoken to told me that they play with her clit while they fuck her; some even managed to get her to orgasm simultaneously with them this way.

Yes, that can work.
Many women will play with their own clit while you fuck them too. In fact this
is even more foolproof...she's doing it.

 

[Wanktastic]

There's a lot of technical things you can do/try and they might work and they might fail. I would suggest that, if possible, you be as honest as you can be and enter into the act both understanding how new you two are to what you're doing. Try and have fun, remember that you're not the only one who's trying to get pleasure out of this and always be open to listening - not just fucking.

 

[AsianDream]

These are all questions you should ask the women. Seriously I think this kind of evening will be way more fun if it is "show and tell.." Hands-on learning.

Ive talked with my budy about Your idea of "show and tell" - he thinks its a great idea as well and thats what we'll do

Im still rather nervous - I've not cum since Sunday - if I can manage to hold on till Saturday I'll at least be feeling very horny.

A useful web site:
www. babeland.com/sexinfo/ (I can't post actual links yet)

Although the site sells sex toys and other goods, the "How To" section could provide some info. You probably don't need the section teaching women how to fuck their boyfriends with a dildo but "How to go down on a woman" might be worth your time. Be sure to click on the links within the articles to get more details on things like the G-spot.

Het porn probably isn't very educational.

Thanks for the link - your right - you cant really tell what theyre doing in the hetro porn Ive looked at

For me, I can enjoy pleasuring a woman when I take the sensation I get when MY penis is stimulated, and project it onto the girl's vagina - for example, my shaft stimulation goes to the labia, and my glans stimulation gets projected onto her clit or something. Then, I can imagine how good oral/sex might be feeling for her, and it makes ME feel good.

It's strange, but works for me! It's based on the concept of "sense memory", I learned about it from acting classes (Strasberg & Stanislovsky know what I mean). I take the sense memory from my cock stimulation and "perform" it (in my mind) on the woman.

Now that I reread that, it sounds pretty confusing haha. Good luck! And don't be stressed about it, because she's probably just as worried as you are! Yes, if you're not hard it will be obvious, but if she's not wet, it will be obvious too!

I think thats very true - that its sort of feeling the other guys pleasure that makes it so much better than sex on your own. Like I love rimming guys - cos I know how great it feels being rimmed (plus you can't get much more personal than licking a guys ass)

 

[Lumière]

woman= possible child support

just stay away from them

Yeah, you are definitely running this risk of getting one or either pregnant. I've never been with a woman, so I can't offer any tips; I definitely lost interest after watching this:

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PiaT_RkQ8Gs&feature=related[/ame]​

 

[Nomenclature]

Yes, that can work.
Many women will play with their own clit while you fuck them too. In fact this
is even more foolproof...she's doing it.

Well, it might be a little painful for you if she has long nails.

 

[AsianDream]

Being bi i can say women impose a lot emotional aspects, need a longer foreplay and remain turned on after being fucked.

Good you have a foursome, as like in trio or group the emotional aspect is less or absent and you enjoy pure sex. Being on women or men feels very similar: the body warmth, skin, flesh and bones all feel the same. Breasts are just fat and feel not else than on a male chest, you will miss feeling a penis against yours between the legs, but slip into a vagina instead if the lesbian is wet and willing.

Good you share fetishes with a lesbian couple. When lesbians are interested in a male to share a fetish or for sm, i can assure you lesbo's are great. i 'm close with a lesbian couple and had to do with several other: really worthwhile!

Thanks SM - I did think she was a nice person talking to her - but since then - looking at pictures of female genitals has been a total turn-off for me.

I did get the feeling she liked me - also my budy has since said she thought I was "Cute" and "Girly" - not sure whether I should take that as a compliment or not - I may only shave a couple of times a week - but I'm not Camp (not that I don't like guys who are camp - just it's not my self-image).

woman= possible child support just stay away from them

Yeah, you are definitely running this risk of getting one or either pregnant. I've never been with a woman, so I can't offer any tips; I definitely lost interest after watching this:

Didn't watch the Vid - suspected it was of childbirth? -

My budy already made a sick joke that it would be the second Virgina I'd have been inside of.

I did have the vague thought that they might be after a baby -

On Sunday my budy told me that condoms were a must for "Cunt" penetration - but on Wednesday told me the girl was having a "Cap" fitted and would have the morning after pill (sounds like the older BI woman already uses contraception) - so both holes could be "bareback" (at least guys don't need to be "measured-up" for condoms!).

Maybe he was only telling me so I'd feel bad if I chickened out - as he set me up in the first place. He did give some bullshit about broadening my horizons - but admitted he though both me and the girl are totally hot and the idea of a fetish foursome was awesome and made him really horny.

Guss if one or both gets pregnant and want child support - I'd just have to piss off back to Hong Kong (though guess guys into watersports will be harder to find back there )

 

[AsianDream]

There's a lot of technical things you can do/try and they might work and they might fail. I would suggest that, if possible, you be as honest as you can be and enter into the act both understanding how new you two are to what you're doing. Try and have fun, remember that you're not the only one who's trying to get pleasure out of this and always be open to listening - not just fucking.

Thanks - my main worry is that it'll be totally embarasing

But Im quite curous to try it - anyway - probably a bit late to cancell now anyway - as its on Saturday

 

[playful6969]

Well, it might be a little painful for you if she has long nails.

Uh not. Having done this a few thousand times I can tell you girls know how to handle their clit just like you know how to handle your dick, with nails or not.

 

[ShihTzuTylenol]

Originally Posted by ShihTzuTylenol
Here's a thought too;
___ Have you seen those candies called Pop-Rocks? They're sour and they tingle in your mouth when they get wet.
Anyway, see if she'll let you put some of those Pop-Rocks in the lips on her pussy.
That might be fun. You'll hear them snap, crackle and pop, and her twat will taste sweet like grapes or cherries.

Uhm, I don't think women think yeast infections are sexy. I masturbated after eating a cookie once, and I got the yeast infection from hell in my foreskin. I can't imagine how much worse it would have been if I actually put the cookie in my dick.

The fructose and phosphoric acid in the candy should keep the yeast from activating and rising.

 

[AsianDream]

Well, it might be a little painful for you if she has long nails.

Uh not. Having done this a few thousand times I can tell you girls know how to handle their clit just like you know how to handle your dick, with nails or not.

Thats one thing I was thinking - it shouldn't be too bad - as as neither me nor her are exactly sexual novices - just don't have opposite sex experience.

Thanks for the all the advice - Specialy to bankside for the idea of doing a "show and tell"

Anyway - We're meeting in a few hours now (it's now 5:30pm Saturday here) - I'll let you know how it works out.