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Whats the best Remedy for Heartbreak?

Time will adress the cause of the pain.

To address the temporary symptoms, booze, drugs, or some form of immediate gratification can be self destructive if taken to an extreme. Thus have a friend watch your back.

Most effective thing, keep your mind busy, be active.
 
I find that alcohol abuse and sex with someone you care nothing about always works for me.



(ok, to be fair.. nothing other than just moving on. )
 
Time, its the only cure. Unfortunally you just have to move on with your life and eventually it breaks and your ok again.
 
time, sappy music, and alcohol do it for me.

...and i always have a friend over when I'm like that, just to make sure nothing irrational happens, and someone to talk to.
 
yeah I have to agree with everybody else..Time heals all wounds. It just takes awhile. But hey...don't we wish we could all be like wolverine from X-men? :)

I say sit down an have a good shot glass from my friend "Jack". One won't kill ya! :)
 
Two things I would consider essential would be to completely accept/admit that it's over and to honestly want to move on. Living in denial and/or dwelling on wanting it back will keep you locked in the past.
 
time will do more than anything else, but you will always remember it - like putting your hand in a fire. it's the worst feeling i've ever had. it WILL fade, but we are forever changed by it a little
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time, of course..

and someone new!

It might be hard to believe now, but there ARE great people out there... people that will love you as much as you love them.. give it time, once again.. and keep your options open..
 
Best remedy? Locking yourself in an underground shed with enough provisions to last a lifetime and never seeing or hearing from another living thing for the rest of your life. But it's kinda boring down there, so if i were u i'd settle for the second best remedy, getting back out there ;).
 
Shooting range. High-powered rifle. Bring your ex. Accidental slip-up. No wound left to heal.
 
On the 80's TV SITCOM "The Golden Girls", the slutty character, Blanche Devereaux, gave sage advice "The best way to get over a man is to get under a different one".
While it probably isn't the best advice, it probably also has a second meaning, to not create a fantasy of "What if" but accept it for what it is and move on, don't live in isolation and tears.
In time you'll accept it for what it was - a mixture of good and bad times, of both love and disappointment. But most of all it is just one of lifes' lessons and we should try to derive some beneficial lesson from it.
It seems like a mountain of hurt at first, but as others have said time will lessen the emotional load.
 
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