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What's the biggest turn off for you?

liars and someone who wants sex after the first date
 
Bad hygiene, neediness, junk food addict, drug user, and maybe total slob.
 
Here is my list of rejects or mismatched fizzled-out sparks or nightmares over the years:

Life out of control:
  • drug use or excessive alcohol use
  • no career path, money troubles, bankruptcy due to irresponsible spending
  • anger management issues
  • closeted, grown adult afraid of parents knowing, general fear of being free
  • lack of self confidence being transferred to others: thinks if he's a piece of shit then maybe I am too if I'm interested.

Sex life out of control:
  • Understands the difference between sex and love but only capable of handling one at a time, or at least not with the same person.
  • Thinks fucking a stranger is hot and actually worth doing.
  • Any kind of past with anonymous or I-just-met-you hook-ups.
  • I met you therefore I love you. You love me too right? It's been a week!

Sexual incompatibility:
  • He want to "rim" or be "rimmed" or other weirdness like scat or breath control or whatever.
  • He only wants half a sex life: stuck in a top or bottom rut
  • He wants to fuck while dressed up like the biker out of the Village People.
  • straight acting
  • gay acting
 
Too Many Tattoos
Too Feminine
No career goals
Smokers not willing to quit
Drinks too much
Bad hygiene
Can't hold a Conversation
 
Any of the following are instant turn-off....

Attitude-laden
Too feminine
Bad Hygiene
Mindless head games
Unable to hold a conversation
 
Here are some of mine.

unable to hold a conversation
has violent outbursts
overly judgmental
closeted with no plans of coming out in the near future
never wants to have sex
morbidly obese
a sense of humor that doesn't click with mine or a lack of a sense of humor
not willing to try new things
no appreciation of the arts
being socially conservative
 
- conservative social values
- judgmental / prude
- always has to be right
- doesn't appreciate the arts, culture, intellectual value etc.
- lack of critical thinking skills
- me-show boys
- emotionally cold
 
Younger, pretty, twinky boys who act like little bitches and think everything is about them, expect everyone to worship them. Like the song "Narcissus" by Alanis Morisette.

Ah, thanks for the definition!

I date older guys, but I'm sure there's some older guys that act like that as well.
 
Yup, being a bad kisser is not good, but sometimes that can be changed.
 
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