Did you know that "hijack" is one of the few words in English that contains three consecutive letters of the alphabet in order?
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Did you know that "hijack" is one of the few words in English that contains three consecutive letters of the alphabet in order?
Here we have a thread started by TheBled that was a sincere question about thread hijacking. There was discussion about it throughout all of page one, most of page two and three.
This was a serious enough themed discussion that 3 admin-mods replied in the thread, including JD.
At about post 66 to 83 the thread derailed into nothing but a private playground, and that TheBled's thread could be now treated as a hijack thread. Who is that fair to? This thread was important enough for JD to address, and now it's a series of hijacks. I'm disappointed. If it continues this direction, I shall just move it to Fun and Games. Here's a fun game here - here
Did you canvas the other 72,887 members to discover if they had, in fact, had their say? Perhaps people stopped posting serious responses because they saw what the thread had degenerated into, and perhaps people who hadn't had a chance to view the thread, and who perhaps may have wanted to venture an opinion figured it wasn't worth the effort, because they'd just be laughed at, or be made fun of, for having the audacity or the balls to venture in where they're not wanted.
That is what this type of behaviour is saying in a thread like this: This is our ground, and you worthless sh-ts can just keep the Hell out.
I know I'm going to catch hell for this somewhere down the line... In my humble opinion, you two need to get a grip here. You are all making a mountain out of a mole hill. Yeah, hijacking is both annoying to some people and just par-for-the-course for others. This is a Gay Men's Entertainment Forum for heaven's sake. Not some super-serious, geo-political discussion forum. And the threat to move the thread to F&G is just... low.
You know what, GL made me think of a good point. If this thread was moved to F&G, that would basically mean, no one would be able to add a serious reply to it again, so it turn it wouldn't really be us denying the thread anymore serious replies, as it was intended in the first place.
Sure BLAME ME.![]()
If the thread was that off topic after my post then why was it not locked.
After all,it is just useless banter isnt it?
Sure BLAME ME.![]()
If the thread was that off topic after my post then why was it not locked.
After all,it is just useless banter isnt it?
let me run this idea by you (not my idea - wish I could take credit for it but I can't) :
What if every thread started by the thread starter had a signal in it, as to how they felt about hijacks? That is, what if the title of the thread always had an "OPEN" or "ClOSED" in it to indicate whether hijacks were welcome? I.e. (and this is just a hypothetical) "FDA allowed morning after pill with no prescription - CLOSED" and "Pluto is not a planet - OPEN" - what do you think of that idea?
No,there was no other JUB drama worth posting in at the time,and I needed to let people know in my subtle way to lighten up a bit.![]()
So are you saying that it is acceptable for you just to annoy some people because you know best when a thread is finished? And would you find it okay to just start bumping old threads with off topic posts??
let me run this idea by you (not my idea - wish I could take credit for it but I can't) :
What if every thread started by the thread starter had a signal in it, as to how they felt about hijacks? That is, what if the title of the thread always had an "OPEN" or "ClOSED" in it to indicate whether hijacks were welcome? I.e. (and this is just a hypothetical) "FDA allowed morning after pill with no prescription - CLOSED" and "Pluto is not a planet - OPEN" - what do you think of that idea?
So are you saying that it is acceptable for you just to annoy some people because you know best when a thread is finished? And would you find it okay to just start bumping old threads with off topic posts??
let me run this idea by you (not my idea - wish I could take credit for it but I can't) :
What if every thread started by the thread starter had a signal in it, as to how they felt about hijacks? That is, what if the title of the thread always had an "OPEN" or "ClOSED" in it to indicate whether hijacks were welcome? I.e. (and this is just a hypothetical) "FDA allowed morning after pill with no prescription - CLOSED" and "Pluto is not a planet - OPEN" - what do you think of that idea?
i believe that is the only suggestions that drew and i came up with that might work. back on like page 2. Although you put it much clearer.
I'm curious as to how those who are saying that everyone who may have wanted to post on the subject already has know that for a fact -- and therefore, it's 'open season' in this thread?
People can be away from home, off on business, taking a vacation, having their computer looked at, caught after a storm with no connexion ... and any of a host of other things. Maybe they just wanted a day or two to think over their opinions by voicing them. The point is that we'll never know.
By doing this, a decision is being made about them: that their opinion doesn't matter. True, conversations may wander from their original topic as things evolve over time, but this isn't a natural evolution, this is a sudden and rapid derangement. It's a form of passive-aggressive flaming that leaves those being flamed, both the active posting participants in the thread, and those who didn't post or didn't have a chance to post, no real way to respond, because it isn't aimed an anyone or anything in particular: it's aimed everywhere, and at everyone, and the end result is to derail the ongoing conversation and make and further conversation impossible. And this isn't just about this particular thread.
