whats you excuse

[Flamingo]

I am married and we are fine, the gras is green enough in our own garden.

 

[frankfrank]

My excuse, before I came out, was that I value my independence too much, and no partner would ever put up with it. (I've been driving tens of thousands of miles per year, mostly for the love of it, and who in the hell would put up with THAT?)

I've been out for decades, and that's STILL my excuse. After all, marriage has been available to all of us, even those of us who are full-on "Kinsey 6", for a number of years now...and I'm not even the slightest bit closer to marriage (or even a full time living-together relationship) than I was half a century ago. I think that proves my excuse.

 

[cabinfever]

I don't recall anyone ever asking me though now that I think about the kind of people who would ask - they are usually the personality types I would avoid anyway so maybe that is why.

I did/do freely admit to hating weddings whenever I get invited to one.

My marriage was at City Hall - the witness was the clerk. We told no one beforehand and even waited months to mention it afterward and then it was rare and just in passing.

 

[voltronforce]

Just tell them the truth you anti relationship people. You like random dick n ass and are a complete neypho.

 

[Araucaria]

I belong to a club for older gay men. One time a group of about twenty of us were dining out at a restaurant. A man at another table pulled our president over and asked him what kind of a group we were.

"We're the widowers' club. If you ever find yourself widowed, perhaps you could join us."

 

[frankfrank]

"Everybody's asking me to get married."

"Oh yeah? Who'd ever ask YOU?"

"My uncle, my father, my grandmother, my Uncle Charlie..."

 

[ShadowCat]

Will there be a video available? I'll pay as much as $19.99

Of the ceremony or honeymoon?