When a guy doesn't douch

[TheLoveableLoner]

Oh and just to silence some of the uninformed people here who think dirty sexual acts are only committed by gay men and that this justifies hatred of gays, I'd like to bring up the "Dirty Sanchez"--a term representing an act of smearing feces on your partner's face: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dirty_Sanchez_(sexual_act)

I first learned of this term from (who else?) straight guys. It's been joked openly about television, including South Park and the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin.

But hey, no one will go on saying that straight people deserve to be hated for this, eh?

 

[Wvnudist]

I hope Wvnudist doesn't decide to up and delete his account and leave

we're losing so many members

I'm not going to delete my account I do love this site I do love sex with men a lot even tho I do get a little freaky at times everybody has opinions

 

[eastofeden]

Oh and just to silence some of the uninformed people here who think dirty sexual acts are only committed by gay men and that this justifies hatred of gays, I'd like to bring up the "Dirty Sanchez"--a term representing an act of smearing feces on your partner's face: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dirty_Sanchez_(sexual_act)

I first learned of this term from (who else?) straight guys. It's been joked openly about television, including South Park and the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin.

But hey, no one will go on saying that straight people deserve to be hated for this, eh?

It is nice to be part of a demographic..gay men..that does NOT think this represents all straight people.

IF a gay men DID think this though..how many straight people would worry that it ruined their image? ...or worried that the people who practiced this were representing ALL of them?

 

[rareboy]

alabama hot pocket


.....the art of separating the vagina lips and taking a shit inside (and possibly having sex with it afterwards)

as in 'Shanya decided her vagina needed some lube so her boyfriend performed an alabama hot pocket.'

 

[jbrown329]

^^ OMG! Never heard of that until now. :O

 

[xboxfan34]

Anal sex is unnatural anyway. So deal with the mess.

Okay, Pat Robertson.


I'm sorry, but what you said above is literally what people on the 700 Club say against gays.

 

[NotHardUp1]

I hope Wvnudist doesn't decide to up and delete his account and leave

we're losing so many members

QFT.

We don't have to share the same views on sex here.

His statement was simply an expression of personal pleasure, not a campaign in Congress.

Different strokes.

 

[NotHardUp1]

The whole argument around the axle about natural and unnatural is a red herring, both ways.

Of course anal sex is unnatural statistically in humans, if natural means the statistical norm. It's in the vast minority if there is a meter running somewhere and vaginal sex is tallied against anal. Ditto for homosexuality.

But it isn't a valid argument against it.

And for those who argue that anal sex IS found in nature outside humans, as if that in some way is relevant, it is also true that cannibalism also exists in nature both outside homo sapiens and among us. That doesn't make it acceptable.

The point of natural or unnatural is moot, period, when it comes to taboo. It may be relevant as far as how to approach douching or other measures in relation to health impacts, but not relevant morally.

 

[xboxfan34]

The whole argument around the axle about natural and unnatural is a red herring, both ways.

Of course anal sex is unnatural statistically in humans, if natural means the statistical norm. It's in the vast minority if there is a meter running somewhere and vaginal sex is tallied against anal. Ditto for homosexuality.

But it isn't a valid argument against it.

And for those who argue that anal sex IS found in nature outside humans, as if that in some way is relevant, it is also true that cannibalism also exists in nature both outside homo sapiens and among us. That doesn't make it acceptable.

The point of natural or unnatural is moot, period, when it comes to taboo. It may be relevant as far as how to approach douching or other measures in relation to health impacts, but not relevant morally.

If it was so unnatural, how come both men and women are able to achieve an anal orgasm and get pleasure from it?

 

[nycguydowntown]

Humans have been fucking in the ass since the beginning of time---if you are not into it you don't have to be---if it was unnatural and didn't feel good guys would have stopped a long time ago---straight guys like to do it too with their gf and many straight friends I have have done it---many do it to avoid pregnancy ---especially in poor or religious couples --my Iranian friend said all guys do it to their gf when they are young because a pregnant girl is so taboo and marrying a virgin is go imp----but if it;s not your thing--don't do it.

 

[mikey3000]

Who said anal sex is gross? Eating shit is the vile part.

 

[eastofeden]

He didn't say he was eating shit.....

Depending on the submissive...this is a normal thing with some of them..it is part of the submission. Your biggest sex organ is your brain..and this kind of submissive act helps contribute to the perfect experience for some people....

I don't know if this is the case with him or not...but it is for other people.....

 

[rareboy]

Who said anal sex is gross? Eating shit is the vile part.

You need to learn how to read.

 

[mbamike]

I shower and douche before hooking up with a guy. The smell and look of shit is a complete turn off for me.

I have wondered how douching will fit into my routine when I actually meet a guy with whom I want to have a relationship. I have recently answered that question.

I have been with (had sex/hooked up) this guy for about eight times now. The last seven times I spent the night. We have gone out on a date twice.

My routine has not really changed. I shower and douche before going over to his place. Once I put my overnight bag in the bedroom, we go out on our date which has been eating at a nice restaurant and having some great conversation. Then we go back to his place for drinks, more conversations, heavy petting, and sex.

To date, we have not had any problems with me not being clean. We have talked about it though. He just said we will deal with it. I did buy a Fleet enema and store it in his bathroom just in case though.