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when a guy (possibly bi) stares at you
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I know this happens often, but i want advice. ok here's the story.

theres a guy in college that i really feel attracted to, and i have notice him looking at me a lot, but i don't know what to make of this, yesterday he looked at me and we stared at each other, but then i looked down because i got nervous, i looked at him again and he was still staring at me in my eyes lol. what should I do i have only talked to him a few times but it was during class and about class stuff, we have never had a full conversation, just a few words. i like him a lot but i'm shy and i'm worried that its just me thinking that he likes me, plus I'm a closet bi curious guy so I'm not the kind of person to make a move. please if u can give me ur opinion or if u had the same experience please share :):help:
 
ask him to chill at your place sometime....see wha happens. Find out what he likes/wants to do, etc....just kinda hang out, nsa....no sex...just seeing what happens....
 
the problem is that I have a roomate that i know since i was four, because he is the son of my mom's best friend, so whatever I do is gonna go straight to my mom's ears, so it would have to be him who invites me lol
 
and it is somehow odd to hangout with another guy in your apartment? a classmate at that?
 
Yeah, ask him about stuff from class. Maybe a study date. Teehee
 
next time sit near him. try to get class after he arrives, so that you can pick the seat. as you are walking by him, which im sure he'll be staring at you, say whats up, but very nonchalantly. if you guys get a break during class, start up convo about the lecture, then intro yourself. schedule a study group if possible.
 
You could always make some innocent comment like "Is there something wrong with my hair?" and see how he responds.
 
Maybe before lecture starts, you can talk about the lectures before or something school related, introduce yourself, and then lead into talking a little about yourself to make him open up. Hopefully that will lead to an actual conversation between you two. Then maybe you can hang out by studying together or something. In my first quarter at college, I didn't like approaching people or making a move first because of a fear of rejection. But, I realized that everyone is human like you and me and will usually respond more or less positively if you talk to them in a warm manner. Of course, you will face rejection at times, but that's part of life and eventually develop a thick skin against that. I feel it's better to get rejected than to wonder for the rest of your life of what could have been.
 
Take a chance and be the assertive one. Start a conversation, not about class, i.e. sports, a movie, the weather. lol See where it goes. The more you talk to him the move will be revealed.
Hell, if I didn't do this at my gym I wouldn't have the str8 buds I do now. And most know my story.
Good luck.
 
thanks everyone. I think i'll try sitting next to him an talk to him and take a chance , because usually I would sit behind him.
 
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