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When a pre out girl comes back into your life ?

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Hi Guys

I could really use your feedback on this. I have known since I was about 12 I was greatly attracted to the COCK. As many of us before I came out I tried to play it staight daiting girls. The funny part is when I would be out with these girls on dates I would secretly be checking out the dudes around me. Out of the blue a girl I had fooled around with a bit about 5 years ago called me. I sent her an email with my new cell # to call me 3 months go by I dont hear from her till last night when she tells me her man of 3 years and her broke up. She incesitntly asking me about the girls i am going out with but I dont have the balls to tell her I am gay. I really dont know if she would ever belive me. Guys day in and out I am checking out the studs i pass in every day life , I dont know of anyother term but Gay to descibe the attraction I feel to other guys but this one girl for some odd reason has a hold on me. Its not even a physical attraction but her personality that draws me to her sexualy. I have the feeling she just might want to goet together to hook up and honestly I wouldent say I am BI but I deffinelty could have some hot sex with this one girl. I am all ears as to your guys take on all of this.
 
If you aren't in a relationship then it wouldn't be a problem, unless you know that she isn't going to be able to sustain you sexually. I think it sounds like she wants to date you rather than just have sex with you. So you would probably do her damage if you started seeing her knowing that you would still want the cock. Easy way around it would be to explain the whole situation and see what she comes up with.
 
Blacksheep said:
If you aren't in a relationship then it wouldn't be a problem, unless you know that she isn't going to be able to sustain you sexually. I think it sounds like she wants to date you rather than just have sex with you. So you would probably do her damage if you started seeing her knowing that you would still want the cock. Easy way around it would be to explain the whole situation and see what she comes up with.
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I am very single. Except for a few one nighters I havent had a relationship since comming out. Its somethign very deep about her personality thats draws me sexual to her.
 
Phew. If you're planning on having sex with her at all, I'd at least give her some idea that you've been having sex with guys. Maybe say, "Yeah, the sex life has sort of dried up since I stopped seeing this guy a couple months ago", or any other way you want to put it. I know it's easier to just not say anything, and that's fine if there's no rumpy pumpy in the future with her. But if there is, she really should know.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
Phew. If you're planning on having sex with her at all, I'd at least give her some idea that you've been having sex with guys. Maybe say, "Yeah, the sex life has sort of dried up since I stopped seeing this guy a couple months ago", or any other way you want to put it. I know it's easier to just not say anything, and that's fine if there's no rumpy pumpy in the future with her. But if there is, she really should know.

Lex
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I struggle with this. If you don't have a disease (and if you did it's important because it's a disease, not where you caught it) and are monogamous when you are in a relationship then would do you have to tell them? I do believe that honesty is generally the best policy and in my experience coming clean works out for the best, but I'd imagine saying 'I've had sex with a guy before' would kill quite a few straight relationships before they had even began.
 
I am still very much gay but the last few days I have been thinking of her.
 
>>>If you don't have a disease (and if you did it's important because it's a disease, not where you caught it) and are monogamous when you are in a relationship then would do you have to tell them?

Not if you're on the same page. But you're almost definitely not on the same page. You said, "I am still very much gay but the last few days I have been thinking of her." In other words, she's more of a passing fancy. Someone you'd like to sleep with, but not somebody to get really involved with for a long period of time. But from her vantage point, that's at least a possibility. That you and she are going to make a great couple. I'd say it's only fair to let her know that that's very unlikely.

Lex
 
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