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When Did You Lose Your Virginity?

18, he was 18, all legit. I've never had anal sex (well a couple of attempts for like 45 seconds) and have no interest in doing so, so if that makes me a virgin to you, then goodie goodie gumdrops.
 
reone91 said:
Well sex to me involves penetration in some form (oral, vaginal, anal) but you're entitled to have your own definition :-).
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I count anything you do with another person that leads to (or tries to lead to) orgasm as sex. I have been told that oral sex doesn't count which is why some people call me a virgin. I've really always thought the concept of virginity was silly in all honesty.
 
I was a high school senior, he was in college. I went to the homecoming game of my assistant band director's alma mater. I kept asking him to stop, but he wouldn't. I told my friends the next day that if that's what it took to be gay, I'd just have to go straight. The guy was only interested in getting off, didn't care about me. It wasn't a pleasurable experience, but it didn't stop me. :gogirl:
 
reone91 said:
I've heard many people say the same, though I don't feel that way myself. I think it's a very important concept, mainly because sex can be so passionate and personal, and if you can save yourself for someone special, it will be a bond that you and the person will always have (assuming they hold it to the same value).
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I suppose I felt that way until I lost my virginity to someone I thought was special at the time who ultimately dumped me out wit the garbage within two weeks. Now, I find myself caring more deeply than I could have ever imagined for someone who feels the same way you do, and while I wish I could give him his dream of giving his virginity to someone who is giving theirs in return, the fact that I can't doesn't mitigate the way I feel about him. It's been a lot of trouble and a lot of tears for me, so I suppose I'm bitter at the concept of virginity.
 
reone91 said:
Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. Love triumphs all, I believe, so if you two truly love each other, then I'm sure it will be special in it's own way. If he does know how you feel, I couldn't imagine that not being enough...I would love to have someone who felt that way about me. I don't at the moment, though. Perhaps in the future...:).
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(*8*)Thank you, that's an absolutely lovely thing to say. He's interning on the opposite side of the continent now, but we'll be back together at college in the fall, and I'm going to put every bit of energy I can into letting him know how I feel, and making it work between us... I'm sure you'll find someone to love; there are so many people running around it's probably inevitable. I'd be willing to bet, though, that you'll find it in someone that you wouldn't think of at first - that's the fun part.
 
I was 21 and married to a woman and deep in the closet

as far as me getting fucked, now that I am a single guy, that would be 62 and very much out of the closet
 
About 13 or 14 I think if mutual masturbation counts. 14 or 15 for oral, 17 for anal. I believe the legal age at the time was 21, however I am not traumatised, knew exactly what I was doing and with whom and greatly enjoyed the experiences and regret none of them
 
19. I had been considering it ever since I was 14-15, and I found that at 19 it was about time: it was also a sabbatical year after my deception with my first year at college (like many people, at least in Spain) while I prepared myself to go back.
The first guy I kissed and get intimate with was an independent whore, but I didn't get to fuck because, after the first excitement, I didn't really like him AT ALL: he was upset... no... pissed by that.
Silly me, I didn't trust male brothels but they turned out as the best option... back in the middle 1990s. A house of boys called American Gigolo was my first place.
 
19 with a guy at a club in DC for top, the next year in the same place for bottom.
 
Wow I feel like such a slut compared to the average here. With a girl 13, with a guy 14.
 
With a guy: I was 11, he was 13. I actually pursued him and showed him what to do, it was natural to me. He was the son of my moms friend.
With a girl: I was 12, she was 13. It happened in the Jr High bathroom on a rainy day. She was a classmate.

I guess 13 is my lucky number.
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oral: June 28, 2008 around 10-11:30pm at his place. I remember the date so well because my B-day was just a few days before this took place.

Anal: not yet...
 
16 with a 17 year old. Unpleasant and unmemorable. Wish i'd have waited for my first love who came along after we split up.
 
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