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When family/friends say stuff about gay people around you, not knowing you're gay

ehr8605 said:
Well, my mother's hardly a bitch. She could easily throw me out of the house with nowhere to go.
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Um.. so which is it?

I know that my language can be rather harsh, and maybe that's just a product of my upbringing.

But in the end, listening to a story where I mother makes disparaging remarks about gay people in front of you while knowing that you're gay makes me struggle for a different name to call her.
 
Soilwork said:
Um.. so which is it?

I know that my language can be rather harsh, and maybe that's just a product of my upbringing.

But in the end, listening to a story where I mother makes disparaging remarks about gay people in front of you while knowing that you're gay makes me struggle for a different name to call her.
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Maybe he meant to add int he passive agressive part...
 
Antares said:
I go quiet. I don't really smile or frown. Just meh. I've told who I want to, for now. Eventually, when I get a boyfriend, they will deal. I hope.
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i'm the same. i'll let them know when i have a boyfriend.

i never know what type of facial expression to pull when my family start expressing their views... i've very recently come out to all my friends who are completely fine with it, but my family, if anything, are a bit homophobic.

my brother often says that he hates gay people. nice. but he's 14 and a chav (brits will know what this means) so i guess he's influenced a lot by other kids. my parents don't say that kind of stuff, but they can be narrow minded. well i don't plan on having a boyfriend for a while so i've still got some time to prepare, make hints maybe...

at the end of the day, unless your parents are complete arseholes they have to be happy for you and love you no matter what they say now. coming out to them should hopefully open their minds a bit.
 
Last night my family did that, I just pretended to be interested in something on TV and changed the subject. I love my family but if they are not going to accept me when I tell them who I am - its not my fault. We cant control how they react... thats why I have decided to be completely self-sufficient before I come out to them.
 
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