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When other people are younger/hotter/happier/healthier/richer/smarter than you...

i just tell myself they had better parents. my parents had some sense but generally neglected me because they were irresponsible. they did the best they could, which was not good enough by any means.
 
evanrick said:
i just tell myself they had better parents. my parents had some sense but generally neglected me because they were irresponsible. they did the best they could, which was not good enough by any means.
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That's the worst cop-out, though...
 
The thing is...if you compare yourself to other people you are always going to come up short....and it really is a colossal waste of time. One thing that might help...train yourself to define things for yourself versus accepting existing definitions of anything. Most of it is subjective anyway so it will be a more satisfying journey in life if you adopt that practice.
 
Wow, so much good advice and so much wisdom in this thread. I wasn't a member of this site in 2010 when this thread started, so I am glad that this thread came back. I was going to say that the grass just seems greener on the other side of the fence. I always chased the in-crowd when I was younger (still do to a lesser extent), but a couple of times I got close enough to it to find out that the people in the in-crowd have troubles too. The popular kids in school seemed to have a lot of friends, but when they were down their friends were just acquantenances and didn't help them. Also, looking back, many of the people who bloomed early seemed to fade early too. Yes, do try to improve yourself, but keep in mind a broader perspective.
 
Wow great thread, I had a story about my life but I think there is no need and I will just follow the advice already given.
 
exceeder said:
nd in terms of 'hottness' I just think people each have their own preferences in terms of what they consider attractive in others.. its all relative in my opinion.
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This. My partner is not at all what would come under most guys' opinion of hot. And I'm actually glad that he's not hot in the traditional sense because he is less likely to be pounced on by other guys. I also have to say that I would not have considered him hot when I first met him but getting to know him and spending time with increased his attractiveness to me as I got to know him for the kind, generous loving person he is. I would much rather be with someone who is not as physically good looking but is a great person than someone who is most guys' idea of hot but a prick on the inside.
 
i'm currently fucking this guy who really fits this description, and i am so incredibly envious! i he isn't younger though LOL, but he is good looking (hotter), super social/outgoing, active in cognitive/work/sports matters, richer it is so fucking annoying!
i feel like such an underachiever, the guy has done so many things, had so many jobs (we're both in college)
i had to post this here just to get it out of my system
on the other hand, i guess it may serve as an incentive to improve in all those things (except richer and hotter - those we were born with....of course i might get rich in the future, but can't be a rich child/adolescent....)
jesus, it makes me sad even, but may I try to step up the game!

ah well, though life
 
i curse them.
of course, first i curse my own wretched birth for being born without power. The deck is stacked and no one cares how entitled we feel. Life is cruel. Why should it not be?

But instead of "bettering myself" through "positive" and "constructive" methods, i toss the ol' self help book to the side, i open up an arcane codex, and i find an appropriate curse.

of course, now my house is infested with moths and lizzards but, black magic has its consequences i suppose.
 
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