A little while ago my boyfriend and I went to stay with a friend of mine who owns property in Estonia. During our time there we used his sauna, as this is the way they wash over there - no built in shower! (In fact no plumbed in water there...).
We were all very polite etc, it wasn't a "sexy" environment, just simply the way to get clean - and over there it's the most natural thing to be naked.
BUT whilst we were outside (you sit there for 10 minutes, then go out in the cool, then go back in etc) I began to get hard and noticed my boyfriend did too. I think probably because the experience was quite different for us - we're reasonably shy/private people. What surprised me was that my boyfriend didn't have any qualms about it being visible to my friend. There was a kind of "these things happen" attitude.
That's all fine and, actually, probably quite healthy. I was just surprised, and it feels funny knowing my friend has seen my boyfriend erect.
How would other people feel in this situation? I know I've pretty much only seen people erect in a sexual context, not just randomly.
We were all very polite etc, it wasn't a "sexy" environment, just simply the way to get clean - and over there it's the most natural thing to be naked.
BUT whilst we were outside (you sit there for 10 minutes, then go out in the cool, then go back in etc) I began to get hard and noticed my boyfriend did too. I think probably because the experience was quite different for us - we're reasonably shy/private people. What surprised me was that my boyfriend didn't have any qualms about it being visible to my friend. There was a kind of "these things happen" attitude.
That's all fine and, actually, probably quite healthy. I was just surprised, and it feels funny knowing my friend has seen my boyfriend erect.
How would other people feel in this situation? I know I've pretty much only seen people erect in a sexual context, not just randomly.

