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When you get older, what is thing you fear most?

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When you get to 30 plus, and have lost the magic to attract would you feel the same or would you fear of being alone for the rest of your life? What would you do?

You might have parties or BBQ with friends but you won't have anybody to cuddle in bed.

Curious if a pet would help?
 
lacrayfish said:
When you get to 30 plus, and have lost the magic to attract would you feel the same or would you fear of being alone for the rest of your life? What would you do?

You might have parties or BBQ with friends but you won't have anybody to cuddle in bed.

Curious if a pet would help?
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Carmine said:
I'm only concerned about my 40's plus, that's when you're supposed to start getting anal about your health.
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I am more concerned with 60+

I probably won't live past 50 something but I am worried about if I do live quite long, and end up to the point where my body starts to fail, I become frail and a burden to those around me through injury, illness or mental capacity.
 
I worry about what I can do to make myself happier on a daily basis. The overall goal in my life is to be happy and make the world a better place. Sometimes, the two are hard to mix.
 
Well Lacray, I am sad to hear that you feel that after the age of 30, you will no longer be attractive or be able to cuddle with anyone.

In my case, I was lucky that the guy I met, even though he was over the age of 30 wasn't a loser and became my partner for the last 30 years.

In your case, I would definitely recommend a pet to keep you company.

Or you might just put a little more effort into it and who knows...you might be even able to find some guy to blow you in a dark alley even when you are 34 or 35.
 
johaninsc said:
I have no idea how to respond to your post since I'm not sure if you're trolling, having a language barrier, or are a complete moron...:confused:
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All of the above, I suspect.

A quick scan of his posts leads me to make some assumptions about him. First, he is not 20, so his aging fears are personal. Second, he talks a lot about porn, so he is wanker. Nothing wrong with that, but where is the magic in that? Thirdly, he doesn't exactly know how to win friends and influence people on JUB, so it is unlikely he can attract them in real life either. Last but not least, he assumes that the post-30 years of life are miserable based on his own sad pre-30 years.
As wonderful as our twenties are, life can and does get better in every way after them.
 
AFter 30 i wondered if I could keep up with all the guys who wanted a piece... now that I am over 40 I find I have refined my ability to schedule.

If you are concerned about losing something because of age then you have 1) never been able to attract a mate and 2) wouldnt be helped by age of any variety.

So like RB said you had better get a pet.
 
I'm not a big fan of people so I wouldn't worry about getting lonely. What I do fear is that my body gets uglier and becomes out of control.
 
sixthson said:
...he doesn't exactly know how to win friends and influence people on JUB, so it is unlikely he can attract them in real life either.
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i'm confused by this statement...

how is this verifiably true and certain as a fact...??? :help:

i'm always confused and perplexed as to how certain people (not "sixthson", just others in general) feel they know *ALL* about someone based on a sentence or two that is posted here...?? :confused:
 
As you age, your priorities in life change. I'm now in my mid40s and at this stage I start think more about my health rather than career or being with someone. What worries me most is if I'm diagnosed with a life-threatening illness (God forbid) and I won't be able to look after or fend for myself as I have always had since I turned 19. I hope that if that happens, I'd still be able to function normally physically and mentally and not be dependent on others ALL the time.
 
Right now? Not having a job or savings.

@OP: It's weird you can still have parties BUT being alone. What a weird fear you have, buddy :roll:
 
The thing is - most 40+ gay guys I know are pretty settled, and pretty happy. Some are still single, and some aren't thrilled about the fact, but for the most part, they still live pretty happy lives.

From the vantage point of a younger-20-something who gets most of his "fun" going to the clubs and maybe hooking up with guys, they see this huge void. We're not going to clubs and hooking up, and guys aren't (often) flirting openly with us. So they think since this isn't happening, that we have nothing positive going on in our lives. But that's sort of like a six-year-old looking at those twenty-somethings, not seeing Gogurt or water park trips, and thinking that all the fun in life ends at puberty. Fact is - life changes, and the things you enjoy change. I'm the last to suggest that somebody put away their coloring books or club-going ways if that's really what they enjoy doing. But it helps to be open to new things, and to ditch as many preconceived notions as possible.

I'm over 40, and my life kicks so much ass, you can't even comprehend. How much ass? I still can't figure out an answer to your question. I guess "having my partner die too soon" would be an answer, but it's sort of a half-hearted one. It's not something I spend much time thinking about - I'm too busy enjoying my life.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
The thing is - most 40+ gay guys I know are pretty settled, and pretty happy. Some are still single, and some aren't thrilled about the fact, but for the most part, they still live pretty happy lives.

From the vantage point of a younger-20-something who gets most of his "fun" going to the clubs and maybe hooking up with guys, they see this huge void. We're not going to clubs and hooking up, and guys aren't (often) flirting openly with us. So they think since this isn't happening, that we have nothing positive going on in our lives. But that's sort of like a six-year-old looking at those twenty-somethings, not seeing Gogurt or water park trips, and thinking that all the fun in life ends at puberty. Fact is - life changes, and the things you enjoy change. I'm the last to suggest that somebody put away their coloring books or club-going ways if that's really what they enjoy doing. But it helps to be open to new things, and to ditch as many preconceived notions as possible.

I'm over 40, and my life kicks so much ass, you can't even comprehend. How much ass? I still can't figure out an answer to your question. I guess "having my partner die too soon" would be an answer, but it's sort of a half-hearted one. It's not something I spend much time thinking about - I'm too busy enjoying my life.

Lex
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Lex, I can say as one who knows, you hit the nail squarely on the head. It was always my biggest fear also, then it happened.
 
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