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Curious what it would be like if you pass 40??? Not as attractive and still single, how do you cope?
 
I'm resigned to the fact that i'll most likely be single and out the dating pool by the time i'm 40 and i've accepted it. Not really bothered by it, which scares me a little, but what scares me most is becoming a chatroom hunter...ho-ups and cruising areas...that thought freaks me out and i vow never to do that
 
Just think of people older than 40.
Look at those who are 60 plus ....
 
Mother's side-Grandfather is 94 (passed), Grandmother 89 (living)

Father's side-Grandfather 104 (living), Grandmother 91 (deceased)

Longevity runs in my family, but I don't want to be up for that long. I'm already very tired as it is, I think I've seen, experienced and done enough. I really don't plan going past 32 (my goal is 28) and it's not even about age, I'm just really bored and done tbh.
 
Centipede said:
Mother's side-Grandfather is 94 (passed), Grandmother 89 (living)

Father's side-Grandfather 104 (living), Grandmother 91 (deceased)

Longevity runs in my family, but I don't want to be up for that long. I'm already very tired as it is, I think I've seen, experienced and done enough. I really don't plan going past 32 (my goal is 28 ) and it's not even about age, I'm just really bored and done tbh.
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Wow, i'm sure you go thro alot.
But have you visited places around the world yet? or you think humans are the same everywhere and therefore no need to see things?
 
virgoboy said:
Curious what it would be like if you pass 40??? Not as attractive and still single, how do you cope?
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I'm old ... unattractive ... and single ... but far happier than I ever was when I was young. :D

I did all the LTR living together business years ago back in my 20s/30s, so I've gotten all the needing-a-partner thing out of my system. :gogirl:

Now, aged 50, I am hoping for at least another 20 or 30 years at least if possible ... although all the other male members of my family died in their early 50s. #-o
 
People over 40 are generally more attractive to me. In my eyes, people get 'better looking' with age, not everyone looks better at 20 than they do at 40 ..| (why is 40 being considered 'old'?!)

It's disappointing to see people giving up at 40, there's plenty of Anders' out there waiting for you! :p
 
Don't worry about age, I did not come out until I was 50 and that is when I started dating. It was at 50, when after a few failed dates that I found my Mr. right & he was 58 at the time. We have been together for 7 Very Happy years,so dont give up on dating!! It may take some time but you can find the person that is right for you..
 
virgoboy said:
Curious what it would be like if you pass 40??? Not as attractive and still single, how do you cope?
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I'm past 50. Go to the gym regularly, look much younger, in very good shape. And young bottom guys your age and up to late twenties are always after me! So don't worry, plenty of action past 40.
 
Yeah - I passed 40 over 10 years ago. Life's still good, even though my body well betrays my age, with thinning hair, paunchy gut, and dodgy teeth. Brain still works, though - still able to power out the mathematics!

-t.
 
will be sitting on the rocking chair on the front porch screaming at those damn kids to get off my lawn....

but seriously never thought I would live past 30, but now am past that and feel like I am living in the bonus rounds, just as long as I keep waking up in the morn, every thing will be okay...

am currently partnered, (waiting to be able to marry) so I dont worry about being alone
 
Centipede said:
Mother's side-Grandfather is 94 (passed), Grandmother 89 (living)

Father's side-Grandfather 104 (living), Grandmother 91 (deceased)

Longevity runs in my family, but I don't want to be up for that long. I'm already very tired as it is, I think I've seen, experienced and done enough. I really don't plan going past 32 (my goal is 28) and it's not even about age, I'm just really bored and done tbh.
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Centipide you are a really handsome man and i cant think of anyone who would
not be proud to have you on their arm and to call you my lover.
I am really sorry for asking but is it life in general that you are tired off?
If you fancy a chat please pm me,if not that is ok as well.
Wishing you the best. Adam (*8*)
 
Eh.... it's not so bad.... Let me finish gumming my oat meal real quick....;)

I never thought I'd live to see 30, but here I am now at 47.
I'm dating now and enjoying the experience, but I discovered that at this age I know myself pretty darn well and actually don't want a partner. I truly enjoy the freedom I now have. Didn't see THAT coming.

I have friends, toys to play with, my own business and great health. I can come and go as I please, and intend to stay that way. Other than a FWB, I'm not too worried about getting old alone.

Maybe it's ok to be "single", I no longer mind. Maybe I'll stumble across that one guy that'll change my whole world.

Who knows? I no longer sweat the details. I have realized that I have many blessings to count every morning I get out of bed. Nothing hurts or ails me, I have a sharp mind and still the same youthful curiosity about things that I always had.

Age is just a number, it really is. Growing OLD is something we do to ourselves.
 
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