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When you have bad days.

When I have a bad day, I know it may sound stupid, but i like to get in bed with as many pictures from my college days or partying days or of my niece and just look at them and think about all the fun i've had and will have.

I know it may sound corny, but it definitely helps me get through the bad days.

I hope you're not having a bad day!
 
I seem to have more bad days than good, these days.

I hide in my house with all the blinds down, and read, play computer games (City of Heroes, Everquest II), watch movies... anything to try to forget that I'm me.
 
I usually fire up Halo or some other first person shooter and just mow down everything in sight. It helps to get the aggression out of my system. :)
 
I drink.

Then I throw on some trance, crank the volume, clear the living room and dance.

Which, incidentally, will be this evening. ](*,)
 
I try to get out of the house, go for a walk in the street or in a park with my headphones plugged and listening to music as loud as possible.

Going out and seeing people always helps me, even though I'm a loner by nature... go figure #-o
 
I talk to my friends. They always help me feel better
 
I drown myself in music. On particularly bad days my fave song is a gospel one, but the words make me feel like there is hope for tomorrow:

"Through The Fire" by The Crabb Family

So many times I've questioned certain circumstances
Or things I could not understand
Many times in trials, weakness blurs my vision
And my frustration gets so out of hand

It's then I am reminded I've never been forsaken
I've never had to stand the test alone
As I look at all the victories
The spirit rises up in me
And it's through the fire my weakness is made strong

Chorus:
He never promised that the cross would not get heavy
And the hill would not be hard to climb
He never offered our victories without fighting
But He said help would always come in time

Just remember when your standing in the Valley of Decision
And the adversary says give in
Just hold on, our Lord will show up
And He will take you through the fire again


Bridge:
I know within myself that I would surely perish
But if I trust the hand of God, He'll shield the flames again, again

Repeat Chorus


Hold on, my fellow JUBbers! (*8*) :kiss:
 
A couple shots of tequila seems to help make everything better.....sometimes;)


Truthfully, if it's been a really bad day, I just shut the world out for a bit. Blasting some music is good or getting lost in a movie for a bit. It seems to work for me. Giving it a little time makes those "bad" days seem to be not so bad afterall.
 
I usually run hard for an hour or so. Yesterday, I had a really shit day. It had been raining on and off. The skies were cloudy and dull and it looked like more rain so I decided to give the run a miss. I opened JUB and found a very funny and totally non-PC video about a makeshift translator. Thsi few minutes of fun lifted my spirits completely.
 
when i have a bad day i go REALLY stressed and bad humor to actually do something at the moment, later i just chillout, turn off phone and mobile, and watch tv or go out to walk around.
 
I crawl into bed and want for tomorrow to come.
 
usually.. i go to the gym
but recently, havent been able to go because of an injury so i settle for cleaning or carving
 
pound railroad spikes into my forehead
 
I usually try to avoid people since I don't want to take my anger out on those around me ; BUT I do, IF they are there ....
OR .. I put in a good porn and J/O ... then get a little nap in ..usually wake up feeling better and refreshed .
 
Like a few others up there ^^ I go to the gym, which will be in a bit since I'm mad at my boss and need to try to focus my mind elsewhere which exercise helps with.
After that I'm going to go out, have a few heavy screwdrivers, then come home and go to bed.
 
I usually ignore my inner feelings and get on with whatever it is i'm doing. I'm great for ignoring things.
 
I just step outside and have a good scream! Sometimes it works, and other times it doesn't.](*,) ](*,)
 
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