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Where to meet other like minded males…

firsttimeagain

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Are there places to go that when you walk in the door…everyone knows why you are there? Looking for other like minded males to meet and talk to. I have no idea and would be interested in just having conversation with others. I’ve got a long way to get to where I want to be. If I just had a jack off partner that would be amazing. Boy that’s far beyond meeting and talking.
 
There are but they're in larger cities that have a gay neighborhood or LGBT center.

For everywhere else, it's going to be networking- either in developing a network of gay friends or using social media apps.
 
firsttimeagain said:
Are there places to go that when you walk in the door…everyone knows why you are there? Looking for other like minded males to meet and talk to. I have no idea and would be interested in just having conversation with others. I’ve got a long way to get to where I want to be. If I just had a jack off partner that would be amazing. Boy that’s far beyond meeting and talking.
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I'd love to be a jack off partner.
 
firsttimeagain said:
Are there places to go that when you walk in the door…everyone knows why you are there? Looking for other like minded males to meet and talk to. I have no idea and would be interested in just having conversation with others. I’ve got a long way to get to where I want to be. If I just had a jack off partner that would be amazing. Boy that’s far beyond meeting and talking.
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Shelby29 said:
I'd love to be a jack off partner.
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Even though I'm an elder-gay, I've had very few sexual partners (less than a handful)...not counting a couple of women that I was naked with but only made out with some fondling. My first guy experience was a friend with benefits situation. He was 20 years younger but a very experienced gay man. We started as jack-off buddies and after a few weeks (about once a week) he sucked my dick for my first time. It still took me a while (a few weeks??) before I offered to suck his dick. He never pushed me to do that and we might have even fucked (he sat on my dick) before I sucked him the first time.

Back to your main question...I live in a small community and am 3 hours from a large enough community that MIGHT have a gay-man gathering place to get to know other guys. So for me, local networking would be my only option...and apparently I'm not any good at that. I'm on the gay social apps and my profile indicates I'm really after networking (friends, coffee, meals) but most guys ignore that part of the profile text and just want to hook up. I'm not trusting enough to do blind hookups.
 
Shelby29 said:
I'd love to be a jack off partner.
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I’ve always fantasized about having a jack off partner but I’ve never had any prospects. Seems like a logical place to start. Just watching each other would be amazing Do you think it could only be watching? Or would that be too difficult? Lol. I don’t know because I’m still only curious.
 
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