which feels better, ass or vagina?

[luckynumbah7]

To the people who act like that the asshole requires so much more to maintain cleanliness then the vagina don't know what they are talking about. Both holes need to be washed out. For one women get periods and if they don't clean the external vagina they will stink. Women also need to clean when they piss as well. Further more if a woman doesn't keep a good amount of hygiene she will stink and might get an infection. A good friend of mine had this girlfriend whom he had to make take showers. Her vagina smelled like old codfish and she kept getting cavities because she didn't brush her teeth so I could only imagine what her anal situation was like. Pretty much all of your holes need some maintenance to keep clean or else it will be funky. It might be said that the anus requires more maintenance then others but the other holes both mouth and vagina don't just come out immediately clean either. It takes proper washing and cleanliness otherwise you are in for a fright. Me personally I don't have a dog in this race as I am a Transwoman who only gets fucked and does not top. However don't pretend that the vagina just requires no cleaning and is magically fine. Also as for butt stuff it doesn't take too long to clean if you are efficient and use douches. A nice hotwater bag will get you spotless.

You need to work on what you know about the vagina. It's generally bad to wash with soap, particularly inside, and regular douching, let alone before sex, is NOT recommended as it encourages infenctions - Vagina's are a self-cleaning thing, provided you're healthy. A gentle wash in the shower is all that's needed. That's the whole point. Washing in there before sex is a bad idea. And if his girlfriend smelled that bad, she should either change her diet or go to the doctor. What she shouldn't be is held up to an example as if one's asshole were the same thing.

Also, that's not how periods work. That stuff doesn't linger and you don't need to hose it out like you would an asshole. Christ on a crutch. Of course, if he's having her scrub the damn thing daily no wonder she smells bad - fucked up the good bacteria in the area.

See, I have both, and I know exactly what it takes to clean either one. A generic asshole tends to need a bit more prep. That's why women aren't supposed to wipe front to back. Because one is full of bad germs and the other isn't supposed to be.

 

[luckynumbah7]

I dearly wish I could just spread my legs and instantly have a man thrusting inside me, without the need for endless cleaning and artificial lubrication.

That's not how it works either. Most people need foreplay and quite a few need to use lube that they don't make themselves, as they don't make enough. Then there's if you're trying something like fisting or you've got a ridiculously large dick- also need lube.

As far as cleaning goes, again, douching isn't recommended for the area. I wanna make sure that's clear because the pop-ups that encourage women thinking their genitalia are somehow so filthy that that they need to be scrubbed before anyone sees it is more than a bit self-serving.

 

[Mariatenebre]

You need to work on what you know about the vagina. It's generally bad to wash with soap, particularly inside, and regular douching, let alone before sex, is NOT recommended as it encourages infenctions - Vagina's are a self-cleaning thing, provided you're healthy. A gentle wash in the shower is all that's needed. That's the whole point. Washing in there before sex is a bad idea. And if his girlfriend smelled that bad, she should either change her diet or go to the doctor. What she shouldn't be is held up to an example as if one's asshole were the same thing.

Also, that's not how periods work. That stuff doesn't linger and you don't need to hose it out like you would an asshole. Christ on a crutch. Of course, if he's having her scrub the damn thing daily no wonder she smells bad - fucked up the good bacteria in the area.

See, I have both, and I know exactly what it takes to clean either one. A generic asshole tends to need a bit more prep. That's why women aren't supposed to wipe front to back. Because one is full of bad germs and the other isn't supposed to be.

I didn't say that women need to douche the inside of her vagina will clean itself but the external part will not. After a woman's period for instance she should atleast bathe frequently and wash out the blood that dribbled on the external area. Also my friend's girlfriend smelled bad before hand and it was because she hardly ever bathed. While the internal vagina does clean itself the external vagina does not.

 

[luckynumbah7]

I didn't say that women need to douche the inside of her vagina will clean itself but the external part will not. After a woman's period for instance she should atleast bathe frequently and wash out the blood that dribbled on the external area. Also my friend's girlfriend smelled bad before hand and it was because she hardly ever bathed. While the internal vagina does clean itself the external vagina does not.

Yeah. I know. Then why did you compare the vagina to the asshole and cleanliness? Washing a vagina takes about three seconds. The asshole, not so much. Personally I'm tired of vagina being compared to anyone's asshole in the prep department. Try comparing it to washing a generic dick instead. Which also shouldn't take that long, I don't think. It's a hell of a lot more accurate. And it won't perpetuate the ideas people currently have about vaginas- namely that they're something nasty that has to be consistently fixed before viewing. Because they're not really comparable in how you clean them.

 

[luckynumbah7]

"To the people who act like that the asshole requires so much more to maintain cleanliness then the vagina don't know what they are talking about. Both holes need to be washed out. "

Like that. That's both unhelpful and untrue. Both holes don't need to be washed out. That's what douching is. Only the asshole does, and only if you want less chance of fecal matter, provided one is wearing a condom as the bacteria there is not hospital to other's good health. The amount of work it takes to keep a vagina clean enough for random fucking verse an asshole isn't comparable. Or even not-random fucking. If it's ninety and (general) you've been working and smell like hell and it turns out your buddy is free in ten, then half a minute wiping everywhere down with a couple baby wipes takes care of the body (including the vagina) if you don't have a shower. Tho gonna need to keep a spare set of clothes around. The alternate for cleaning out an asshole isn't similar. I'm not even sure there is an alternate besides douching, I've never found one. Maybe using the bathroom an hour or so before and limiting food products and the intake.

 

[peeonme]

Having had both, ass is the one, I never worried too much about how clean either the ass or the pussy was, I can wash.

 

[luckynumbah7]

...and maybe extreme fasting, as that slows things. But I don't like anal enough to fast for that level of consistent readyness without prep.

Anyway, I'm voting on the ring of the asshole being tighter but the vaginal walls being all-encompassing with less worry. I prefer all encompassing for particularly rough sex, because I know it's unlikelier my partner's going to need medical care if it's too rough or begun sans lube (as that is a kink). I'd think 'better' is a bit of a moot point, depends on what feeling, physical and mental, one is aiming for.

 

[luckynumbah7]

Having had both, ass is the one, I never worried too much about how clean either the ass or the pussy was, I can wash.

Eh, I was always more concerned about damage, as I use condoms and gloves in any case. Even using the largest dildo I have sans lube vaginally is nothing like getting bad anal pain and injury wise. Bad anal is far worse, generally involves tearing and a couple days bleeding and such, ime. I've difficulties judging how rough is too rough for that particular area so tend to stay on the gentler side when giving. I'm leery of things that seem easily breakable, and with the amount of bad bacteria I really don't want to give someone health issues.

 

[peeonme]

Eh, I was always more concerned about damage, as I use condoms and gloves in any case. Even using the largest dildo I have sans lube vaginally is nothing like getting bad anal pain and injury wise. Bad anal is far worse, generally involves tearing and a couple days bleeding and such, ime. I've difficulties judging how rough is too rough for that particular area so tend to stay on the gentler side when giving. I'm leery of things that seem easily breakable, and with the amount of bad bacteria I really don't want to give someone health issues.

TBH, I don't know that I was big enough or rough enough to cause damage, no one ever said "ouch".

 

[FaceJism]

"Instantly" was probably the wrong word, but it's still a hell of a lot less preparation than anal. Some claim that their rectums are naturally clean between defecations, but I've encountered problems with such people.

I never said anything about vaginal douching and do not promote or agree with the practice.

That's not how it works either. Most people need foreplay and quite a few need to use lube that they don't make themselves, as they don't make enough. Then there's if you're trying something like fisting or you've got a ridiculously large dick- also need lube.

As far as cleaning goes, again, douching isn't recommended for the area. I wanna make sure that's clear because the pop-ups that encourage women thinking their genitalia are somehow so filthy that that they need to be scrubbed before anyone sees it is more than a bit self-serving.