White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

[ashonfire]

I'm into all kinds of guys.

Yeah, me too.

The men, bring me them!

 

[palbert]

Had it, been there, done that. (Except for Morgan on Criminal Minds)

 

[Ganoderma]

To answer your question, yes, I love black guys. I think they're damn hot stuff.

^^^^^^ This.

hi HolyEggRolly, welcome to JUB and nice to meet you over here.

 

[refujiunderground]

I want to ask a black guy a sensitive question. I only want to ask because I don't know the answer, not to stir up any shit.

Do any of you feel comfortable with the question? Please PM or Comment me. I really don't want to offend.

you mean the question that the op was asking or something else?

 

[The Fly]

I've never dated a black guy. I'm not opposed to interatial dating, I've dated some very attractive Asians and Hispanics. Attractive Blacks on the other hand, are kinda' like baby pigeons............I imagine they exist, I've just never seen one.

 

[HoodedRat]

Attractive Blacks on the other hand, are kinda' like baby pigeons............I imagine they exist, I've just never seen one.

I've seen plenty of baby pigeons in my time ... and a hell of a lot more stunningly attractive black men.

 

[refujiunderground]

I've never dated a black guy. I'm not opposed to interatial dating, I've dated some very attractive Asians and Hispanics. Attractive Blacks on the other hand, are kinda' like baby pigeons............I imagine they exist, I've just never seen one.

where do you live?

 

[goldenmoth]

Yeah I'm into African Americans. Not specifically, I like guys of all races but I would definitely sleep with a black guy.

 

[HolyEggRolly]

This isn’t directed towards you but in general what I’m sick of is guys on sites like Grindr, okcupid who make statements on their profiles how they’re not attracted to black guys, then message me ‘complimenting’ me about how they aren’t usually into black guys but they would make the exception for me b/c “i’m cute”. And I’ve been told by other friends of mine that b/c my skin is of a lighter complexion that that makes me more desirable than the average black guy in the gay dating world. And with the open platform of the internet where people can just air out their innermost douchenozzle ‘preferences’ for all to see, it just makes this all the more apparent. But personally, quite unlike the OP and many other black gays, I don’t find being the exception to some idiot white guy flattering at all. I find those comments to be very unsavory and annoying. If you’re not into black guys on your profile, stay that way. Don’t hit my ass up expecting me to be pleased b/c you think I’m sorta cute for a black guy. Some white guys seriously need to pull their heads from out of their asses and understand that those comments still strike with a notion that that person is still unworthy to fully receive your ever so sought out and needed consideration. I’m just fortunate and happy that I don’t have to seek out and beg for approval from white guys to validate myself.

I get enough attention from guys of all shades of grey so I really couldn’t care less.

And truth be told the white guys who aren’t into me b/c I’m black usually aren’t shit in the looks department to get it if they wanted it anyway.

>___< That post was so accurate, that it was painful. >__< You're so right. It's fucked up how they say "an exception".. Also, many hispanics do that as well. By the way, I stayed away from OkCupid. It's not really interracial welcoming, or friendly. Or black friendly that is..

 

[HolyEggRolly]

every black guy I've struck up a conversation with on okcupid flaked out of me, but I don't blame the website.

I highly suggest you just stay away from dating websites like OkCupid, BGCLive (yuck, I said that). Not the website fault, but most of the people on those websites are just kinda.. geh.. X_X

 

[refujiunderground]

This isn’t directed towards you but in general what I’m sick of is guys on sites like Grindr, okcupid who make statements on their profiles how they’re not attracted to black guys, then message me ‘complimenting’ me about how they aren’t usually into black guys but they would make the exception for me b/c “i’m cute”. And I’ve been told by other friends of mine that b/c my skin is of a lighter complexion that that makes me more desirable than the average black guy in the gay dating world. And with the open platform of the internet where people can just air out their innermost douchenozzle ‘preferences’ for all to see, it just makes this all the more apparent. But personally, quite unlike the OP and many other black gays, I don’t find being the exception to some idiot white guy flattering at all. I find those comments to be very unsavory and annoying. If you’re not into black guys on your profile, stay that way. Don’t hit my ass up expecting me to be pleased b/c you think I’m sorta cute for a black guy. Some white guys seriously need to pull their heads from out of their asses and understand that those comments still strike with a notion that that person is still unworthy to fully receive your ever so sought out and needed consideration. I’m just fortunate and happy that I don’t have to seek out and beg for approval from white guys to validate myself.

I get enough attention from guys of all shades of grey so I really couldn’t care less.

And truth be told the white guys who aren’t into me b/c I’m black usually aren’t shit in the looks department to get it if they wanted it anyway.

well said. you hit the nail on the head with this posts.

sometimes folks expose their ignorance and thinking that they're keeping it cute when they're not. how they sound acting like you're supposed to be flattered by them because they're white and they find you attractive? that's fucked up.

reminds me of a thread on another forum that i saw last week where there was something from okcupid where this white woman told this black guy in a private message about "how he sounded smart for a black guy" and she was interested in dating him. needless to say, he turned her dumbass down.

some people just need to be real with themselves and need to quit acting like the world is supposed to kiss their ignorant ass.

 

[refujiunderground]

I highly suggest you just stay away from dating websites like OkCupid, BGCLive (yuck, I said that). Not the website fault, but most of the people on those websites are just kinda.. geh.. X_X

okcupid isn't a good dating site at all. it seems like a lot of these dating sites are full of douchebags, desperate guys and jokers. hell, just the fact of seeing so many guys with shitty personalities is enough to make me uninterested in dating anyone and content with staying single. not even interested in having sex with them. wouldn't want anything to do with them period. i'm losing anything by staying single and i certainly am not in a rush. my life is good. could be better but it's good.

 

[HolyEggRolly]

okcupid isn't a good dating site at all. it seems like a lot of these dating sites are full of douchebags, desperate guys and jokers on that site. hell, just the fact of seeing so many guys with shitty personality is enough to make me uninterested in dating and staying single. not even to have sex with them. wouldn't want anything to do with them period.

Yes. >____<' Heh, I was going to say narcissistic, shallow, superficial, borderline idiots. But you just have to think.. "Wow. Although the majority gay guys are this awful, that doesn't mean all of them are".

"reminds me of a thread on another forum that i saw last week where there was something from okcupid where this white woman told this black guy in a private message about "how he sounded smart for a black guy" and she was interested in dating him. needless to say, he turned her dumbass down. "

Um.. What the fuck? How could she even say that?! Since when did appearance have do anything with intelligence? It's a good thing he rejected her, because if she was bold enough, and have thoughts like that in the beginning, there was going to be more problems in the future. Geh, some people. Either she was a troll, or just an extreme idiot. Most likely the second option.

 

[DigitalFudge]

,if you are hot why I wouldn't like to flirt with you?

Thank you. End of the fucking thread.


God this shit kills me. Guess what, there are black guys that are butt ass fucking ugly. Then they want to run around and say its "racism"
When the Abercrombie and Fitch model wants something with muscle mass, a nice head of hair, and cute face



I'm so glad I don't have this pathetic ass mindset.

 

[vacancy3]

some of the best seed ive swallowed was from a huge black cock....many many times

 

[thewiz]

When I was first coming out in May of 2005, I went to Chicago at the suggestion of many on this site. I also visited Steamworks and my first company was with a young, black lover who taught 10th grade at an all-boy Catholic School in Chicago. He was amazing! Mind you, I had only had one other interraction with a man prior to that point so it was mind-blowing (among other things blown that evening). After I moved to DC, I regularly enjoyed the company of black men. Their skin is beautiful and I find something almost seductive about them. I have many black friends as does my husband but he notes that I particularly like black men! lol!

 

[refujiunderground]

Thank you. End of the fucking thread.


God this shit kills me. Guess what, there are black guys that are butt ass fucking ugly. Then they want to run around and say its "racism"
When the Abercrombie and Fitch model wants something with muscle mass, a nice head of hair, and cute face



I'm so glad I don't have this pathetic ass mindset.

let me say this about some of you young guys today and let me get this point across very, very clearly.

get this through your head. YOU ARE NEITHER BEAUTIFUL OR UGLY. YOU ARE YOU. IF YOU RUN AROUND THINKING THAT EVERYBODY IN THE WORLD IS GOING TO THINK YOU'RE THE HOTTEST GUY ALIVE, YOU WILL BE IN FOR A WORLD OF DISAPPOINTMENT. NOT EVERYBODY IS GOING TO THINK YOU'RE HOT. there's a difference between being confident with yourself and running around with this bullshit such as "i'm cute. i'm dropdead sexy. every guy wants a piece of me." well, the truth of the matter is there are some guys that will let you and there are those that don't. what happens when you run into somebody that doesn't think you're a 10 and let's you know that?

i'm so tired of some of you young bucks coming out the woodwork with your insecure asses talking about "how good you look?". you may be decent but quit with the superficial bullshit. i don't some of you guys realize how pathetic you come off talking about how hot you think you are and run around gassing yourselves up off of a few compliments and etc as if the whole world is going to think you're hot. you need to come back down to earth and get with the program.

 

[DigitalFudge]

let me say this about some of you young guys today and let me get this point across very, very clearly.

get this through your head. YOU ARE NEITHER BEAUTIFUL OR UGLY. YOU ARE YOU. IF YOU RUN AROUND THINKING THAT EVERYBODY IN THE WORLD IS GOING TO THINK YOU'RE THE HOTTEST GUY ALIVE, YOU WILL BE IN FOR A WORLD OF DISAPPOINTMENT. NOT EVERYBODY IS GOING TO THINK YOU'RE HOT. there's a difference between being confident with yourself and running around with this bullshit such as "i'm cute. i'm dropdead sexy. every guy wants a piece of me." well, the truth of the matter is there are some guys that will let you and there are those that don't. what happens when you run into somebody that doesn't think you're a 10 and let's you know that?

i'm so tired of some of you young bucks coming out the woodwork with your insecure asses talking about "how good you look?". you may be decent but quit with the superficial bullshit. i don't some of you guys realize how pathetic you come off talking about how hot you think you are and run around gassing yourselves up off of a few compliments and etc as if the whole world is going to think you're hot. you need to come back down to earth and get with the program.

I see you quoted my post, but I know for a fact none of that dribble you wrote is in response to me when I never once referred to myself or how I looked. Clearly I touched on a nerve and you responded to your feelings, not a single thing I wrote.You can call me insecure when I log onto an internet forum foaming at the mouth about guys who have a heightened sense of self.


Your point, as usual, is misplaced, misguided, and out of context to what I said.

 

[loveguys72]

On topic, I like a guy for his personality and intelligence. Good looks certainly don't hurt, but they're not what seals the deal. Skin pigmentation is completely irrelevant.

 

[bankside]

every black guy I've struck up a conversation with on okcupid flaked out of me, but I don't blame the website.

No, that kind of chafing only comes from failing to use enough lube.