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White Twinks into Black Men?

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in general i'm colorblind when it comes to who i find attractive. however, there are times when i actually practice reverse discrimination: i get these serious yens for chocolate, especially dark chocolate :) i love the velvety look of a built guy with beautiful dark skin, the way it shows off his muscles and erection. i love the feel of his thick lips. and i love the visual of his beautiful black cock entering my pale butt. i think the fact that i don't get to see this makes it all the more sexy.

alas, i am no longer a twink :(

several of the black men who i have met have been on the DL, which is a major turn off for me, regardless of how hot they are. and a lot of them are only too happy to fuck you, but kiss? no, that would make them 'queer'.

there are a lot of unfortunate stereotypes about the black man's 'mojo', that i think put off a lot of white and asian guys: they're afraid they're going to be treated like 'bitches'.

a real concern is the amount of unsafe sex and denial that exists among black guys on the DL, which has the highest rate of new HIV infection of any homosexual sub-group. this situation isn't helped any by the social conservatism in the black community.

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i'm a big fan of some of these 'amateur/college' porn sites (Sean Cody randy blue, corbin fisher). however, their biggest shortcoming, so far as i am concerned, is the nearly complete abscence of anything other than white boys. it's odd, but i think seeing interracial porn would help validate, and even promote, interracial relationships in real life.

so ironic that the biggest gay porn star today, matthew rush, is a light skinned black guy who had to dye his hair blond at the start of his career!
 
I am not a twink either. And have never been with a black guy. I am from western new york and there just aren't many/ any black guys here. I am a little uncomfortable around black people when I see them in cities. I feel like I cannot read them the same as white people or something I guess. I do not think I have a bias or am bigoted I just don't feel like I know them or have some sort of common frame of reference. I do feel like I am missing out on knowing people who are genuinley good people but I don't know how to overcome the gap. I did meet a black guy in Rochester a month or so ago and thought he was really cool though so maybe it just hasnt been the right situation for me otherwise. I guess I am trying to address why other white guys might be intimidated by you...
 
If a guy is hot or has a great personality, I don't care if he is Black, White, Asian, green, etc.
 
I grew up in a city with a lot of black men, so I am perfectly fine with being in the company of different races. Actually, I find black men one of the hottest turn ons for me. I consider myself a twink since I'm pretty young and have a good build. However, I could see how some men could be anxious to be around some people. Its not uncommon but there's also no reason to judge someone either.
 
It's hard to know why they're scared of you without seeing a picture of you!

Skin colour, just like age, gender, religion, shape or size mean nothing to me aslong as the person is cool ;)
 
Haha. I used to have a pic up of me showing off my body and lots of people thought I was white mostly due to the lighting. Guys would constantly message me and things like that but when they found out I was black, they would stop talking to me. Oh well, their lost. I would have rocked their world. :-D
 
crisco said:
As a black man myself, I have been in my relationship with my white boyfriend for 5 years now. He is my world & I very rarely notice anybody else when we're out together. There have been times when my boyfriend seem to get adverse treatment because we're together but we do not care about what others think. Some people just feel uncomfortable dating outside their race. My advice for you is to continue to be yourself & one day that special guy you're looking for will find you, not matter what race he might be.
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I met an interracial couple last year at DC Gay Black Pride....they had been together ten years!

Good luck to you and yours.
 
Black and Latin guys are mostly the only guys I get into to.
I love me some dark meat!(!)
 
I'm a white twink - small framed blond bubble bottom. I am totally obsessed with black cock - the bigger the better.
Like big muscled black stud types but also slim thug types.
My best experience yet has been a 5 black gang fuck.

Any black guys who want to be sucked and fuck my brains out - get in touch.

TB
 
I was with a white lady friend back in hish school. Man we could never live it down and that was only in 2002. I got called every racist thing in the book. We had to break cause her parents did agree with it. Now Im dating a white guy and he wont even let me meet his parents because of it lol. We just keep it between us. Tight little ass on him though
 
Here's a quickie Dr. Phil inspired comment, they aren't afraid you. Uou've decided that they are afraid of you, that's what you put out there in the "universe", and that's what they read, and this what you get in return: "every single one I've come across has been afraid of me in some way or another. Even when the attraction between us is blatant, they keep a distance."

All of the above is relevant to your issue, even the goofy stuff. The truth of the matter is that "what you don't know' is that they are merely reflecting your energy (yeah, I know rocks and berries and loads of other new age crap). Nonetheless you should take a moment to figure out what you are afraid of first...work on that, and I guarantee you will better understand the genesis of the fear and gain some true insight to what it is that you don't know.

Finally, try to get your hands on a copy of DeWayne Dwyer's, The Power of Intention. As a caution, when you learn more about yourself you just might find that "white twinks...into black men" isn't in the end (pardon the pun) what the doctor ordered.
 
Apologies for double posting; I needed to correct a couple of typos. Mega pet-peeve. Hope I caught 'em all.

Here's a quickie Dr. Phil inspired comment, they aren't afraid of you. You've decided that they are afraid of you, that's what you put out there in the "universe", and that's what they read, and this what you get in return: "every single one I've come across has been afraid of me in some way or another. Even when the attraction between us is blatant, they keep a distance."

All of the above is relevant to your issue, even the goofy stuff. The truth of the matter is that "what you don't know" is that they are merely reflecting your energy (yeah, I know rocks and berries and loads of other new age crap). Nonetheless, you should take a moment to figure out what you are afraid of first...work on that, and I guarantee you will better understand the genesis of the fear and gain some true insight to what it is that you don't know.

Finally, try to get your hands on a copy of DeWayne Dwyer's, The Power of Intention. As a caution, when you learn more about yourself you just might find that "white twinks...into black men" isn't in the end (pardon the pun) what the doctor ordered.
 
I have to disagree with Asher Lev. Pls don't be offended Asher, but his profile doesn't give his age or place of residence. I wouldn't care to agree with Dr. Phil.

I grew up in San Antonio Tx on the southside in the fifties. SA is predomantely Latino and Blacks were still segregated mainly on the east side therefore I hadn't met any Blacks. At school there was only one black kid that was several grades behind me. I don't like to say my parents were racists but racially ignorant. They grew up believing the BS that is the great problem still with many people, therefore, I was taught not to hate but not to associate with Blacks. They had Black friends at work but not privately. But I didn't feel that was the right way to live.

My first experience with a Black man was when I was in the Navy, I was 18. The locker room on Waikiki Beach always had the light in the restroom stolen. I was at the urinal and a man grabbed my cock and put my hand on his cock and kissed me. He was huge and kissed like no other I have had up til then. When we went into the light I saw he was Black and it scared me. Not the man I saw, but all I had been taught. He was my age and probably in the military. There was a white man there and I went to him instead of leaving with the Black man. I regretted it the next day and since. I believe it is the way white children are taught and then we have to come to our own beliefs when we get out in the world.

I have known four Black men in my life that I would love to had a relationship with, but would not have wanted to put them through meeting my family. My parents have passed now and my racist/homophobe brother is no longer in my life. I am involved with a young Black man now and after all these years I have hopes for that relationship I have always wanted since coming to my senses.

You just haven't met the right white boy. We are out there.(*8*)
 
latigolad78374, totally cool to disagree with me. May be what you say is what's going with theStonePrince. Without some more concrete detail and info from theStonePrince we are all making suppositions and assumptions and effectively grasping at straws in order to fill in the blanks. Statistically it is not possible for every White twink he encounters to be afraid of him. Keep in mind he has slept with a few Few can be one of those nebulous words that can mean a little or a lot; I digress. Without actual numbers to crunch I can't completely say that if I am on or off base here, but it has to be more than lack of contact and issues of race--remember he has slept with a few. So effectively they weren't all afraid, unless as in your experience he met them all in a dark place and once in the light all of their "stuff" came up and despite the mutual attraction felt compelled to bolt. My personal and family experiences with blacks past and present is completely opposite than yours...so perhaps I can't really speak to theStonePrince's issue(s).

How about for this for concesus...all of the above.
 
I'll get it right one of days (the first time) I promise. Apologies.

few. Few can...
more than a lack of contact...
How about for this for concesus...
 
im 19 ..white...guess you could call me a twink...really into black guys even tho ive never done anything with one.
 
Just a thought - when I complained to a close friend that no one ever approached me, that I always had to approach them, he told me that I looked intense - so I started catching my reflection in mirrors and he was right - I do look intense. Now this is funny, because I'm one of the silliest, most laid-back guys around but my face doesn't match my personality. I made a conscious effort to smile more and to laugh more with my friends and it had an amazing effect - guys started to approach me and always ended up telling me "I thought you were a little intense but once I saw you laughing with your friends, I thought maybe I'm wrong." Like many guys, I'm also a bit nervous in gay social situations and that probably didn't help either. So, why not give it a shot - try to smile more often and to project a friendly, approachable vibe - it might pay off!
 
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