you know you are always one of my favorite people here, ruby !!!
 
even when we go silent for a while
 
hugs
 
as GL said, there are so many people here who have been so kind to me that i could never even try to make a list of them, but he would surely be high on it if i did. Jake West, Jeremiah, Inwood, DAVID35, Centex, Puka, Epicadam, Stevenavy, Kyanimal, JD, Mazdaboi, Ronboy, Elle, averageguy, lady grey, Sinfullsimon, Pegasus, Pianist, and one of my personal heroes, NickCole, constantly humble me with their kindness and their deep toleration for my harsh moodiness. I also can't not mention Kahil, even though he is no longer here and we broke up a year or so ago.
 
the list is alot longer than that though... christopher, riverrick, Robertac, Sausageeater, gosh just a host of people i wish i could get to know more precisely because i admire their gentleness....
 
the support I recently got in the thread where i disclosed my HIV status was deeply moving because it showed me that Kindness is the norm here when its important.
 
There are times when we disagree, but that only means we are being honest.
 
there are others, I think that are nice without being "Kind" in a traditional sense by holding honesty above all else, even when it isn't easy to hear ....
 
Soilwork, SB, Johnny Yenn, adidas, BenF.... all men who place principles before popularity and wind up being "popular" just for that reason....