Who has it worse, black or Asian guys?

[roguehunter]

i dont condone racism, but i know its out there, everyone has it just as bad as everyone else. as long as you find people who love you, try to forget about the people that dont.

 

[belamy]

What´s the difference?

 

[xcasex]

Black AND Gay guys have it worse. Man, we have it worse than regular black guys. Oh, btw, I'm black. And you know what? Other black guys do NOT like, borderline HATE me and I have no idea why. I live in PA, and I went to DC for Pride last year, and I swear every black guy down there looked at me like they wanted to kick my ass. And for what? They didn't even know me. Just because of the way I carry myself.

And I do love me some asian men. I wish I could find one around here...

 

[belamy]

I have heard very few overtly racist remarks towards Asians, but zillions of them against blacks.

From the Asian to begin with...

 

[freekyguy]

Yet again.

 

[Muscles4daze]

I'm Italian and I love both, I do find myself seeking out black dudes a lot, but Asians catch my eye on the regular.

 

[Apollo]

But that dude pissed me off from day one. He made a point to say "my roommate, this BLACK DUDE", instead of just saying "a dude". It also pissed me off when he said, "I don't find any men in the house attractive".....in all liklihood he wouldn't find ANY black man attractive.

This from a 22 year-old flamer. So, if it's coming from there, it's coming from other places, and I do think Asians get treated badly.

Dude I dont think he meant it as racist. He was just giving his friend a general idea of what he may look like. I would say that if I was on a phone with a friend. Your searching for something that isnt there. Not to mention, this cast of guys isnt that attractive. I mean he said he wasnt attracted to ANY of the guys, including the dude from Houston, Alex I think his name is. He didnt say "i'm not attracted to the two black guys" really.

I'm not sure who has it worse. I would be inclined to say black men, seeing how I am black and have felt some of it. Then again I am in a long time relationship with someone I love so I wouldnt have as much experience with feeling prejudice in the gay community. I am also inclined to say blacks because of a thread that was on this site, I believe maybe a year or two ago where gay night clubs were denying entrance to black men for no good reason. I believe it was in San Francisco as well. Someone correct me if I am wrong about the location, but yeah. I mean why would they do that?

As for asians, I dont think it is necesarilly racism, as some stereotypes that are out there about them. Such as, them having small penis' and stuff like that. I mean asians have been well excepted in our society for much longer than black people. Or atleast that is my opinion.

 

[taccky]

all the famous asian ppl are not very good looking. e.g william hung, that guy on survivor, harold and kumar go to white castle etc, they use so many ugl asian men to represent us, it makes ppl think asian men are ugly. when there are so many who aren't

 

[e2ksj3]

In the gay community? Asians probably have it worse because of the "small" stereotype.

In the world in general? African-Americans have it FAR worse. I have heard very few overtly racist remarks towards Asians, but zillions of them against blacks.

(btw, I've daydreamed about meeting a black professional; not a flaming queen or a thug type. Gentlemen, where are you?)

I'm right here!

I don't know about asians, but me as a black person, I have it bad in general. I can't even count the number of times, people have just instantly stopped talking to me, after finding out I was black. Blacks (well at least from my own experiences) seem to be more homophobic then the generally population, and one of the main reasons I haven't really told my family of my feelings. My cousin cut off all ties to his best friend, for coming out, and called him "a f---ing f-g".They have this whole macho pride, thug thing going on.

It's fustrating as hell, b/c outsiders seem to view the majority of blacks as this way, when in fact I'm the exact opposite, and I'm not a queen. I think that's what scares people about me... I don't fit their stereotype at all, and they don't know what to expect and don't have to courage to try something "different". But yeah it's really fustrating...........

 

[james1200]

all the famous asian ppl are not very good looking. e.g william hung, that guy on survivor, harold and kumar go to white castle etc, they use so many ugl asian men to represent us, it makes ppl think asian men are ugly. when there are so many who aren't

the asian guy on "lost" is super hot, as is... .... ....eh. hmmmm.

 

[belamy]

Huh?

No entiendo, me amigo.

Racist remarks and behavior from Asian towards black people.

 

[luminum]

I think, like all minorites, asians get looked down upon or viewed 2-dimensionally. Very rarely are we represented with depth.

It's always martial arts, intellect, science, technology, small penises, or asian mysticism.

 

[herenthere]

If your not a blue eyed blonde your going to have strange experiences.
I'm from Israel and because of my skin tone...ignorant people always assume I'm Muslim. I have been asked if I have a bomb in my shoe, and been told many many times to go home.and...of course I'm Jewish..another whole chapter...

I just roll my eyes, and get on with life
True..it hurts and can really piss ya off, but consider the source!!

 

[bma1983]

If I had to say which I truly thought had it worse I'd say blacks simply because the hair texture, facial features, etc. of blacks are about as far as you can get from the widely popular standard of european features and attractiveness. I've honestly always thought that has something to do with why I've heard people say they won't date blacks as a preference more often than other races.

Good point.

 

[Corkles]

Also, WHY DON'T ASIANS GUYS WANT OTHER ASIAN GUYS FOR THE MOST PART? If I do find one, it's like damn, finally. You never can.

Amen,honey....AMEN!

I don't think I've ever seen two asian guys together.

I think Asian guys have it a bit easier in the gay community. That is....if you want a caucasian guy. Asians have a better chance with white guys than black men do. And there are hella few asian guys willing to date black men IMHO.

If you are open to all races,then maybe black guys have it easier.

I'm black and I like it all....bring it on....I will date the rainbow...true love doesn't have a color to me.

 

[Andreus]

Amen,honey....AMEN!

I don't think I've ever seen two asian guys together.

I think Asian guys have it a bit easier in the gay community. That is....if you want a caucasian guy. Asians have a better chance with white guys than black men do. And there are hella few asian guys willing to date black men IMHO.

If you are open to all races,then maybe black guys have it easier.

I'm black and I like it all....bring it on....I will date the rainbow...true love doesn't have a color to me.

honey

you ARE a walking rainbow

hugs !!

why dont you post as much anymore????

 

[Corkles]

How many black guys are willing to date white guys?

This one does....

and Andreus...I didn't post as much because I had some ...let's just say....undercover enemies...that have been removed.

I'm still around.

PM me sometime.

 

[Corkles]

And you are white, will?

 

[Corkles]

Again, I believe this is a regional phenomenon and you cannot make blatant generalizations. Here in Texas, black dudes seem to have an easier time.



I think the same can be said for most black men.

I can only go by my experiences IJBML and I know tons of black guys that date outside their race.

 

[james1200]

fuck me! i am too pianist...this is the same fucking thread as 50 others in the past month... we're not allowed to duplicate poop threads but this same ol' shit is fine? pffffffft!

how about i summarize everything that was said in all the threads...."asian men like only white men, black men like only white men and white men like only cylons". there.