Who has it worse, black or Asian guys?

[Corkles]

I don't understand why that is happening to you IJBML..

Much love to you in your future endeavors....

 

[xcasex]

^^ Yeah, I do too...the ones that only want white guys. Funniest part of all, is that they have the same Afrocentric features they so despise in a partner, and refuse to date. Self hatred anyone?

It even cuts beyond features, because I'm probably the whitest looking black dude feature-wise you've ever seen, and many black men in Texas won't even take a second glance at me. Then, get mad when all the whites want me, and not them. I get zero e-mails from other blacks on MHUNT, all white and Latinos.....I don't get it.

Man, I feel you on that stuff. For real. The dudes on these dating website crack me up. Black guys looking for "white guys ONLY" and white guys looking for "white guys ONLY." Please give me a break. What the hell does ethnicity have to do with anything? I love men PERIOD. I'm more interested in your personality than where your skin falls on the color spectrum. And I don't have it any better. I look more "mixed" than all black. Most of the time, people think i'm spanish and I have to correct them REAL fast. Still, I don't get any play. Though, there have been more white guys interested in me than any other ethnicity though......weird....

 

[e2ksj3]

Yes I am white, but if i dressed in clothing 10 times to big for me, talked with a slur voice, rapped, and hung out in front of liqour stores I am sure I would be treated the same that the black people do who do that.
but if black people talk inteligently and dress in clothing that fits them they will be treated well

it doesnt matter what color i am and it doesnt matter what color anyone is. it all depends on how they present themselves in life, which is why I think it is a decision on how badly people are treated. I mean sure there is some stereotypes and racism about color still, but it lies in every race and it is not happening that much anymore.

It's not quite that black and white as you make it to be. I can act, intelligently, carry myself in a well manner way, and still get treated like I'm some kind of thug. It has happened to me. There have been many times, when I would be enjoying a good conversation with someone, and then when I show them my pic, they instantly stop talking to me. I've also experienced a lot of white people, who assume, I like rap, although I've never mentioned.

Things like that may not seem like a big deal, but when you start assuming other things like blacks are lazy and all thugs, and you're in a position of power, it becomes a real problem.

 

[Joshua_me]

Fat boys have it the worst in gay community, next in line are lesbians - both groups have always been very unpopular in the bushes.

Uh huh....

Johnny, meet the bears....Bears, this is Johnny. (when he doesn't have
his mountain bike up his ass....he's a nice guy, I swear...)

And as far as lesbians and 'bushes' go.... well.....

Let's just leave it there,

Joshy

 

[Muscles4daze]

Yes I am white, but if i dressed in clothing 10 times to big for me, talked with a slur voice, rapped, and hung out in front of liqour stores I am sure I would be treated the same that the black people do who do that.
but if black people talk inteligently and dress in clothing that fits them they will be treated well

it doesnt matter what color i am and it doesnt matter what color anyone is. it all depends on how they present themselves in life, which is why I think it is a decision on how badly people are treated. I mean sure there is some stereotypes and racism about color still, but it lies in every race and it is not happening that much anymore.

Will I have been monotoring a lot of your posts, and a lot of the things you say are very stereotypical, immature and close minded. From your posts it's obvious you don't interact with blacks much because if you did you would realize what you are saying is ignorant. Your not a black man, so I don't see how you can speak on wether or not black men are discriminated against. My best friend is black and he does not identify with any of those stereotypes that you mentioned above. It amazes me how the moderators of this board allow members like you to post the nonsense that you do. You are a perfect example that racism still exists in this country. As a gay man you should be the last one to make generalizations about anyone. I no longer will waste my time replying to any of your posts because your a lost cause.

 

[xcasex]

Will I have been monotoring a lot of your posts, and a lot of the things you say are very stereotypical, immature and close minded. From your posts it's obvious you don't interact with blacks much because if you did you would realize what you are saying is ignorant. Your not a black man, so I don't see how you can speak on wether or not black men are discriminated against. My best friend is black and he does not identify with any of those stereotypes that you mentioned above. It amazes me how the moderators of this board allow members like you to post the nonsense that you do. You are a perfect example that racism still exists in this country. As a gay man you should be the last one to make generalizations about anyone. I no longer will waste my time replying to any of your posts because your a lost cause.

That's what I'm saying. If you aimed to make stupid generalizations and perpetuate stereotypes, then you did a good job, because I could not be any farther away from those stereotypes.

 

[bma1983]

Yes I am white, but if i dressed in clothing 10 times to big for me, talked with a slur voice, rapped, and hung out in front of liqour stores I am sure I would be treated the same that the black people do who do that.
but if black people talk inteligently and dress in clothing that fits them they will be treated well

it doesnt matter what color i am and it doesnt matter what color anyone is. it all depends on how they present themselves in life, which is why I think it is a decision on how badly people are treated. I mean sure there is some stereotypes and racism about color still, but it lies in every race and it is not happening that much anymore.

I think you just managed to insult every black person on this site. Me included. Why do I get the feeling that was your goal?

 

[james1200]

gaywill is a little slow. it's not his fault. gaywilly, my white cousins dress that way. should they be treated like shit or is it ok for a white person to dress any way they want???

"hang out in front of liquor store"...that one made me laugh. you're an idiot but an unintentionally funny idiot. stop watching "boyz in the hood" and go out and meet some people different from you.

 

[james1200]

i wasnt saying all black people do that, or even most i was just trying to get my point across that people get treated by how they represent themselves.
and i dont actually think it is right for anyone to dress like that.
it looks gross, the clothes dont fit, and it makes people look like they are in a gang.
also i wasnt trying to insult anyone like someone posted about me
i just have my own opinions and when i see someone dressed like a slob on purpose i think poorly of them but when someone tries to look decent it reflects well on them no matter what color they are

i think they look hot cause i like the hood look...perhaps it's all about how and where you're raised. nobody's asking you to fuck them.

you're one uptight preppy fucker.

 

[Shafted]

I think it's the "young girl/bad boy" phenom.

Young women tend to gravitate towards your stereotypical bad boys, but as they get older, they wisen up (well some of them) and find that nice guy to settle down with. I know my analogy isn't exact, but I've noticed that young white gay men tend to only date other twinks, but as they get older they may leave the sandbox, so to speak.

I'm a 6'5" black male with an athletic build and I've been approached by men and women of several races (and a few couples). I'm considered dark-skinned in the sense that I'm not light-skinned, but if you see me right after a hot shower, my skin has this reddish tint to it.
I read a study that dark-skinned black men, while still considered somewhat intimidating, are beginning to win people over because they tend to soften their appearances with a smile and laid-back demeanor.

The lesson: relax.

 

[The_Reaper]

I'd say that anyone who doesn't measure up to today's ideals of beauty has it the worst.


Allow me to explain.


I have a straight friend, who weights somewhere above 400 pounds. He's an alright fellow, in small doses, and so forth.

Since he's moved to a larger city, he's been involved with many women for the fact that they consider him "cuddly". And from the report of another straight friend, the women who hit on him could certainly have their pick of boys.

Whereas in the gay community, this rarely seems to occur.


It seems there's many disadvantages towards being gay...

Measuring up to facial expectations of beauty, body shape and size, cock size, and so forth....

It's almost enough to make you wish you were staight...Then you remember how much you like cock and shake that silly thought off...

 

[starlight70]

I was at HK International Airport recently, and I had seen how good Western guests were treated compared to the Asians - black or not.

Basically there is a second class treatment for Asians by some, like it or not.

 

[jamie_01930]

from my white eyes I would honestly say the blacks have it harder than the asians

 

[xcasex]

I think it's the "young girl/bad boy" phenom.

Young women tend to gravitate towards your stereotypical bad boys, but as they get older, they wisen up (well some of them) and find that nice guy to settle down with. I know my analogy isn't exact, but I've noticed that young white gay men tend to only date other twinks, but as they get older they may leave the sandbox, so to speak.

I'm a 6'5" black male with an athletic build and I've been approached by men and women of several races (and a few couples). I'm considered dark-skinned in the sense that I'm not light-skinned, but if you see me right after a hot shower, my skin has this reddish tint to it.
I read a study that dark-skinned black men, while still considered somewhat intimidating, are beginning to win people over because they tend to soften their appearances with a smile and laid-back demeanor.

The lesson: relax.

SEE!! Only black men who look like that get all the play. What about the medium toned guys with curly hair? Nobody wants me!!
That's one thing I hate. In all kinds of media, that's how black men are portrayed, as these dark skinned ebony Gods. I don't look ANYTHING like that! I hate that because I feel in a way that's saying "Unless you're a black male who looks like THIS, then no one will be attracted to you." Yeesh...it's a bitch...
Rant Over.