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Who is into fem guys?

I am a little turned off my anyone that is over the top and brings way unnecessary attention to themselves. That pretty much goes for anyone, not just fems, etc.
 
I have a phobia of trannies lol. i think that you should be what you are and not try to change yourself. being gay or bi is ok but shemales and trannies are just changing what they are whitch is never a good thing. that is just my opinion.
 
Outrageous said:
This sounds so ridiculous, you resent those who contribute to the stereotype. So people shouldnt be who they are or rather how they are? Doesnt the fault lie on those MAKING the stereotype and not those BEING stereotyped? Like I said earlier, some times the mannerism just comes out that way, usually without any forethought. I thought this is why the gays make such a hoot about pride but I could be wrong.
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No kidding. How stupid and idiotic. What he's basically saying is that people should be the way he wants them perceived and to fit the mold of what a perfect gay community should be according to him. People shouldnt be allowed to be themselves because of people like him who have an ideal image of what a gay person should act like.

Im more in the middle than anything else. Though I have been known to be on one "side" drastically (when watching sports I can be very "masculant" but when I clubbing I may be more "femmine"). But either ways, I'll be damned if I ever let some dude tell me how I should be acting. Whats more, I'd be damned if some guy ever rolled his eyes at me with "scorn" and let him get away with that without being approached.

I find it ironic and hypocritial how this community, which has fought long, and continues to fight, for social acceptance, yet there are people within the community who can't even do the same thing.
 
to answer the original question. I have dated all types of men. Different shapes ,sizes and colors..Usually not into fem guys, but have dated a few.
 
I'd say a lot of it would be to do whether someone's genuine or not. Someone acting stereotypically over-the-top-campy can be just as off-putting as the macho jock who has more muscles than brains, if both are putting on an act instead of just being themselves. Me, I tend to dig people who are generally Not Butch, but not "effeminate", if that makes sense (er, compare David Tennant to Graham Norton or something). Idealising any gender/orientation stereotype and trying to conform to it is such a turn-off--whatever happened to individuality?
 
giorgiobaby said:
to answer the original question. I have dated all types of men. Different shapes ,sizes and colors..Usually not into fem guys, but have dated a few.
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This is about what I'd say. Except to add that some of the fem guys have been great!
 
I am into emo boys. They are sexi.
Aren't these dudes close to being fem?
 
I don't mind a guy being fem as long as he looks like a guy (girl dressed guys are a no-no simply because I don't really dig girls, but of course I respect them).

That being said I don't know how 'straight or gay acting' I am. Probably somewhere in the middle. Not fem, but I don't think I fool everyone as 'straight' guy... Really hard to tell.

Last but not least, I don't think 'fem' guys "act" to be like that. They probably are that way since around childhood and they just don't give a fuck about it, which is very nice.
 
Mattzrider said:
I am into emo boys. They are sexi.
Aren't these dudes close to being fem?
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I was seeing one for a brief bit and even helped him pick out girl jeans to wear...this, of course, went GREAT with my uber-thug white and black guy straight guy friends :badgrin:. The kept their mouth shut and attributed it to me going to a predominately white institution for education.

He always maintained that he was a guy regardless of the clothing, the speech, the mannerisms...pretty much his whole being. But we had some fun times, it was in public that the contrast between him and I was highly controversial and tense. Plus sometimes he would go out of his way to make things more awkward than it should have been for people with regards to sexual tolerance and people's statments...I understood where he was coming from, just not to the militant degree he assumed.

He was a cutie though, kinda miss him :(
 
Midnight77 said:
No, I act like a normal person. When I first came out to people last year, they were shocked ... said they had absolutely no idea. I suppose they were expecting the stereotypical walk, talk, limp-wrist, etc. The only way you are going to find out I am gay is by talking to me about what my interests are ... and then over time always wonder why I am never talking about women, or why I am not a huge sports fan (just now getting into football a little more), etc. But, no you would not be able to tell by my mannerisms at all. I am very conscious of that in public.

Now, as far as being harassed, no I am not going to go up to any fem-guy in public and harass them. I may roll my eyes with scorn, but I have enough decency to keep my comments to myself.

My mom and I were talking about this over the holiday, and she thinks I'm being too hard on Fem-Guys. She says she thinks they can not help, but act like that.

If that is the case, then Fem-Gays on here need to simply talk to me and have a conversation with me about it. Not saying my opinion can't be changed, but if I have an incorrect perception of Fem-Gays then simply convince me that it is something that can't be helped and that people are "wired" this way.
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These two statements are amazing. Please try to figure out why.
 
Slansky said:
Cliche of the day: "Different strokes for different folks." But frankly, I think a true homosexual wants a MAN! (I know I certainly do!)
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What an idiotic statement. A true homosexual as opposed to a fake one? Who gets to decide what a man is supposed to be like and what a woman is supposed to be like? The mass media? I guess in that case no one here is a true man since you're all into cock.
 
nurseboy269 said:
I am a little turned off my anyone that is over the top and brings way unnecessary attention to themselves. That pretty much goes for anyone, not just fems, etc.
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But what does that have to do with feminine men? It seems like people have one idea of feminine men which is someone like Chris Crocker. The overwhelming majority of feminine men, both straight and gay, are nothing like that. Femininity covers a large spectrum of feelings, behaviors, mannerisms, and interests. Being over the top is not what feminine is.
 
TrdMrk said:
I was seeing one for a brief bit and even helped him pick out girl jeans to wear...this, of course, went GREAT with my uber-thug white and black guy straight guy friends :badgrin:. The kept their mouth shut and attributed it to me going to a predominately white institution for education.

He always maintained that he was a guy regardless of the clothing, the speech, the mannerisms...pretty much his whole being. But we had some fun times, it was in public that the contrast between him and I was highly controversial and tense. Plus sometimes he would go out of his way to make things more awkward than it should have been for people with regards to sexual tolerance and people's statments...I understood where he was coming from, just not to the militant degree he assumed.

He was a cutie though, kinda miss him :(
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Yeah you understand TrdMrk. It is a unique gay experience maybe
Guess who's coming to dinner, right?
 
marcholm85 said:
okay i have two takes on feminine guys. 1. i would never date a fem guy, it's a turn off. if i wanted a female i would date one, no offense. it's just my preference on what kind of men i like. same as if i were straight, i would'nt want to date a female who acts tomboyish, it's a major turnoff. and 2. being friends with a fem guy(s) is a different story, i don't ever want to deny anyone a friendship. i love everybody and will and can befriend anyone.
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You make good sense.....I never would of put that analogy together!..|
 
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