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Who wants to marry my brother?

  • Thread starter Thread starter Soilwork
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I'm all for ex-cons. And I don't really care what he did to become a con. Kill a guy? Sell drugs to kids? Cheat little old ladies out of their savings? So what?

I would care that he'd learned something about life while resting up in the big house. The past is the past... the present is what's important. What kind of man are you today? And what kind of man do you plan to be tomorrow?

The kids, however, are a no-go... and Pasadena's pushing it, too. So I guess I'm out of the running.
 
As long as the person was honest, dependable, and didn't treat me like crap, then yeah. I believe the past is the past. Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone learns from them. I would love to find mr. right and settle down, and i would love to one day have kids.

Tell your brother I would love to talk to him/meet him. If he's half as nice as I've heard people say you are on jub, then he would be a really great guy.
 
Soilwork said:
OK, no, he didn't kill anyone.. I'll explain after he gets out.

And if you wanna see him, check out my gallery.

But really.. looks aren't important (and no, he looks nothing like me at all.. we're not biologically related.. long story). I just wanna know if people could move past his past and build a future.
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Oh, I guess I could, I don't think he would date me.

I also you aren't relatives??? :confused:
 
We're relatives, he's my brother.

He's adopted, which is why he has a different last name (who'd wanna go through life as Carl Mark?) Kinda a long story there. Not worth boring you with.

All you need to know s that biologically related or not, he's my brother and I want the best for him. And that includes a famliy and a settled life.
 
I really do not see why someone would not want to date and or settle down with him. Sure he has a past, who the hell doesn't?!?

I would but alas I am in a committed relationship and probably too old for him.

I have a friend that was in jail for murder, it was a long time ago for her, but she is still a friend, everyone fucks up, who am I to judge.

I could do the kids, suburbs and a Eco friendly car, but I wouldn't be able to do an open relationship. I tend to be a jealous bitch when it comes to my man. I don't share well.:twisted:
 
He'll get it, if he wants it. But stop depressing me; i doubt there's very much about me your little brother would find appealing, and i live across the country. I want to own my own plant nursery, so id have to be in mixed-usage zoning. (suburbs, ick.)
 
I have to say that this is a hard one to answer honestly. I know alot about you and your bro from post's you've made. Based on that I would date/settle down with either of you, cause your personalities are awesome. If I had to make a judgement/decision based on no previous knowledge I might hesitate to do so because I have a daughter and I'm very protective of her. I doubt that his crime was anything harmful to people just based on what kind of things you say about him. Its most likely a b&e or auto theft cause he seems like the type that likes the thrill/rush of it. If thats the case I would go ahead and settle down with him cause people grow out of that type of behavoir.
 
Soilwork said:
OK, no, he didn't kill anyone.. I'll explain after he gets out.

And if you wanna see him, check out my gallery.

But really.. looks aren't important (and no, he looks nothing like me at all.. we're not biologically related.. long story). I just wanna know if people could move past his past and build a future.
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Okay... of all those pics in your gallery, I couldn't see any way to tell which ones were of him.

But as for being an ex-con -- I know a former cop who's a con because he pissed off a US attorney who proceeded to frame him, an ex-con who served for rape and the woman he supposedly raped brags about how she got him "put away" when he never touched her, three ex-cons whose only crime was to possess substances they used for enjoyment and never harmed anyone... so ex-con doesn't mean a thing to me until I know the content.

If he likes the outdoors and being naked a lot of the time, I'd think about a future with him, if he fits in my comfort zone WRT physical type -- no problem.
 
It would certainly cause me to procede carefully in a relationship.

But, I do believe that people have the capacity to change and to grow, and if he connects with a good guy on a loving and generous level, I can't imagine not being willing to fall in love with someone who would give me those qualities back.
 
Yeah, my final post in that is pretty telling.

As is my first.

I mean, I wouldn't date an ex-con who was in jail for a violent crime, I don't think. I dont' blame anyone for being nervous about dating my bro, either...

But a non-violent crime? sure.

Anyway, no... he's not an arsonist. Nor is he at all flaming.
 
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