Whoa, first time hooking up with a guy!

[hackingnomberr]

Frottage, making out, head, basically everything but penetration!
I couldn't cum though?
I had no real problem keeping it up and I definitely find this guy attractive, so why didn't I achieve the level he was at? Eventually I just decided to make him cum and leave kinda awkwardly haha. Whenever I thought of hooking up with a guy I always assumed I would cum just by touching him, but that's obviously not the case! Also, I feel weird having no feelings for this guy, like I'm down to be friends but other than that I feel nothing which was also not in my expectations. But anyway, why didn't I cum? Too much alcohol? Penis differences? But regardless boo ya, first hook up with a dude!

 

[AlmondMilk]

nice! sounds like you enjoyed! Well, I've had hookups where I couldn't cum. There were also times where I was with my ex and just couldn't cum. It may have been anxiety. Or maybe you just take awhile to cum with a guy.

It normally takes me awhile to cum from oral unless I haven't jacked off all week Maybe you're in the same scenario.

 

[genthree]

don't analyse it too much. I have met a guy that I just bar up with all the time, I don't analyse it too much..............

 

[racer2438]

Most likely just nerves from the anticipation of the hook up..

just be more relaxed next time. cuz if your not it may happen again or worse, no hard on or you lose the hard on..

 

[hackingnomberr]

nice! sounds like you enjoyed! Well, I've had hookups where I couldn't cum. There were also times where I was with my ex and just couldn't cum. It may have been anxiety. Or maybe you just take awhile to cum with a guy.

It normally takes me awhile to cum from oral unless I haven't jacked off all week Maybe you're in the same scenario.

Haha yeah like I couldn't make myself cum either though I don't think, and I had already jacked off that day, I wish I came with him though.
;c

 

[Quacktastic]

just be more relaxed next time. cuz if your not it may happen again or worse, no hard on or you lose the hard on..

However, don't be nervous about getting nervous, otherwise you'll be more nervous.

I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[altlover85]

Haha yeah like I couldn't make myself cum either though I don't think, and I had already jacked off that day, I wish I came with him though.
;c

Try not jerking off that day. It will probably make things easier.

How much did you have to drink that night?

 

[hackingnomberr]

Try not jerking off that day. It will probably make things easier.

How much did you have to drink that night?

Hahahaha, I had no intention of hooking up with someone that night, especially since I'm closeted, so I did my usual shower jerk combo!

And who knows how much I had to drink, I went to a party earlier in the day, then went to another that night.~

So a lot?

But I was hard the whole time, just no real sensation, I asked to like do him but he was not down. ;P

 

[KaraBulut]

If at first you don't succeed, go back for seconds.

 

[AlmondMilk]

Next time try edging The end produces a lot of cum.

 

[altlover85]

Hahahaha, I had no intention of hooking up with someone that night, especially since I'm closeted, so I did my usual shower jerk combo!

And who knows how much I had to drink, I went to a party earlier in the day, then went to another that night.~

So a lot?

But I was hard the whole time, just no real sensation, I asked to like do him but he was not down. ;P

Oh, okay. It was probably just the booze.

One time when I was drunk I was pretty hard, maybe not as hard as normal, but nothing really happened. It was as if the connection was lost if that makes any sense.

 

[hackingnomberr]

Oh, okay. It was probably just the booze.

One time when I was drunk I was pretty hard, maybe not as hard as normal, but nothing really happened. It was as if the connection was lost if that makes any sense.

Yeah I thought about the whole connection issue thing, I think I came off as sort of a spazz since I'm in this whole gay thing alone haha.

Kara~I actually have thought about it, I kinda wanna hook up with him again, but I'm not sure about the impression I left (I can't remember everything completely) so I'm not sure if that door is still open.

Almond~Ew, I did that once on webcam with some guy, the end result was a mess and I gave myself a facial, never again.

 

[altlover85]

Yeah I thought about the whole connection issue thing, I think I came off as sort of a spazz since I'm in this whole gay thing alone haha.

Kara~I actually have thought about it, I kinda wanna hook up with him again, but I'm not sure about the impression I left (I can't remember everything completely) so I'm not sure if that door is still open.

Almond~Ew, I did that once on webcam with some guy, the end result was a mess and I gave myself a facial, never again.

I meant a physical (neurological?) connection with your dick to your brain. As in you could get hard, but you weren't able to make the mechanisms work to get off, if that makes sense.

 

[bhandsome]

Ah, I can't wait to have my first sexual encounter with a guy...

 

[hackingnomberr]

Ah, I can't wait to have my first sexual encounter with a guy...

Haha, I thought the same thing, to be honest it wasn't as enjoyable as I had hoped it would be.~

 

[Burberry]

Haha, I thought the same thing, to be honest it wasn't as enjoyable as I had hoped it would be.~

Wait until a dick is up your ass...

 

[hackingnomberr]

Wait until a dick is up your ass...

I wanted to be the one doing the dicking, but he was not down haha.
He wanted to cum in my mouth though, so I didn't think my suggestion was too out of line given that.

 

[Jacks-Mannequin]

Woah your experience sounds exactly like my first time which was only last week, except I managed to go that little bit further and penetrate as well

I too came away with not as much emotional attachment as I thought I might have done. Which I suppose is a bonus as it means if things don't work out or develop into anything serious then it wont be as hard to get over.

I didn't give everything up though so It kinda feels as though he may come back for more as he really did want to do me as well. I don't think I was quite ready for that just yet.

Just like you, I had trouble with cumming, although I did manage to get there eventually, it just took far longer than expected. I reckon it was the nerves to be honest as I expected to cum just from touching him like you did and for it to ruin the whole moment, so I was rather impressed with myself

I'm sure next time it wont be so awkward and you will be able to relax enough to get to climax.

 

[hackingnomberr]

Woah your experience sounds exactly like my first time which was only last week, except I managed to go that little bit further and penetrate as well

I too came away with not as much emotional attachment as I thought I might have done. Which I suppose is a bonus as it means if things don't work out or develop into anything serious then it wont be as hard to get over.

I didn't give everything up though so It kinda feels as though he may come back for more as he really did want to do me as well. I don't think I was quite ready for that just yet.

Just like you, I had trouble with cumming, although I did manage to get there eventually, it just took far longer than expected. I reckon it was the nerves to be honest as I expected to cum just from touching him like you did and for it to ruin the whole moment, so I was rather impressed with myself

I'm sure next time it wont be so awkward and you will be able to relax enough to get to climax.

Fingers crossed!
I mentioned penetration and he was not down haha. He kept trying to finger me, so I think if I was bottoming he'd have been down, but well, I wasn't ready and even if I was, his penis size was not enough to really make bottoming very enticing. :S

 

[hotslim]

sounds nice, I'm really looking forward to my first experience