Whoa, first time hooking up with a guy!

[KaraBulut]

If at first you don't succeed, go back for seconds.

Kara~I actually have thought about it, I kinda wanna hook up with him again, but I'm not sure about the impression I left ...so I'm not sure if that door is still open.

Note that "seconds" aren't limited to the same door. Nor do you need to be drunk to turn the knob.

 

[TX-Beau]

Yeah, and if you can't remember if you're welcome back, you had a lot more to drink than you think you did.

 

[hackingnomberr]

Note that "seconds" aren't limited to the same door. Nor do you need to be drunk to turn the knob.

What do you mean by same door?
And being drunk makes the knob a lot easier to grip! ;]
Besides, I wanna actually have knowledge of where I stand before I try to go in sober.
Boy does it sound like I'm making excuses for myself!

TX~ Well we were both drunk, a welcome back under those circumstances doesn't necessarily mean welcome back haha.

 

[slnattak]

Real life isn't porn world. Real life isn't a romantic novel either though. I think it's somewhere inbetween.

You didn't feel anything for him because he was a hook-up fuck, and emotional connection takes time.

And the reason you weren't all 100% sexually thrilled is because sex is EXTREMELY overrated, true it's still the hottest thing in the world and one of the most pleasurable things you can do, if not 'the most pleasurable' but still, it's one of those things that's best when you're not planning it, when you both just really want to do it animalistically, but you don't PLAN for it- instead you know them from somewhere else.

And it's hottest when you don't know that he's gay. But it's also hot when you don't know he's straight either. Where he's a MAN you're into, and not a label or some sort of weird head fantasy that we do to gay and straight guys.

People who cruise online for sex are usually deadbeat losers. It's true. Not always, but there's really no thrill of the chase or excitement for me there, only a sense of desperation. No offense or anything, but I think if you're expecting or planning on it too much then the natural erotic forces can't properly surge through you....

 

[KaraBulut]

What do you mean by same door?
And being drunk makes the knob a lot easier to grip! ;]

Same door = same guy. There are plenty of other "open" guys.

Boy does it sound like I'm making excuses for myself!

 

[TX-Beau]

TX~ Well we were both drunk, a welcome back under those circumstances doesn't necessarily mean welcome back haha.

Well, that's the point though, a lot of alcohol not only lowers inhibitions and impairs judgement, it impairs performance.

 

[mbamike]

I have hooked up with several guys and rarely cum on the first meeting. I am always the bottom. So, don't worry about it and don't over analyze it either. Just enjoy being with another guy.