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Whore Phase

jayamsterdam

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I'm kinda devastated. A guy I was good friends with for a year - we started messing around. He denied he was gay but then one thing led to another and we were engaging in sex acts quite frequently. Then his girlfriends started questioning our friendship and he got weirded out. By then I had already developed feelings for him and on my bday he decided to tell me to go away. I was devastated. He then started "coming out" to his close friends.
I now see him advertising discreetly on craigslist. Apparently I opened Pandoras Box and now he is in his whore phase, but it hurts. I know the simple solution is to stay away from Craigslist and not see his ads, but how do I ever overcome him? And I went through the whore phase myself, I wonder how long it will take for him to get it out of his system?

I'm 26, he's 22...he has a 2" penis, no joke - I liked him regardless - normally I'm pretty picky about size. I dunno why that detail even matters but who cares...I'm just grieving right now :(
 
The bottom line seems to be that you're jealous he's not whoring with you. Keep in mind that it's his life. Fixating on him will be debilitating to you. The only person you can control is yourself. Find some healthy distractions for yourself so that you don't stay stuck.
 
I would tell him how you feel ... If he rejects you I wouldn't feel to hurt about it ... Seems like he did the right thing by not leading you on ! Must give him some credit for that ?
 
You're from San Francisco. Overcome him by meeting others. Problem solved.

I strongly disagree you handle your emotional problems with sex it will lead to other things you don't need to be worrying about
 
Well honestly, im sure you can find someone other than worthless guys with 2' penises. I also live in Frisco, yet there are a ton of amazing guys out here in Cali. Meeting another won't hurt at all, it will probably even solve your problems. So i agree with "Rolyo85".

PS: Men from SF are the sexiest, but hey.. there are a ton of better men out there that can treat you better. So leave that wanker and go get mingling =)

- Lux
 
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