Why Are Girls Into Me And Not Guys?

[MajorApollo]

God... I feel like this happens to me a lot...
One of my friends, while drunk, came onto me really strong. She lifted her dress up, got real close and asked why I wouldn't love her. She doesn't realize it, but I get weirded out when I'm around her now.
There are other close girl friends who tell me that all their friends think I'm hot, but when they tell them I'm gay, they won't even talk to me...

 

[KTheLibra]

I have the exact same problem. So bizarre. And unfortunate.

Sigh.

 

[youngnihilist]

I used to have that problem. Solution? Start hanging around gay establishments or around gay men. Then you don't even notice the girls!

 

[Lube]

Okay so i jst had a discussion last night with a girl who had a crush on me, telling her i cdnt return the feelings. I felt bad but im gay and not interested. Now today i run into this girl who is hitting on me and i told her i wasnt interested. Llike wat the hell!
Has any been in this situation. I never get ANY attention from guys, but girls seem to fall head over heels for me. Why is this happening and is there any way to make myself more attractive to guys instead???

By default, straight people (90% of the population) expect to meet straight people. You seem like a nice guy. Maybe handsome, too. Not pressuring her for sex.

Women love that.

That's why there are fag hags. Well, common interests, too.

Why aren't guys hitting on you? Well, are you out? Do you go to gay activities? Do you hit on other guys? Flirt with them? Talk with them? Talk about common interests with them?

 

[evanrick]

this sounds stupid and horrible but maybe your not acting gay enough. i dont mean being an all out flamer but maybe dressing gayer will help.

 

[kramer362]

Well unless it's common knowledge among every person that you're gay, most guys don't feel comfortable hitting on another guy in the offchance they're gay since most straight guys would feel uncomfortable being hit on by a dude.

 

[Corny]

Interesting that so many share this experience.
I am only very rarely hit on by girls, but never had a problem picking up a guy ..
Maybe it's because I just don't show the girls any interest at all?

 

[AlmondMilk]

For some reason girls often want what they cant have. Plenty of times have I heard girls say "Oh, damn, the hott ones are ALWAYS gay."

Haha, I've heard that plenty of times too XD

 

[Mirage]

Okay so i jst had a discussion last night with a girl who had a crush on me, telling her i cdnt return the feelings. I felt bad but im gay and not interested. Now today i run into this girl who is hitting on me and i told her i wasnt interested. Llike wat the hell!
Has any been in this situation. I never get ANY attention from guys, but girls seem to fall head over heels for me. Why is this happening and is there any way to make myself more attractive to guys instead???

Wanna trade? When I meet gay guys they won't go away. Even straight guys ar looking at me. I wish that girls did this more to me, because I could realy use the attention of girls the last view weeks.

 

[tonym86]

To some extent, lonelyface is right. A lot of people are put off by "attractiveness". They feel intimidated, especially for shy people. In a public place especially, it can be difficult for a guy to walk up to another one.

Even at this stage in my life, I have more "girl" friends than guy friends. I don't why but it is just that way.

I have the same issue. There's a guy I really have a crush on, and I think he may be interested(possible Lil signals here and there)

Problem is when I'm sitting next to him in class, it's like I forget how to talk or my brain goes totally empty. He's just so DAMN cute he intimidates me!

So yeah, there could be plenty of guys interested in you, they just do like me and chicken out cause they don't believe someone as good looking as you could ever be interested in them...

 

[LonelyFace]

It's sad to know that we're really so insecure on the inside, but at the same time, something about that knowledge is quite refreshing...