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Why are some guys REALLY interested in seeing MY cock?

rjason2425 said:
You are right to be on guard. I sent out the wrong pic one time that showed my face and cock in it.
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Even I, who knows nothing about hook up sites, would assume this is a bad idea. What were you thinking?
 
I said it was an accident. That pic was meant for someone else.
 
I gotta ask .. what is the difference between sending a "cock pick" and a "cock pick with a face in it"?

Is it okay to send a cock pic?
Is it okay to send a face pic?
but not okay to send two in one?
 
Apparently some guys are turned on only by dick........others want the whole package.
I don't care how gorgeous a dick is........if he's not attractive TO ME........not interested.
 
Ok here's the thing...

A lot of guys that I've talked to on these hookup apps usually want a face pic before ANYTHING and so do I. There are some guys who all I need to see is a face pic and I'm instantly attracted to them and don't need to see any other part of their body because I know they'll look good.

Then there are other guys who I'm iffy about so I want to see EVERYTHING. I hate meeting someone and being unpleasantly surprised.

It sucks because some people are HORRIBLE picture takers and even though their pictures are bad, I might be VERY attracted to them in person. That's why initially meeting someone at a bar or whatever is different. If I met a hot guy at a bar I wouldn't ask for pics obviously. I can tell by his voice, smell, mannerisms, walk and looks that I wanna hook up with him and just assume he looks good underneath.

I live in New York and have spoken with A LOT of guys on these apps/sites and most of them really just want face pics. I don't mind sending dick pics though because I mean, if your face isn't in it how would people know it's yours?

That's why I have very few FULL BODY pics. I have pics with JUST my dick and pics with JUST my face or just my torso. All of the pics have different lighting and such so if someone does pretend to be me I'm not too worried.
 
jubdown5 said:
All of the pics have different lighting and such so if someone does pretend to be me I'm not too worried.
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Hey what do you mean by lighting? How does that connect to you not being worried of someone impersonating you?
 
Maybe they want to know if your shaved, or hairy, big or small, cut or uncut, these are all ques. that guys want to know who want to bottom or go bi with you.
 
I've caught a guy using my dick pic as his. he insisted it was his until I pointed out the planter on the background. I initially replied to his ad and got his interest and his address. I told him it was my pic and I now had his address and it would be in his best interest to take it down. he did.

sending a fake pic is a terrible idea. what are you going to do when you show up and the dick pick you sent doesn't match? I had that happen too. I told the guy I couldn't trust him and left. not everyone will care or notice, but some will and I think that may be what you're running into. guys want to make sure you're legit and that you don't have a nasty looking dick. let's face it. guys lie about their dicks and in the finicky world of hookups they want to see what you REALLY have.

I'd take one that ONLY showed your goods don't include anything in the background or your tattoos etc. nothing that can be traced back to you. if they ask for more just say you only send one and that's it.

I think MOST of them are just trying to make sure you're legit and will match your pic when you get together.

Steven
 
IF they are "bi" or "discreet" they don't want anyone to know who they are. And, as many guys as this might offend, they're not even happy with who they are. They're still battling accepting that they like men. So, from vast experience, they want to make sure they're going to be turned on by your dick - not your face. Otherwise, as you put it, they would want to be attracted to "you" - the "you" that's above the waist. So, they want a "hot" cock more than they want a "hot guy" who might have a perfectly nice dick, but not the one of the fantasy that they are building without ever meeting you. Be careful: you sound like you have a heart, and this 'hooking up' if done a lot will eventually turn you into a jaded guy. Saw this a lot in the 70s in San Francisco, (The 80s in SF were different, due to AIDS, and the 90s even more different, but even so, having your heart when your 60 will serve you a lot more than having a 'hot dick' or any other body part in terms of happiness).
 
Chris :wave:

I want to see your Cock because I'm fascinated with Dicks! :drool: *|* :bj: (!) (!w!)

Nothing Personal. Nothing "Meant". I'm simply Curious. I was born to "Perv" on Penis! :badgrin: :slap:

SO ... Show me, Please? :-< (group)

Keep Smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
When that is a first request I send them this picture as it is a tell-do they just collect pictures, are they scared because of the size or are they size queens-go big and bold..
 

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This whole thread was just a set-up so you could say "This is going to be long," wasn't it. Hah!

And you slipped it in without anybody even noticing.
 
Maybe they're worried your size will be uncomfortably wide and not easy or pleasurable to accommodate.

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maybe we just got too munch into that "meat market" whole of a thing?? i tend to think that if i like a guy's face and body and he's into what i like, it's ok to fool around with him, but i don't know, it feels kinda weird to just hang out with him without seeing his cock? it's a kinda big question you've got in your mind, sir lol. maybe these situations are just a reflection of today's society and what ICT's just let us do. we want it now and we want it perfect. i kinda think that sometimes i would not hang out with someone if i didn't like his cock and i feel really bad cause it's not ok. but it's also true that i only do that when i'm looking for sex only, although i've had sex with ppl without seeing his cocks in advance too :P
 
I can completely understand what your saying Chris. I personally never send/ or take dick pics, ass picks, or even shirtless pics to anybody not in person, and especially not over the internet. The only pics that I take/ send to guys is of course my face pics that's it nothing else. And I will even get on cam, and talk to the guys from the neck up of course to mainly just prove that it is me in the pic. I would also never get naked on camera either. But the main reason for me is that I'm just not comfortable taking naked pics of myself, or even shirtless pics for that matter, and the fact that I have terrible anxiety, and depression, and I have like zero self-confidence plays A huge part as well. But I completely understand where your coming from Chris I have been turned down many, many times just because I wouldn't send them A dick/ naked picture. It's unfortunate, but it's just the why it is. But you just got to stick to what you think is best for yourself and to hell with them.
 
Love_chair said:
I can completely understand what your saying Chris. I personally never send/ or take dick pics, ass picks, or even shirtless pics to anybody not in person, and especially not over the internet. The only pics that I take/ send to guys is of course my face pics that's it nothing else. And I will even get on cam, and talk to the guys from the neck up of course to mainly just prove that it is me in the pic. I would also never get naked on camera either. But the main reason for me is that I'm just not comfortable taking naked pics of myself, or even shirtless pics for that matter, and the fact that I have terrible anxiety, and depression, and I have like zero self-confidence plays A huge part as well. But I completely understand where your coming from Chris I have been turned down many, many times just because I wouldn't send them A dick/ naked picture. It's unfortunate, but it's just the why it is. But you just got to stick to what you think is best for yourself and to hell with them.
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I used to be just weary of the pic, pic, pic thing. Think it originates from men not really having much perspective or insight about themselves. Some guys ARE hella vgl, hung, hot, etc. and will not settle for trolls or scum. Others are not hot, but THINK they are and will not settle, either. I have come to trade bod, cock, ass and ultimately, face pics just because going to all the trouble of hooking up only to have it be a big disappointment on either side is a waste. Better to be UP FRONT and if it doesn't work for somebody, well WTF? Move on. That said, some of the BEST hook ups I have had have been through 2 or three exchanges of what the fuck you wanna do to each other, no pics and give me an address. Really. Met hot, compatible, real guys who are just motivated. If somebody wants your fuckin xrays and geneaology, well that will never work, no matter what. Oh, and if you have a kink....that should trump all......if you have a dude into your fucked up deal, just go for it.
 
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