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Why are you a top? Bottom?

blahman16

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Some people are just tops and would never bottom, some bottom would never want to be tops. some are in between/mix.

my question is, how did you decide what role you want? and, if you have chosen to be an exclusive top or bottom, how do you know you really don't like being the the role? is it just based on pleasure, or are there other factors?

I have a thread in the wellness thread regarding bottoming for the 1st time, and that led me to create this thread. hope to hear from some input.

i am bi(-curious), and I haven't done anything with a guy until last year. however, i find both women and certain men just as attractive (not just physically attraction)
 
Im vers and so is my bf!!
We both enjoy being fucked and fucking, but i more prefer btm (70/30) and he prefers topping (90/10), For me it depends on the guy, for him its about a emotional connection/trust respect etc (him fucking sumone means nothing, but btming does).
 
Tried 'em both, and decided that although I liked bottoming, I liked topping more. And so I became "versatile top". Simple as that.

Lex
 
i used to consider myself a bottom until i put away the Dildo and tried a Real Cock now i'm vers/top. a Dildo feels amazing but a dick just didnt measure up...just waiting for the right one i guess. (i do it better anyway)
 
big old bottom here.

although, every now and then i like to top but it's a rare occasion. luckily the guy who's shagging me is a top, who every now and then wants to get fucked. it works out prefect.
 
I've always strived to be as versatile as possible. When I'm fucking a Guy, how can I know how it feels to Him if I haven't been fucked myself? :confused:

I truly do like fucking a Guy's ass, and being fucked up My ass, about equally! I don't suppose that makes me "Bi", does it?? :slap: (Though I have had the good fortune to "Play" with quite a few girls, too, in my time. Haven't done THAT for years, though!)

I just think that SEX, in all it's forms, is a Fantastic experience to be explored as fully as possible! My favorite, though, is :bj:, and, especially, :69: ! Butt ... I also love to :sex: !

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :-<
 
it depends how comfortable you are. I have to feel out the relationship before i decide to bottom or top. So i guess I am truly versatile...although I do like to have sex A LOT!
 
Well, I mostly consider myself a versatile bottom. I never mess around outside of any true relationship, but with the first one I had I wanted to try both just to see which slice of the cake I'd prefer, and it happened to lead me to like bottoming more.

Works out great that my current bf is a top who every now and then wants to be fucked because we both get our kicks out of it.
 
Isn't there a thing that the taller and more muscular guy should be the top? Or is that my own imagination?

When I imagine myself having sex with guys - one guy is about my height but I'm more muscular so I imagine myself being top. But another guy is much taller and I couldn't imagine fucking him...

DP.
 
what if one is taller and skinnier, but the other is shorter and more muscular?
 
blahman16 said:
what if one is taller and skinnier, but the other is shorter and more muscular?
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Personally, I would always think height has more significance than muscle. But only if he is a good bit taller (a couple of inches).

DP.
 
DualPurpose said:
Isn't there a thing that the taller and more muscular guy should be the top? Or is that my own imagination?

When I imagine myself having sex with guys - one guy is about my height but I'm more muscular so I imagine myself being top. But another guy is much taller and I couldn't imagine fucking him...

DP.
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DualPurpose said:
Personally, I would always think height has more significance than muscle. But only if he is a good bit taller (a couple of inches).

DP.
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Are you serious? Someone watches too much porn. There are plenty of positions you can do for bottoms/tops of varying heights and sizes.

I prefer to bottom, mainly because it feels better to me. My penis isn't all that sensitive and I can't cum from topping or oral. My prostate is good to me though. I also like being dominated and having someone take control of me. Although lately a lot of the time I've been on top while bottoming because it's fun to be in control too.
 
DualPurpose said:
Isn't there a thing that the taller and more muscular guy should be the top? Or is that my own imagination?

When I imagine myself having sex with guys - one guy is about my height but I'm more muscular so I imagine myself being top. But another guy is much taller and I couldn't imagine fucking him...

DP.
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How can someone with a handle like Dual Purpose be just a top anyway? ;)
 
I love to bottom, but I love to top as well. Someone tried to shove it in my mind that I'm a pure bottom, but hey, just like there are bi guys, there are vers guys. Sometimes I love doing the work as well ;)
 
thisisinteresting said:
I prefer to bottom, mainly because it feels better to me. My penis isn't all that sensitive and I can't cum from topping or oral.
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On the same note, is the "death grip" when jacking off true? If I don't hold as firm while doing it myself, will it eventually succumb and be more sensitive to the lighter touch?
 
Some people will describe themselves as 90:10 or 70:30 or 50:50

But I am 100% versatile. If I'm only getting one side, my interest in it evaporates and I crave the other. I need them both in roughly the same proportion.

I'm like this because when I first discovered how gay sex worked, I never in a million years ever imagined even once that there were "tops" and "bottoms." I saw it, it all looked good, and I wanted to try it all.

It never even crossed my mind that someone would think only half of sex was worth doing! To this day my first reaction would be amazement, and to me the whole point of being with my guy is that we can enjoy each other in the same way, explore the same aspects of each other physically, and it is just one more shared bond in our experience.

If I was with a "top" or a "bottom," I would think something was missing. ...In him.
 
It's not about tall/short, muscular/scrawny, slim/chubby, blond/red/brown/black/gray hair, white/black/yellow/red skin, blue/brown/green eyes, or any of those things. It's about the individual living in His body, and what feels good to Him/Us/Me! What He craves/desires/enjoys. ..|

And, while I'm at it, SEX is not about simply receiving, but also about giving Pleasure/sensuality/sexuality/intimacy/emotions/thoughts, and/or pure physical FUN/"Sport"! SHARING/Experiencing LIFE!! (!)

And, when the Physical bond meets up with the Emotional bond, SEX just might be the closest we can ever get to God!! (Yeah! It's THAT Good when it totally Clicks!) (group)

We are all Spiritual beings enjoying a, Temporary, Physical existence! I say make the most of it, in whatever form, that you can!! (!w!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv2:
 
Im 5'6" and a versatile bottom. It would depend on who i am with and how lazy i feel that day. I couldn't imagine fucking a 6'4 man though... Well i could but putting it to practice... i dont know where I would start. LOL it would look funny though.
 
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