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Why are you a top? Bottom?

Height is only relevant when they're standing up. When they're on their back, with their legs wrapped around you, suddenly, all guys are about the same!! (!)

(I'm just shy of 5'6"!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :sex:
 
When I was younger I discovered what pleasure I could get from my anus. I used a Dildo for a while but always wanted the real thing. When it finally happened I was convinced I was a bottom. I'm also submissive, so I enjoy being dominated. Feeling my buddy's hot cock in me is the best, and when he explodes in me, all the better.
 
DualPurpose said:
Isn't there a thing that the taller and more muscular guy should be the top? Or is that my own imagination?

When I imagine myself having sex with guys - one guy is about my height but I'm more muscular so I imagine myself being top. But another guy is much taller and I couldn't imagine fucking him...

DP.
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Mate, honestly being tall has nothing to do with how the guy feels about himself... or how you should feel about yourself or your role when it comes to sex.

Sexuality is an emotional and psychological thing... not a physical... and our roles within that vary enormously.

Personally at 6'6" being tall never played a part in my perception of my role... although I will concede for the longest time I thought I was a strict top.

Since then I met a (now ex whoa was 5'8") guy who showed me how amazing it can be to bottom with someone who you can trust completely. After the first time I questioned how I felt about the change of roles, only to realise that it doesnt matter one bit. I was in love and love is about sharing learning and growing.

I struggle to bottom until I know the guy I with means something to me... but once that happens I'm truly vers if thats what the relationship needs... no matter how short he is!
 
tallguy297 said:
Mate, honestly being tall has nothing to do with how the guy feels about himself... or how you should feel about yourself or your role when it comes to sex.

Sexuality is an emotional and psychological thing... not a physical... and our roles within that vary enormously.

Personally at 6'6" being tall never played a part in my perception of my role... although I will concede for the longest time I thought I was a strict top.

Since then I met a (now ex whoa was 5'8") guy who showed me how amazing it can be to bottom with someone who you can trust completely. After the first time I questioned how I felt about the change of roles, only to realise that it doesnt matter one bit. I was in love and love is about sharing learning and growing.

I struggle to bottom until I know the guy I with means something to me... but once that happens I'm truly vers if thats what the relationship needs... no matter how short he is!
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Thanks for a bit of encouragement. Although I am not as tall as you (only 6'2") I feel almost pidegonholed into being a top because of my height. As much as I would like to try the roles reversed, I feel it is almost ingrained into us. Like you said tall guy, I think may be I just need to find the right person to experience it with. No, I don't hate topping either but like many have said, I would like to at least try bottoming.
 
I am 100% Top.. Never had the urge to bottom ..

I geuss its cuz I just love ass.. if I see a nice ass I go crazy. Dick isn't really as exciting to me.. its like going to a party and having to entertain the "Ugly friend" to get to the cute one.. so ill do what I have to do minus taking it in the ass to make sure I can get the cheeks.. *shrug* thats just me..
 
Top, because I get nothing out of bottoming. Tried it, it hurt, no pleasure.

That said, I'll bottom for a guy who I care about and who wants it, but the pleasure I get from that is purely psychological.
 
I am versatile so the opportunities are limitless. Whether I top or bottom depends on the guy and the emotion of the moment. This year the top /bottom ratio seems like 30/70 . I must say when it comes to intimacy I truly love a cock in my ass while I am heavily kissing the guy fucking me.
 
Like Leviathan, I've always considered myself a top, even before I started having sex. When I watched porn when I was younger, I always got off by visualizing the guy getting fucked, his ass getting pounded, I never really concentrated on the cock. So I identified with the active partner. It wasn't until, when I was about 13 or 14, that a gay friend asked me online, when I came out to him, if I was a top or a bottom and I had to ask him what he meant. Upon explaining, I said top.

It's strange, because when I was REALLY young, like 11-12, I hadn't discovered masturbation yet, but I knew I was gay. But I just wasn't really aware of my dick or what an orgasm was. For some reason, I assumed that gay men don't jerk off. So I would finger myself and hit my prostate, and to me, that was masturbating. I think I was a bit confused because of the societal stereotype that all gay men are passive bottoms. But when I discovered jerking off, I liked that a LOT more.

But regardless of that strange period, I've always been way more into guys' butts than their cocks. Again, even before masturbating, I was always staring at my friends' asses, pressing up against them, sniffing them, touching when I could. I just love ass. And asshole.

I identify very strongly as a top, but my boyfriend is also a top so we switch every once in a while. For the most part we just don't have that much anal sex. But if we do, we sort of take turns. I like it more than he does. He just thinks it hurts and doesn't get any pleasure from it. I think it hurts but in a good way... and I want to come after a few minutes, can't do it for very long. He has a really big dick though. So I guess I'm kind of versa-top, but I only bottom for him since we're both tops.

Aside from sex, I'm generally just really dominant and aggressive. I like dominating other guys and emasculating them a bit. I think it makes me feel more evened out.
 
I go with top/versatile (which usually means you only bottem when its a last resort to close the deal)That was in my wild and crazy hook up days thou.I have masculinity issues with botteming but thats a whole different issue entierly.I had this crazy idea that unless I was dating someone I wasn't botteming for them ,when it comes to hook ups I am always a top.
 
maxpowr9 said:
Thanks for a bit of encouragement. Although I am not as tall as you (only 6'2") I feel almost pidegonholed into being a top because of my height. As much as I would like to try the roles reversed, I feel it is almost ingrained into us. Like you said tall guy, I think may be I just need to find the right person to experience it with. No, I don't hate topping either but like many have said, I would like to at least try bottoming.
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Its the same the other way around. Being the tiny 5'6", im labled a bottom, which i dont mind although im more versatile. I still find it hard to picture me fucking a huge 6' something guy when im so small.
 
I am strictly a bottom due to biological reasons. If I can, I would love to be able to top another man, but it is just not possible.
 
Frankly, if it's a causal hookup, whoever is cuter is the top. I know that sounds selfish and shallow. If I'm with a really hot guy I want him inside me.

I think a lot of guys are like this. People say, I'm a TOTAL top, but if Brad Pitt wanted to fuck me, I'd let him.
 
^ so you're saying you'd be willing to bottom for the right person, even though you don't regularly bottom because it doesn't feel good to you?
 
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