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Why Are You Bi?

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When I'm with girls, I love teasing nipples with my tongue, throwing my face to her tits, and taking care of her wet pussy with my tongue.

When I'm with guys, I love the feeling when the lips and tongue touch the top of a cock and juicy hunk bodies.

What about you guys?

Btw, Merry Christmas!
 
I'm just very sexual. But there's more to it than just a physical issue for me. When with a girl, I like to feel as though I'm the strong, protective one in the relationship. I like to nurture her. To hold and cuddle her, and play with her hair lovingly while she sucks me off. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want her to be fiery and independent, and sometimes I'd like to fuck her hard and nasty.

When I fantasize about guys, suddenly I find I'm the one who likes to be nurtured. I'm the one who likes to have fingers running gently through my hair while I'm bobbing on my man's cock. I'm the one who likes to be held and cuddled and nurtured. I like to feel like my man is strong and he's protective of me. That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to be independent and strong apart from my man. And sometimes I'd want him to cut the cuddly shit and just fuck me like an animal.

So there is some emotional role reversal in it for me. I think the reason I choose women over men is because, being a male, I like the way women charge up my masculinity.

On the physical side, though, it's about me being a horny lil dog who doesn't care which gender his partner belongs to! As long as we can both share and exchange some form of sexual pleasure together, it's all good. ;)
 
I love being 'bi'!!! Although I am only 'orally bi' with guys (I don't kiss them...just not my bag) I love sucking a cock clean or giving a blowjob and getting a mouth full of cum. When I am with women and they 'point out a guy' the guy himself doesn't turn me on so much as the the thought of what is cock looks like, feels like or what his cum will be like. Being bi allows me to be able to play all over the field and enjoy sex that much more!!!
 
Some nice thoughts in this thread. ieaticecreaminbed, couldn't agree with you more about that first paragraph, and naughtypiscesboi84, I can identify with the emotional contrasts you point out and just plain cool physical sensations you feel.

For me, it's primarily about the person and their vibe, outlook, attitude, talent, inner (okay, and maybe outer) beauty, etc. I just don't see gender as a big deal in the short time we have to connect and appreciate people and be moved and inspired by them in our time on the planet. So I haven't thought too hugely about it, but maybe now if I had to pin it down specifically, for me, with girls it's more of a ying/yang, point/counterpoint thing. It's complimentary - you sort of fill in each others' parts on a real core (biological?) level and that just feels right; maybe it's at times (as mentioned in this thread) feeling the more masculine "protector" to a girl's softer, gentler nature, or more naturally quiet to their communicative nature, or being in awe at their natural gifts for certain things that me (and, the stereotypical "most guys") just aren't very good at. All that "Mars & Venus" stuff, I suppose.

With guys its more of a "similarity" vibe - just hangin' out, you both know what its like being a guy emotionally and physically and can identify on that, again, on that core level. I like the two strong male personalities that may playfully or even imperceptibly fight for dominance. This might sound silly, but it's kinda just like hangin' out with "the boys" vibe but even better when you can connect so intimately and bond with that one person.
 
I'm bisexual and I don't overthink it.
I fall in love with the person, not the gender.
Bisexuals do not discriminate when it comes to sex.
We believe our souls are sexless & we can still recognize our true love.
True love does not recognize, politics, religion, skin color, or gender.
This is the way God made me and she did a perfect job.
I am what I am and I am bisexual.
 
Romantico said:
I'm bisexual and I don't overthink it.
I fall in love with the person, not the gender.
Bisexuals do not discriminate when it comes to sex.
We believe our souls are sexless & we can still recognize our true love.
True love does not recognize, politics, religion, skin color, or gender.
This is the way God made me and she did a perfect job.
I am what I am and I am bisexual.
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I co-sign.
 
Romantico said:
I'm bisexual and I don't overthink it.
I fall in love with the person, not the gender.
Bisexuals do not discriminate when it comes to sex.
We believe our souls are sexless & we can still recognize our true love.
True love does not recognize, politics, religion, skin color, or gender.
This is the way God made me and she did a perfect job.
I am what I am and I am bisexual.
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It seems like you're saying that these traits are found in bisexuals only. If so, what the hell do you think gays and lesbians do?
 
Not at all. The question was asked, Why am I bi?
The question was asked in the bisexual forum.
I am a bisexual answering a bisexual question.
Hope that clears things up!
 
"It seems like you're saying that these traits are found in bisexuals only. If so, what the hell do you think gays and lesbians do?"

I think gays and lesbians fall for memebers of their own sex.

I said I as a bisexual,I fall in love with the person not the gender. Gays fall ONLY for those of the same sex.

Bisexuals do not discriminate against anyone over their genders. Gays do. They only have sex with memebers of the same sex.

As for the rest, I suppose you can re-word it to fit homosexuality if you really tried, but since your gay how do you feel you can honestly say you know what being bi is like, hence the title of this thread?
 
I'm bi because well for starters I'm just that way.

What I LIKE about being bi, I love the idea of being the one who's getting hit on by guys.. Guys do it so much better and make you feel good.

I also like being dominated, having the roles totally reversed. I'm the one being penetrated. Plus The idea of riding on top of a guy with him thrust.. err. .never mind. wrong forum lol

But it's hard to explain..

Or maybe alot of others feel the same way and it needs no explanation! lol
 
ieaticecreaminbed said:
When I'm with girls, I love teasing nipples with my tongue, throwing my face to her tits, and taking care of her wet pussy with my tongue.

When I'm with guys, I love the feeling when the lips and tongue touch the top of a cock and juicy hunk bodies.

What about you guys?

Btw, Merry Christmas!
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Hi, ieat! ;) Me, too! (!)

I'm just sexual, not really any deeper than that.

T
 
Why am I Bi, because I like both sexes... what other answer could I give. There is such a different feeling of having sex with a male or a female.
 
No prominent male figures in my up-bringing, so when my hormones started to kick in as a teen I was already turned on by women, but while flipping the lingerie page of an old sales catalog past the see-thru bras, I saw it. Mens briefs, pajama bottoms and muscles oh my. What's this? Bathroom break! The End. The story of my life.
 
thewizard said:
I'm bi because well for starters I'm just that way.

What I LIKE about being bi, I love the idea of being the one who's getting hit on by guys.. Guys do it so much better and make you feel good.
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I could not agree more.

Before I even new I was bisexual, I felt that way. Women Flirt OK, but when I would get hit on by a man.....I took it more as a compliment, and subconsciously it was turning me on.

I just wish I realized this sooner.

Ciao,
M.
 
I like being dominated for a change.. Not having to make all the decisions and generally feeling wanted and attractive.

Bi/Gay guys seek you out if they want you (usually heh)

Plus the kinky side is a big turn on.

lol..
 
I've known(on some level) that I was bi since I was a little child; there is no option for me, it is intrinsic to me as a person.
 
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