Why are you bi?

[magicdick]

Im attracted to men because the submissive side of me enjoys being with someone that is bigger, stronger and takes control. Someone that has hard skin that can realy make me yell in the bedroom.

Im attracted to women because they are softer, submissive, and beautiful. In straight relationships I take control in the bedroom and I love to make em squeal!

I (and many others on JUB) are with you on this. I like to squeal and make 'em squeal.

 

[allin4cum]

Why am I BI? just born that way is the best I can answer that.
This means for me that I love getting and giving a BJ - it just seems very natural to me and I love swallowing their cum. Actually had oral sex with a guy, 8 years before I had sex with a gal. It also means that the ladies get my cock hard with the options of playing with their tits, no matter what size or shape they are. Men have more options as to how I orgasm. A different way to say that, guys are more sexually exciting.
Emotionally, men and I understand each other better but a deeper connection is made with women. Not sure that makes sense to me (maybe less to you) but it is just how I feel.

 

[magicdick]

Why am I BI? just born that way is the best I can answer that.
This means for me that I love getting and giving a BJ - it just seems very natural to me and I love swallowing their cum. Actually had oral sex with a guy, 8 years before I had sex with a gal. It also means that the ladies get my cock hard with the options of playing with their tits, no matter what size or shape they are. Men have more options as to how I orgasm. A different way to say that, guys are more sexually exciting.
Emotionally, men and I understand each other better but a deeper connection is made with women. Not sure that makes sense to me (maybe less to you) but it is just how I feel.

Your reasoning doesn't have to make sense, but it does to me. It reflects the way I feel. Being bi just is. Period. To me the only thing that doesn't make sense is the question: "Why are you bi?" makes no sense.

I'm bi. I love women and pussy. I love men and cock (and balls and cum...). But I could not live with or marry a man. I could live with and marry a woman. I have.

For me what doesn't make sense (and doesn't have to) is that when a man is fucking me I become a submissive woman. My asshole is my pussy. My mind morphs into the female psyche. If I could become a full woman for the second half of my life, I would.

 

[LSC1962]

I am beginning to find that as I keep searching for my "ideal man for sex", I'm lusting more to bottom for anal sex. Most guys I tend to hookup with (safely of course), tend to like mostly oral play, or they want me to top. I will do it but my preferred position is to bottom. Finding a decent guy where I am is almost impossible. So few to choose from. And I don't want to just hookup with any guy, just to have some kind of sex. I'll keep searching. I'm beginning to think I need to make a sex machine; find a way to get my Dildo going in and out of me, with some kind of "fake groin" to slap against my ass cheeks too!!!

 

[magicdick]

I am beginning to find that as I keep searching for my "ideal man for sex", I'm lusting more to bottom for anal sex. Most guys I tend to hookup with (safely of course), tend to like mostly oral play, or they want me to top. I will do it but my preferred position is to bottom. Finding a decent guy where I am is almost impossible. So few to choose from. And I don't want to just hookup with any guy, just to have some kind of sex. I'll keep searching. I'm beginning to think I need to make a sex machine; find a way to get my Dildo going in and out of me, with some kind of "fake groin" to slap against my ass cheeks too!!!

Bottom rules, baby. But there is a slight incongruity in your thoughts. You don't want to hook up any guy just to have some kind of sex, but you'll hook up with a machine? Me? I won't hook up with any top. Just most of them. But that's me. Getting fucked is an obsession. Yeah, it's that beautiful.

 

[BiBtm64]

I am beginning to find that as I keep searching for my "ideal man for sex", I'm lusting more to bottom for anal sex. Most guys I tend to hookup with (safely of course), tend to like mostly oral play, or they want me to top. I will do it but my preferred position is to bottom. Finding a decent guy where I am is almost impossible. So few to choose from. And I don't want to just hookup with any guy, just to have some kind of sex. I'll keep searching. I'm beginning to think I need to make a sex machine; find a way to get my Dildo going in and out of me, with some kind of "fake groin" to slap against my ass cheeks too!!!

Keep searching for the right guy (or lower your standards, lol). Being fucked by a real person wins over any kind of machine. There's a connection, and satisfaction with the achievement of feeling a Real Cock inside you, experiencing his pleasure and lust, and the satisfaction of knowing that your body gave it to him. Bottoming is the pinnacle of sex.

 

[magicdick]

Keep searching for the right guy (or lower your standards, lol). Being fucked by a real person wins over any kind of machine. There's a connection, and satisfaction with the achievement of feeling a Real Cock inside you, experiencing his pleasure and lust, and the satisfaction of knowing that your body gave it to him. Bottoming is the pinnacle of sex.

My thoughts exactly. As to lowering one's standards, I'm a born lowerer. I don't look for the ideal guy. That is setting oneself up for failure. I look for a body with a hard cock attached to it that is willing to fuck me. If he's fucking my pussy, he's my ideal guy.

 

[Jaysone8822]

The attraction to men themselves isn’t about vanity—it’s about recognizing their strengths, learning from challenges, and embracing change. Every day is a new step toward becoming my best self. Men have always been attracted to me and same for me, i guess it's the common ground we share, plus I find guys physically attractive. My first encounter with a guy was in college and we had a drunken moment. From that point on I was bi-sexual.

 

[magicdick]

The attraction to men themselves isn’t about vanity—it’s about recognizing their strengths, learning from challenges, and embracing change. Every day is a new step toward becoming my best self. Men have always been attracted to me and same for me, i guess it's the common ground we share, plus I find guys physically attractive. My first encounter with a guy was in college and we had a drunken moment. From that point on I was bi-sexual.

I started the same way. Bisexuality rules.

 

[snakeeater1]

Why am I bi? Because my wife doesn’t have a dick! And I like to suck big, hard dicks!

 

[CurousMarriedCock]

Hey there, first post, site looks fun. Introduction out of the way i'll get to the topic.
Awful thread title I know, couldn't think of a better one.

What is the reason you are attracted to men?
What is the reason you are attracted to women?

Hopefully, questions that have not been done to death on these forums

For me, I am drawn towards men sexually, just love the taste and being taken, and most of my admiring looks fall on men instead of women. It's more EXCITING to me.

I am attracted to women because, well, its more practical, statistically speaking it is much easier to find a woman interested in having sex with a man than a man, and while not as fun, it is still definetly enjoyable.

I'm Not attracted to men, I'm in Love with COCK & CUM
Major difference here.

 

[ricksvca]

What is the reason you are attracted to men?
I love cock. I love handling them, sucking them, swallowing cum from them, and I love them ramming me in my ass.

What is the reason you are attracted to women?
I love women as whole beings. I love being with them, looking at them. Their softness, their curves, and most of all, I love fucking them. I love eating pussy and making them cum and then sinking my dick into a vagina like a warm soft cuddly hug for my dick.

What about you other bi guys? Why are you bi? I'm resurrecting old posts just for fun

For the same reason you are. I love the cock, Giving a man a long, slow, very wet very sensual blow job, tasting his precum, feeling him ejaculate in my mouth and swallowing his cum is my favorite sexual act . If the chemistry is right and I am in the mood, I also love being fucked and feeling a man cum in my ass.

As for my attraction to women.......I think your description of why you are attracted to women is a perfect match for why I am attracted to women.

 

[sexyloverboy]

@:Men have always been attracted to me and same for me, i guess it's the common ground we share, plus I find guys physically attractive."

You must be very hot. If that's really your ass in there avatar then I can see why

 

[mnpervert]

I dont know why I was born Bi. I am equally attracted to men and women. I have had realtionships with both

 

[Bigplaytoy]

Being Bi means you'll always have a date on a Saturday Night lol lol

 

[RisingGay]

I've been bisexual and bi-confused my entire life (I'm 63 now). My strong sexual and romantic attraction to girls and women started when I was 8, so I can say that's there because I was born with it. Of course it has been reinforced over and over again by the society I live in, sexualizing women's faces, hair and body parts through the constant bombardment of ads, TV and film, and Hollywood etc. brainwashing us into heteronormativity. But that's also been my problem, interfering with my sexual and romantic desires for boys and men, that I also believe I was born with. It's that society-bred homophobia, that was internalized in countless boys and men, that has tormented my mind lifelong as well.

A boy was my first sexual partner, and that lasted from 8-13. But in high school my internalized homophobia kept repressing my sexual desires for boys, that I can plainly see now in hindsight. And through it all, until 27, girls and women just kept rejecting me when I asked them to dance or to go out on a date. I had such powerful attraction and crushes on so many girls and women, but all unrequited. But I finally at 27 had a girl who not only said yes to a dance but then kissed me on the dance floor, and a few days later I finally had sex with a female. It was just okay. She actually was quite repressed herself sexually throughout our 3-year relationship, overall hated sex, and thought fellatio and cunnilingus was gross. It was 3 years later when she broke up with me for the third time that my repressed gay desires exploded into my consciousness, and have remained there.

But even throughout sucking hundreds of cocks over the next 21 years, I remained confused, struggling with my bisexuality. And women kept rejecting me, either saying no to a first date, or saying no to a second or third date (not even a kiss, let alone sex). It was finally fucking another guy at 51 when that bi-confusion ended, and I finally happily embraced the gay side of myself. My attraction to women still remained, but I stopped asking them out, just enjoying gay sex.

It was my second sexual and romantic relationship, finally, with a woman from 54-57, a woman who loved everything about sex, but her breaking up with me many times during that relationship destroyed any interest I had left to ever have sex, let alone romance, with another woman again. Sexual attraction is still there for women, but all I'm interested in are men for sex and romance. So, yes, technically you could call me bisexual still, born that way. But I identify and live as a gay man now. I love everything about a man, not just his cock, not just his ass, but his entire body, mind, and entire person. Women have done nothing but hurt me my entire life. I'm not blaming them, but just understand that with my personal karma they just are nothing but manipulating bitches for me, starting with my abusive mother, and I can't stand being with them in any serious manner. They're okay as friends, and I have many female friends. But men are my emotional, romantic and sexual anchors.

 

[curiouslittledick]

I am equally attracted to both men and women. I love the feeling of a cock in my mouth with my nose buried in his pubes. I love the feeling of when a man cums in my mouth feeling his cock twitching with each spurt. And I love the feeling of the man fucking my ass. With women, I love my lips, lightly kissing her pussy, and watching it slowly become engorged before I lick her all over. I love a woman orgasming as my tongue is inside of her pussy. And I love the feeling of wet pussy as I slide my cock in and out of it.

 

[Grolarbear]

I was literally always straight. Due to religion and the society I grew up in, one was too scared to even consider the idea let alone fantasize. Mid forties and all that is gone from my life. I've deconstructed all dogma and abandoned prejudice.
Also the Wife is super cool and wanted to try ENM, then pegging lol. Finally started looking and thinking about it and a man's derriere is often more feminine than a woman's surprisingly.
She's bi and looking for that butch domme to lick, suck, service, and brat for, and I'm bi looking for that submissive but masc chub bear or fem twink, to mount and breed relentlessly untill his back arches, legs shake involuntarily, and makes pretty sounds.
So any bi couples that fit that bill are definitely highest priority
I don't bottom for guys due to SA trauma, but a domme woman with a strap could turn me out gladly.