PabloZed
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Today seems perfect to ask why you are single and what you can do to change your status if that is your desire.
I think most of us can probably agree on these factors.
1. Looks/appearance matters, but is not determinative.
2. Personality and personal quirks matter.
3. Age matters, but how it matters is less than clear. I think a lot of guys in their 20's who are often just coming out are not interested in a relationship right away. But I am not sure its any easier for guys in their 40's who are interested in guys their own age? Also, the bars and clubs where many guys meet are not always kind to guys not in their 20's.
4. Job/profession matters to some people, but a lot less than people say. In other words, I don't think someone will blow off a guy they otherwise like simply because he may be struggling financially.
5. Where you live and whether you are out matters. Having to sneak around most decrease your options.
6. Tastes matter. The narrower they are the fewer options you have.
7. Other. I actually hate going out. The last time I was in a bar or club was years ago. I would give this is the number one reason I am single. Number two would be personality. I talk too damn much.
I think most of us can probably agree on these factors.
1. Looks/appearance matters, but is not determinative.
2. Personality and personal quirks matter.
3. Age matters, but how it matters is less than clear. I think a lot of guys in their 20's who are often just coming out are not interested in a relationship right away. But I am not sure its any easier for guys in their 40's who are interested in guys their own age? Also, the bars and clubs where many guys meet are not always kind to guys not in their 20's.
4. Job/profession matters to some people, but a lot less than people say. In other words, I don't think someone will blow off a guy they otherwise like simply because he may be struggling financially.
5. Where you live and whether you are out matters. Having to sneak around most decrease your options.
6. Tastes matter. The narrower they are the fewer options you have.
7. Other. I actually hate going out. The last time I was in a bar or club was years ago. I would give this is the number one reason I am single. Number two would be personality. I talk too damn much.
what kind of person do you think I am?
