Why can't I take it after I cum?

[Planisphere]

I'm bottom and I can't take cock after I cum, it becomes very painful after just a few seconds, and I can't be fucked again for several hours. Is it normal? How can you avoid that?

New here btw, hi all!

 

[Planisphere]

^^ My top cums several times inside of me, I'd like to enjoy the same pleasure while we fuck lol

 

[nfgrls]

some guys just can not it becomes troo painful .. i have no problem I like to get the cumming out of the way so i can enjoy being fucked. We are all different .

 

[djunkie]

I would think it would be just the same as getting your dick sucked. Once you cum sometimes your head is too sensitive and you don't want anyone still sucking on it. So...maybe your ass is having the same effect? I personally do not need to cum when I bottom...getting my ass pounded into the wall is good enough for me. Especially when I gotta a big dick inside me.

 

[Planisphere]

Normally I don't cum till he's cummed at least once otherwise the anal fun is over. But I think its so unfair to me. Yesterday I got a cum river trickling off my crack down my balls and he was in extasis close to his third orgasm. Sure I was in heaven, but I had to concentrate a lot not to cum instead of enjoying the fuck at 100%. I really need to find the way to stay loose after I cum so that I can have more than one orgasm per fuck, only then I'll be happy

My point is, feeling pain in the ass while being fucked once you cum is normal or not? And did anybody learn how to avoid that?

 

[Planisphere]

Usually after enough fucking the anus gets loose enough to not feel so much discomfort.

I have a lot o experience.

How big is his dick?

Thick, but I got the same sensation with short dicks.

Are you using enough lubricant?

Yes, it's not that kind of pain.

Have you tried switching positions after you cum?

Yes.

Do you clench your anus after you cum?

No.

I feel like anal dilation is completely gone once I cum, as if I losed all my libido suddenly, but I actually don't!

 

[Planisphere]

But I keep my libido up when I cum, so normally when I accidentally cum too soon I switch to oral sex till I get my second orgasm.

 

[Kester]

Once I've shot my load, you better be getting your dick out of me real quick.

 

[TommyTrojan]

Once I've shot my load, you better be getting your dick out of me real quick.

Yeah, that's exactly how I feel too. I just can't take the physical sensation of having something inside of my rectum anymore after I cum.

I have heard other guys say that if you try to relax and power through it or take a short break and then start again, your asshole won't be as sensitive and you'll be able to keep going. I haven't ever been able to get to that point, although I'm not exactly the most experienced kid on the block.

 

[operafan]

It was normal for me. Once I came I wanted the dick out -- now. I had to never come before he did or the party was over.

 

[Ilvcock2]

I Use To Be The Same Way! And I Guess, The Reason I'm Not Today, Is I Practiced With A Lot Of Dildo's, Or I Just Got Older. I Use To Force 2 Dildo's In At Once, And Hold'em There, For 10-15 Mins. Wow! What A Rush! Once They Were Pulled Out, All I Had To Do Is Touch My Cock, And Explode!!! Then, I'd Shove It In Again, And Hold It, For As Long As I Could!! But It's Probally Age. Wish I Had A Full Time Partner! But, On The Road To Much. Hope That Helps.

 

[trojan80]

^^ My top cums several times inside of me, I'd like to enjoy the same pleasure while we fuck lol

My Hero.

 

[HunterM]

"Why can't I take it after I cum?" Maybe it's psychological. I have no problem taking money after I cum

 

[sodeepithurts]

an easy way to fix this problem is get fucked by a rape fetish bondage guy... I used to be this way till I started messing with this guy Jeff.. He was into bondage and always wanted to tie me up.. I was new to the whole sex thing at the time.. He would fuck me slow and jerk me off to make sure I would cum first then thats when he would really start to fuck.. I think he got off on my discomfort but after a few times I kinda got turned on by it.. Personally I believe that your roll as a bottom is to please your top and disreguard your own pleasure for his..

-jam

 

[HunterM]

^ Glad you agreed. Can you take money after you cum also?