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Why did I pass out after anal sex?

Swim69mer

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My boyfriend and I were having anal sex for the first time today. I have a really tight hole, and he was able to go in a little in some positions, but when I laid on my stomach he got in but after just a short time he hit the side and it hurt. I said "I feel like I'm bleeding" and ran to the bathroom, and passed out for a quick minute(s). Before/afterwards, my head as really dizzy, I couldn't see much, and I heard ringing in my ears for a few.

There was no blood or anything, it just hurt and I got weird. I looked this up and I wonder if it's because I didn't eat anything at all today, I didn't drink really any water today, and I am a worry wart and was really stressed about it inside. Also could be cause on top of that the blood all circulated to the front of my head - so when I got up it made me pass out?

Note: I was not drunk or high (I don't drink or smoke) and we had a condom and ky jelly.
 
Maybe you fainted or got up to fast. Sometimes when I get up really super fast from lying flat I black for a split second but come back before i hit the ground(or wall, except for that 1 time). Were you hyperventilating?
 
Dude you passed out b/c u didn't eat or drink anything all day, plp pass out all the time due to this and its dangerous not to eat or drink all day. Also don't freak out about the pain, take your time, eat to have energy and go slow you will be fine in the end. If you are tight it will take time, my friend worked on a guy for 45mins before he could penatrate without pain and then the guy had the most amazing sex of his life. Calm down, relax, eat and u will be fine..|
 
You really think that's it? Like its because I didn't eat or drink anything, was held over too long, and on top of it was really stressed? I was hyperventilating a little when I ran and sat on the toilet cause I didn't know what was going on (that's when things started to get hot, my eyes were closing and the ringing in my ears began). Before the anal sex I was nervous.

I just want to know how much of it has to do with the fact that he has a big dick and I have a tight virgin hole. Like will we be able to have anal sex and what should I try before we do it again? Because he was so nervous today when I got better (I was only "off" for like 10min. tops) he was almost crying.
 
If I skip a meal I start getting gant and weak all over. You have to eat or your blood sugar can drop like a rock and you will get light headed or even pass out.
 
True, and I noticed this week I went without breakfast and maybe only had one meal or two and they were at night.

So what do you think it was? Mostly my nerves, no food/water, and the blood pressure thing? I do think his dick moved way too much to the right at one part - that did hurt.

I have to ask, how do I open up my hole and make it so that anal sex really doesn't hurt. Obviously it's going to more than likely hurt cause its still like my first time.

Also is it true grinding/mashing fresh mint leaves and rubbing them on (a little inside) my hole will make the sex easier?
 
Use a better lube than KY and do not be stingy with it. Since it is:sex: your first time, you want a well greased hole. Take it slow and like the rest of the guys said, relax and it will feel good.
 
Like what lube do you recommend, and did you ever grind/mash fresh mint leaves until it was like a paste form and did that help? Yeah we really didn't take it slow, kept trying to put it in to about halfway.
 
dude, you just gotta take it slow. and i can tell your nervous as hell, relax............... breathe. it'll be fine.
 
Patience, patience, technique, technique. I am seeing a sexy professional woman currently and she is into anal sex, in fact orgasms no differently to vaginal sex. She is one of the few women I've had anal with who does orgasm intensly. She has a tiny orifice. Normally she'll lie face down and I part her buttocks and lick the anus. I then apply platinum wet lube, lots of it, and gently finger her inside until she is loosened up. I then put lube on my cock and as I withdraw a finger slip my cock inside her rectum very slowly until she accepts my full length and I can begin thrusting deeply. Often times she'll then want to lie on her back facing me as she gets maximum pleasure with me fucking her with her legs splayed. She gets a little sore sometimes but that is more because of my size and she always feels elated after, in fact wants more!
 
Dude ----
the anus should be exit only.

I would advise against anal sex.

You're fainting had more to do with no food, water and getting up suddenly with blood rushing to your head. I wouldn't worry about that.

But seriously reconsider the anal sex part. The a***hole is a very dirty place that should be exit only.

Good Luck!
 
Jasun said:
Oh great. Now I understand why you were singing the praises of Anne Coulter in the Politics Forum.




Gentlemen, we have a g0y in our presence. (You can find the ignore setting on his personal info page.)
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ah, such tolerance from the tolerance loving leftists libs.

so refreshing!
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lmao!
 
jktoooo said:
Dude ----
the anus should be exit only.

I would advise against anal sex.

You're fainting had more to do with no food, water and getting up suddenly with blood rushing to your head. I wouldn't worry about that.

But seriously reconsider the anal sex part. The a***hole is a very dirty place that should be exit only.

Good Luck!
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Well then riddle me this, why is it that men have the most nerve endings in their ass. And also why the male G-Spot is located in the ass? Hmmm. Vaginas are a dirty place and even they take some cleaning before entry
 
Jasun said:
Give it a rest, dear. nobody cares about your politics here. This thread was about if anal sex could make you pass out.

It can't.

There are lots of men and women who like to play with their asses and have never had any problems at all. And in fact... massaging a man's prostate has been shown to have many health benefits... so it's not an exit only. God made it feel so good so you'd do it more often.
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and I addressed that "dear". I said his fainting most likely had NOTHING to do with the anal sex.

and further, I gave my advice to reconsider having anal sex as it is very obvious it is a very dirty area.
 
Gengar7s said:
Well then riddle me this, why is it that men have the most nerve endings in their ass. And also why the male G-Spot is located in the ass? Hmmm. Vaginas are a dirty place and even they take some cleaning before entry
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look, the fact of the matter is the anus is dirty. sh%$ comes out of there.

How much dirtier can something get?
 
Right glad to see we have gotten so off topic here, guys everyone is entitled to their opinion and whether we agree with it or not has nothing to do with the question at hand.

Swim68mer its all about taking your time and being ready, both of you being ready. The first time I had sex it was amazing and didn’t hurt at all, my first had an average size dick and he knew what he was doing and everything was fine. Now I know what I’m doing and my current boy friend has a large dick and at first we had to go slow but now I know how to take it and it goes fine. Tips for the both of you, go slow, really make a night out of it, lots of fingering, relax have him massage you and enjoy yourselves do not rush it. Try different positions and see what works best, some guys prefer one or another to get it in and then change to a different position to get fucked. As he enters breath out, slow and steady this will help the penetration go easier, then take it slow, more lube and breathe, never hold your breath makes it harder. Make sure you had something to eat as well that day so you have energy, remember sex is an active activity! I’ll be more then happy to give u more tips and discuss concerns/fears if this forum continues to go off topic, just private me and good luck, the wait will be worth it!!
 
Simon25 said:
Right glad to see we have gotten so off topic here, guys everyone is entitled to their opinion and whether we agree with it or not has nothing to do with the question at hand.
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look, he's obviously worried about Anal sex. I assured him his passing out was most likely NOT to do with anal sex. But, if he chooses to do engage in anal sex, that's his business.

All I'm simply saying is reconsider it.

When I USED to engage in it, it hurt, I had serious problems. now that I DON'T engage in it I don't have issues down there at all. combine that with the dirty factor and the risk of contracting aids.....I mean come on!

Oh, and Moltenrock....if I am the +1 on your ignore list, I sure hope it makes you feel better about yourself. You probably did both of us a favor, though I am not into censoring others. censoring others is something those from the left love to get involved in.
 
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