Why do a lot of gay men suck/lick arse before sex?

[nyctopgam]

OMG, I absolutely love when my bud has fucked me to the edge of existence and then rims my sloppy, sensitive and swollen hole!! That just takes me to infinity and BEYOND!!

Yeah! Love this and my partner loves it too. Hot to know your cock has been in there making it all soft and loose. And a lot easier to get the tongue in there when he spreads his cheeks too.

 

[CallMeHTD]

I love to rim. It might be my favorite thing to do, Absolutely nothing like having a hot ass lowering on your face, that heat, that smell of saliva and musk. Fucking. Hot.

 

[WIZZARD101]

giving or taking , rimming rocks. i have found it especially helpful if it is a guys first time. the best time i ever had was the last twink i was wiht about 20 years ago. he was 18 and had never been fucked. we stated off with my leaning him out with a fleet enema that i used till he ran clear, then a shower together, ten i rimed his tight hole till he begged to be fucked and he tool it ( im not that big, like 7.5 long and 5.75 around) and his ass loved it and so did i

 

[jktoooo]

I don't know if this is the right part of the forum to post this, so if not please move it to the correct part. What I want to know is why a lot of tops kiss and lick arse before anal? I've watched porn and a lot of men will have their tongues buried up the other man's are for minutes, kissing, spitting and licking. Is this just to get it lubricated or do they enjoy doing this in itself? I am a strict top and every time my boyfriend and I have sex, I just put on a condom, put lube on that, spray a bit on his are, then go.

When i used to let myself get fucked you would have been a nominally good BF. Yes, i want a horny BF but i also want one who is willing to do different things.

 

[goldenboyuk]

It's called "foreplay"
It's all part of the intamacy and build up of a passionate love making session with your lover, rather than just 'wham, bam, thank you man!'
Sounds like you still have a bit to learn, I recommend reading a gay sex guide such as the karma sutra for gay men.

 

[palemale]

It's called "foreplay"
It's all part of the intamacy and build up of a passionate love making session with your lover, rather than just 'wham, bam, thank you man!'

Exactly. Rimming gets both the top and bottom ready. When I top, I love how rimming my partner both relaxes him, but at the same time excites him and prepares him to be fucked. I have a top buddy who rims like his life depended on hit. His cock is very thick and bigger than 9," but when he's done rimming me, I can accommodate him with minimum discomfort. I've bottom for guys with 7" and not so thick who don't rim, and felt more discomfort than with my buddy's massive cock.

 

[journo25]

giving or taking , rimming rocks. i have found it especially helpful if it is a guys first time. the best time i ever had was the last twink i was wiht about 20 years ago. he was 18 and had never been fucked. we stated off with my leaning him out with a fleet enema that i used till he ran clear, then a shower together, ten i rimed his tight hole till he begged to be fucked and he tool it ( im not that big, like 7.5 long and 5.75 around) and his ass loved it and so did i

Probably my favorite thing to do, giving or getting. What a cool, giving top man you are, taking your 18-y/o bottom through every stage of prep, including giving him an enema. I wish every tentative, first-time bottom could get a similar education from a thoughtful top.

 

[tabby82]

It is all part of foreplay and preparation, you are seriously missing out. It is also one of the hottest things a guy can do to me. I suck my mans cock and he eats me out before we fuck everytime. Trust me any true bottom loves to get rimmed.

 

[gwmbottomm]

Having my ass eaten makes me NEED to be fucked.

 

[cocksucker4use]

I have always loved eatin butt. Instinctive, not acquired taste...lol. If I'm topping, it gets the bottom worked up and wantin IT...shows how willing to please him I am. Even if I'm suckin dick, eatin ass gets the guy goin. Rarely does a guy not want to get rimmed.

 

[masco37]

Love sticking my tongue in a hot butt and getting it done to me drives me wild. Defo helps to relax down there before fucking.

 

[rareboy]

I don't know if this is the right part of the forum to post this, so if not please move it to the correct part. What I want to know is why a lot of tops kiss and lick arse before anal? I've watched porn and a lot of men will have their tongues buried up the other man's are for minutes, kissing, spitting and licking. Is this just to get it lubricated or do they enjoy doing this in itself? I am a strict top and every time my boyfriend and I have sex, I just put on a condom, put lube on that, spray a bit on his are, then go.

Wow.

isn't your boyfriend the lucky one.

hopefully you've learned a bit hard
from the answers you've received.

 

[nyctopgam]

The anal sphincter tightens involuntarily, upon touch if it's a hole that has not been used too much. Rimming relaxes that reaction and prepares the hole for penetration.

Using a finger can do the same thing but it has less visual, olefactory and intimate appeal. A tongue is softer and naturally wetter than a bony finger too.

 

[FaceJism]

It's not for everyone, but there's probably an element of instinct involved, effectively sniffing and tasting the vagina to test that it's owner is healthy before expending energy and sperm in coitus. However, your boyfriend should not expect or demand it. His baseline should be gratitude for the honor of receiving your manhood into his core.

What I want to know is why a lot of tops kiss and lick arse before anal? I've watched porn and a lot of men will have their tongues buried up the other man's are for minutes, kissing, spitting and licking. Is this just to get it lubricated or do they enjoy doing this in itself? I am a strict top and every time my boyfriend and I have sex, I just put on a condom, put lube on that, spray a bit on his are, then go.