Why Do Gay/Bi Married Men Brag About Being Married...?

[DiamondSkin]

We all see it and hear it at the bar, at a club or online.

Some say it's being truthful.

I say it's being a douche.

What's up with a gay or bisexual man saying he's married on a online profile or in conversation with you at the club when's he trying to get in your pants?

Hell, they even created acronyms for themselves; WMM (White Married Man) BMM (Black Married Man), etc.

It's like it's something to brag about. They put it in the titles of the Manhunt profiles. They use it describe themselves on Craigslist.

They openly wear their wedding rings at a gay bar or club.

It's like they have no shame whatsoever.

"Hey, I'm married, my wife is outta town, she has no clue I'm sucking dick on the side, wanna sleep with me?"

It's a major turn-off and it's just plain douche-y.

While at the very least they are being truthful about their martial status to others, it just rubs off wrong to me.

Call me a traditionalist, but gay, straight or bi, you don't cheat on your wife.

 

[Yeehaw]

Sadly a number of gay guys get off on that :shrug:

 

[boiseboy]

I dont think they're bragging. It's a way to seduce dudes, because a lot of guys like the taboo of fucking a married man.

Thats like saying they're bragging that they have an uncut dick and are disease free.

 

[Alpha1851]

Maybe they aren't really married (usually married men aren't in gay clubs where anyone could see them and tell wifey), but aren't stupid either. Take a plain, chubby, blue collar guy, and slap on a wedding band, and he all of a sudden becomes very appealing.

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

Maybe they aren't really married (usually married men aren't in gay clubs where anyone could see them and tell wifey), but aren't stupid either. Take a plain, chubby, blue collar guy, and slap on a wedding band, and he all of a sudden becomes very appealing.

ding ding ding ding ding !!!

and i have 3 out of the four - so when do i become appealing???
Bananas have a lot of appeal !!

 

[Piquechampion]

^ So creep, does your wife knows you suck cock on the side????

I'm sure that if she sucked cock on the side you wouldn't mind???

 

[Alpha1851]

^ So creep, does your wife knows you suck cock on the side????

I'm sure that if she sucked cock on the side you wouldn't mind???

Careful, you're making an awful lot of assumptions here.

And who are you to judge? I remember it wasn't too long ago that you planned to marry a woman, in order to please your family, while getting plenty of dick on the down low. To each his own.

 

[Piquechampion]

Careful, you're making an awful lot of assumptions here.

And who are you to judge? I remember it wasn't too long ago that you planned to marry a woman, in order to please your family, while getting plenty of dick on the down low. To each his own.

Excuse moi!!!!! I never ¨planned¨ that. I don't do anything to please my family or anybody but myself.

 

[Telstra]

Maybe they aren't really married (usually married men aren't in gay clubs where anyone could see them and tell wifey), but aren't stupid either. Take a plain, chubby, blue collar guy, and slap on a wedding band, and he all of a sudden becomes very appealing.

depends on what they look like and not a wedding band becomes appealing.

 

[Alpha1851]

Excuse moi!!!!! I never ¨planned¨ that. I don't do anything to please my family or anybody but myself.

Are you certain about that? I can't find the thread where you went on and on about Latin American culture and expectations of marrying a woman and having children.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=185800

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=167388


I'm not picking at you, but you did jump the gun. Unless Binowgaylater is your lover, you have no idea as to whether he's cheating or not. Is looking at pics of men cheating? Well, I don't see the diff btwn looking at Playgirl from looking at Playboy--and almost every man (and their wives) own porn mags. Shall we condemn them all? Perhaps you've changed since you made those posts. It's definitely possible. But, just b/c your viewpoint or your situation has changed, it doesn't mean that everyone else has to fall in line. Your morals don't have to be my morals and vice versa. What works in your relationship doesn't nec mean it will work in my relationship. Seriously, to each his own.

Back to topic:

Have you noticed any gay men who are married to other men and still continue cruising? Does the married status still work as an aphrodisiac (is it the hardcore chase or the so-called straight factor that makes the situation hot whether it's real or perceived?)

 

[Piquechampion]

^ Obsessed with trying to prove a point, much????

First of all, one thing is having a thought about giving into society's wishes in a moment of depression (which I was when I made those posts, clinical depression) and another thing is actually doing it, or even planning it.

Besides, for the life of me, I don't understand why a man, straight, bi or animal, would want to marry a woman. Seeing the monster of whines and unpleasantness my mother and all of her women friends are, I don't get how a person can put up with those wenches.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Besides, for the life of me, I don't understand why a man, straight, bi or animal, would want to marry a woman. Seeing the monster of whines and unpleasantness my mother and all of her women friends are, I don't get how a person can put up with those wenches.

Stereotyping much? Have you ever thought that maybe, just possibly, there are some really great women out there, which is why these men want to marry them.

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

^ So creep, does your wife knows you suck cock on the side????

I'm sure that if she sucked cock on the side you wouldn't mind???

good gravy - you certainly are making a lot of ASSUMPTIONS -- but mostly it's making an ass out of you - not you and me..

you should not insinuate yourself into a little banter between myself and ALPHA.. we know what we're discussing - you don't -- and if you actually read my name you'lll maybe figure out that I'm not GAY till LATER -- and it's not LATER ..

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

^ Obsessed with trying to prove a point, much????

First of all, one thing is having a thought about giving into society's wishes in a moment of depression (which I was when I made those posts, clinical depression) and another thing is actually doing it, or even planning it.

Besides, for the life of me, I don't understand why a man, straight, bi or animal, would want to marry a woman. Seeing the monster of whines and unpleasantness my mother and all of her women friends are, I don't get how a person can put up with those wenches.

This is just beautiful-- the empty space between your ears has been confirmed.. Every woman is NOT your mother.. Neither is your mother the cause of your problems - much as you'd like to blame HER ! And your comments are extremely offensive to the women who are members here also !!

For the second time today i need to say :

BE SURE BRAIN IN ENGAGED BEFORE PUTTING MOUTH IN GEAR !!