Why do people think that bisexual is just another term for homosexual?

[palbert]

Because you're a fucking HOMOSEXUAL.

Stop fooling yourself because the rest of the world sees self proclaimed "bisexuals" as selfish cowardly, and a-moral. You are GAY dude. If "bisexuality" truly exists, why don't we see men in relationships with other men who secretly sneak out the house to have sex with women? Ask yourself that question the next time you're slobbering on your boyfriend's "bisexual" cock.

Always a fresh and reasoned take on a complex subject.

 

[-Kane-]

Always a fresh and reasoned take on a complex subject.

There's nothing complex about the subject matter. It's really quite elementary.

 

[G-Lexington]

Because you're a fucking HOMOSEXUAL.

Stop fooling yourself because the rest of the world sees self proclaimed "bisexuals" as selfish cowardly, and a-moral. You are GAY dude. If "bisexuality" truly exists, why don't we see men in relationships with other men who secretly sneak out the house to have sex with women? Ask yourself that question the next time you're slobbering on your boyfriend's "bisexual" cock.

I inow at oeast two gay guys who swore off ever dating another bisexual because their bisexual former-boyfriend was seeing women on the side. In other words, it exists.

Lex

 

[bankside]

Why do people think that bisexual is just another term for homosexual?

Because they're simple and they don't get out much.

 

[Gentleheart]

Because they're simple and they don't get out much.

or they get out a lot, and have been around the block enough to know how things work.

 

[dereperez]

Because you're a fucking HOMOSEXUAL.

Stop fooling yourself because the rest of the world sees self proclaimed "bisexuals" as selfish cowardly, and a-moral. You are GAY dude. If "bisexuality" truly exists, why don't we see men in relationships with other men who secretly sneak out the house to have sex with women? Ask yourself that question the next time you're slobbering on your boyfriend's "bisexual" cock.

I can always know what to expect from you when I see your posts, and you never fail. Holy blanket generalizations, batman!

 

[eastofeden]

Of course actual bisexuality exists...

...and it is true that sexuality is often fluid....and some... but by no means all... bisexual men DO use it as a cover until they admit they are gay. That may be why some people hold that opinion

I take it at face value because I think sexuality is far more complex than a lot of other people do and I also don't let anyone else define me...I suggest you do the same. I am fine with however anyone wants to define their own sexual identity BUT I make an exception for homophobes...I believe every last one of them have repressed desires of some sort.

In the end...opinions are like assholes...everyone has one.

 

[JC2008]

One of my friends told me he's bi but doesn't like the label. He spends more time touching boys than girls on a night out lol!

 

[xbuzzerx]

So I wasn't going to link this at JUB because of the shitstorm I know always accompanies the topic, but I log in today and bam, someone has created a thread about bisexuality and why do people question it.

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-biggest-lies-in-online-dating/ (Scroll down to "I'm bisexual.")

This more or less matches everything I've ever personally seen or observed offline.

That being said, since this came up in a previous thread, I do believe it exists, and in fact this article does show that there is indeed bisexual dating attempts from people labelled bisexual-- but they are a minority of all people self-identifying as bisexual.

On the one hand, I do think the great majority of bisexuals are either mis-labelling, are more comfortable with (or find it more advantageous to use) the bisexual label than another, or so strongly favor one gender that the title of bisexuality seems almost academic rather than practical or informative of their behavior romantically. On the other hand, I do believe it exists but is much rarer than it is used or stated.

 

[medic1]

I can always know what to expect from you when I see your posts, and you never fail. Holy blanket generalizations, batman!

AGREED!
As i have posted before, for some sexuality is fluid, for others fixed. I know my fella is bisexual, he has had long-term relationships with
females.
You omitted one very important point in your derisive post. That of being in love. If you are both committed to each other, and are able to talk openly and honestly, about any fears or insecurities. Then why the fuck would i need to worry about him screwing a female behind my back?
Oh yeah, i think you meant to post, "Why do we see men in relationships with other men, secretly sneak out of the house to have sex with woman?

As for implying my fella is selfish, cowardly, and amoral, go fuck yourself.

 

[MorrisseyX]

There is biphobia in the gay community and of course bisexuality exists. The bathhouse is a place where many bisexual men explore their sexuality. So many men are bisexual they do not want a relationship with another man but they want the sex.

 

[peeonme]

It astounds me that in a group where tolerance and acceptance are the mantra that I see such narrow minded bigotry and hatred at times.
To those who are so adamant about knowing the sexuality of others and proclaiming that they can't even exist, try to wrap your mind around this, you are no different than the homophobes who say that you are gay by choice.

 

[xboxfan34]

Because you're a fucking HOMOSEXUAL.

Stop fooling yourself because the rest of the world sees self proclaimed "bisexuals" as selfish cowardly, and a-moral. You are GAY dude. If "bisexuality" truly exists, why don't we see men in relationships with other men who secretly sneak out the house to have sex with women? Ask yourself that question the next time you're slobbering on your boyfriend's "bisexual" cock.

What if you're legitimately fucking attracted to both motherfucking genders?

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

What if you're legitimately fucking attracted to both motherfucking genders?

Save yourself the headache, you really don't want a reply.

 

[figjam]

I am a 24 year-old man and I am currently dating another man, who is 36. Both of us are bisexual. This is my first relationship with a man, hee has been with both before, and actually has a young son from a previous relationship. We are both very much attracted to women, even though we are in an exclusive and committed relationship. I've always been attracted to males and females as far back as I can remember.

The problem is, that a lot of people, both heterosexual and homosexual, tell us both that we are in denial, that we are just homosexual, that we are self-haters etc... The basic point is that bisexual men don't exist, and that we're just saying that we are because it's a compensation for coming out as exclusively homosexual. It seems very hypciticsl from homosexual people, because they know what it's like to deal with prejudicd and not being accepted, yet they do the same to us.

What do you guys think, agree, disagree, please tell your thoughts on the matter.

Thing is - people tend to shout for one team... Bisexuality is what it is - some gay men try to use it as a halfway stop. Sexuality is so fluid that one does not have to create these boxes.


Gay or straight or bi - to all his own....

 

[figjam]

Because you're a fucking HOMOSEXUAL.

Stop fooling yourself because the rest of the world sees self proclaimed "bisexuals" as selfish cowardly, and a-moral. You are GAY dude. If "bisexuality" truly exists, why don't we see men in relationships with other men who secretly sneak out the house to have sex with women? Ask yourself that question the next time you're slobbering on your boyfriend's "bisexual" cock.

This is the typical homo-scare-sual response. In "these" people's minds there is only one right way - the gay way...

They are similar to homophobic straight people. Do not listen to them though - they are as dangerous as militant straight people...

 

[eastofeden]

^^^ The problem is...both POV are right in some cases but absolutes don't accurately describe any group of individuals. I could find a host of formerly bi men who will profess to being gay all along and I can find a host of bi men who are truly attracted to both men and women sexually...then you have the ones who are emotionally attracted to one sex and physically the other...or some combination of both....and probably a lot of other things I can't even think of.

 

[mikey3000]

Just say you're gay. It's easier. Then go sleep with women if you want. Lots of "gay" guys do. Not a big deal.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

whilewhiles a da tiny dozen folk play wit labels fa no reason but shittin there days fa amuse

> so call straight worlds so many it wonda a straight word eva make
_ make da rulessssssssss of so many gamessssss_

there go

bit fa wetbrains go suck off

thankyou

 

[Gentleheart]

whilewhiles a da tiny dozen folk play wit labels fa no reason but shittin there days fa amuse

> so call straight worlds so many it wonda a straight word eva make
_ make da rulessssssssss of so many gamessssss_

there go

bit fa wetbrains go suck off

thankyou

I understand it. And I think I agree!


And you're welcome, sloppy. I love how you always thank us after your posts.