On Topic Discussion Why do so many gay men come out as bi first?

[Auberon]

I think a lot of it is sometimes wanting or trying to have some normality. Not fully committing to being gay yet.

 

[mikey3000]

Afraid of commitment?

 

[Telstra]

Afraid of commitment?

No, its a baby steps as gx said.

 

[nyctopgam]

Many of us don't know about our sexuality when we are young. So we experiment.

I suspect bisexuality is more common than we think. Most men will fuck men given the chance.

 

[USEDCAR]

I think most people are bi until they meet that right person and it snaps them out of it.

 

[TickTockMan]

"Don't knock until you try it."


Maybe they want to try it first.


Personally I see no reason to limit myself (in much of anything really). Of course I am pan so that is easy for me.

 

[nycguydowntown]

I've know millenials who do this all the time---gay ones say they are bi---and straight one's who say they are bi---if you ask the gay one's have you ever had sex with a guy they will say yes---if you ask the straight ones if they ever had sex with a guy they will say no--they just think it sounds cool and open minded

 

[TickTockMan]

I've know millenials who do this all the time---gay ones say they are bi---and straight one's who say they are bi---if you ask the gay one's have you ever had sex with a guy they will say yes---if you ask the straight ones if they ever had sex with a guy they will say no--they just think it sounds cool and open minded

Maybe they are just picky or have not found someone willing. I am pan, but I have not been with anyone trans and I have only been with one woman. I am still pan. Just because I don't go fuck everything doesn't negate that. Same with them.