Why do so many girls fear that their bf might be gay?

[Wizard 666]

Almost everyone one of my friends at one point or another thinks their bf is gay. For such stupid reasons too.

"My boyfriend didn't want to fuck me last night, I think he is gay" or "My boyfriend wants to see a musical, I think he is gay".

What is this paranoia? I don't think straight guys fear their girls are lesbians... some probably want it, actually. lol

 

[Telstra]

their marriage won't last ?

 

[refujiunderground]

Almost everyone one of my friends at one point or another thinks their bf is gay. For such stupid reasons too.

"My boyfriend didn't want to fuck me last night, I think he is gay" or "My boyfriend wants to see a musical, I think he is gay".

What is this paranoia? I don't think straight guys fear their girls are lesbians... some probably want it, actually. lol

seriously speaking, with the way a lot of these women act nowadays where they have their heads stuck up their asses, it wouldn't surprise me if there were straight guys that didn't get frustrated with women and started dating men. there's a lot of straight male guys that are virgins and haven't been on dates with women because women are way too picky with who they get with and for those guys that are able to get with women, they constantly have to bend their backs over for them just to have and keep one. i know that was my case when i was trying to be straight even though i wasn't. if you weren't tall, good looking, dressed like you had money, had a car, some money in your pocket and weren't chasing around every woman in the room talking to every last one of them until some woman liked you enough to be your girlfriend or lay with you, you were pretty much going to spend the rest of your life with your hand. i'm happy that all that frustration forced me to examine myself and pushed me to come out the closet because i wasn't even attracted to any of those girls like that to begin with.

 

[nycguydowntown]

Hopefully the bitches constant nagging with force their str8 boyfriends into the arms of a guy---who can't nag as much with a mouthful of their cock.

 

[paintact]

Several reasons....
Their own insecurities.
Playing into societal gender norms and prejudices (of their own) - seriously worried that your boyfriend might be gay because he wants to see a musical? Stereotype much?
It's funny, they complain about men in so many ways...and when they get one that's not conventional, all of a sudden they complain and worry...? Again, a reflection of their own issues...and prejudices.



I will say, I think a lot of women are just oblivious, or in denial. For all the numerous sites I've seen with men that identify online as bisexual (or even gay), it seems that most of those men are not out to their gf/wife...nor do they ever plan to be. Not saying that of all, just most from what I've seen/heard.
Truth is...most folks out there, especially the men, are probably still closeted.
I don't buy the numbers that we are only 5 to 10% of the population, with bi's being even less. Just scan the internet to see that's just probably not true.
And there are TONS of sites dedicated to 'my bf/husband is gay...what do I do?' and the aftermath. I was just looking at one recently.

I think a lot girls think 'if he's having sex with me, there's no way he could be anything but straight'. From what I see, most refuse to see anything but that...and you wonder why they're in such denial.
I also think many women fear, and don't understand, male bisexuality. I hear so many say they wouldn't mind if their boyfriend wasn't straight, etc...they give lip service to it... but it seems like the way it plays out when they do actually know/find out is the complete opposite.

 

[pai mei]

any girl who thinks their bf is gay because he wants to see a musical is just stupid. (tho i do like musicals lol)

so i guess the answer is because they're stupid. altho who exactly are these women you claim are saying this? ive never heard that.

 

[derelictdarrel]

seriously speaking, with the way a lot of these women act nowadays where they have their heads stuck up their asses, it wouldn't surprise me if there were straight guys that didn't get frustrated with women and started dating men. there's a lot of straight male guys that are virgins and haven't been on dates with women because women are way too picky with who they get with and for those guys that are able to get with women, they constantly have to bend their backs over for them just to have and keep one. i know that was my case when i was trying to be straight even though i wasn't. if you weren't tall, good looking, dressed like you had money, had a car, some money in your pocket and weren't chasing around every woman in the room talking to every last one of them until some woman liked you enough to be your girlfriend or lay with you, you were pretty much going to spend the rest of your life with your hand. i'm happy that all that frustration forced me to examine myself and pushed me to come out the closet because i wasn't even attracted to any of those girls like that to begin with.

American women= FAIL

 

[refujiunderground]

American women= FAIL

well, it's not just american women. it's women in general.

but another thing that some women like to do is that they will say that a guy is gay, spread rumors and shit like that because he rejects them or has no interest in them as in only just them as if every guy has to like them or something. like for real, some of these women actually think that they're that hot and desirable to the point where they'll throw a dude under the bus because he isn't eyeing her up or all over her. the funny thing is these women don't even like when dudes eye them up or all over them even if they like him.

 

[vulgar_newcomer]

I tried to watch the movie the Music Man, 1962 yesterday for the first time ever and couldn't even force myself to watch it. I think most guys in that movie were gay and those those prancing boys wearing tight ass -flood trousers during the (gaydar alret) Robert Preston singing Seventy-Six Trombones had nothing on later 20 century stove pipe or modern skinny jeans.
I wonder if everyone thought that was a gay movie when it came out?
It was pretty popular? But I am a gay guy who would rather watch the 700 club over having to watch movies like that.

 

[Kulindahr]

Because Madison Avenue and Hollywood have spent two generations portraying men in a way that has girls thinking that if a guy doesn't want in her pants, he doesn't love her -- and it's less disturbing to think a guy is gay than that he doesn't love her.

 

[diamondstar]

seriously speaking, with the way a lot of these women act nowadays where they have their heads stuck up their asses, it wouldn't surprise me if there were straight guys that didn't get frustrated with women and started dating men. there's a lot of straight male guys that are virgins and haven't been on dates with women because women are way too picky with who they get with and for those guys that are able to get with women, they constantly have to bend their backs over for them just to have and keep one. i know that was my case when i was trying to be straight even though i wasn't. if you weren't tall, good looking, dressed like you had money, had a car, some money in your pocket and weren't chasing around every woman in the room talking to every last one of them until some woman liked you enough to be your girlfriend or lay with you, you were pretty much going to spend the rest of your life with your hand. i'm happy that all that frustration forced me to examine myself and pushed me to come out the closet because i wasn't even attracted to any of those girls like that to begin with.

Okay REACHING! U speak as if men are the greatest thing on Earth? Not all women are like that and the majority of the time it's the man the woman constantly struggles to please despite being too good for him. Sorry if some of the Gold Diggers and shallow hoes have U feeling like this, but not all the goddesses are bitches. Woman are no saints, but neither are men. This forum seems to have a bad habit in bashing women.

 

[freefall]

The fact is despite no matter what, most women and girls want to get married and have a secure stable relationship. Besides, all people would feel humiliated when they realise they become a beard without them knowing it.So if the boyfriend turns out gay, it would be the end.

 

[mygaybuffet]

Isn't it obvious?! They're girls!!

It is a shame though that more of their boyfriends aren't gay.

 

[rareboy]

Simple:

Because they can't compete with guys. They don't have a penis.

Just like gay men are afraid of their guys being attracted to women.

Quoted for truth.

They feel inferior.

 

[rareboy]

Dble post....oops

 

[Kulindahr]

Because he wishes his dick were bigger.

So many reasons.

What does having a bigger dick have to do with being gay?

 

[Asenath]

Yet another JUB thread that makes me want to drink in the morning.

 

[pai mei]

What does having a bigger dick have to do with being gay?

we gays are obsessed with dick, didnt you kno?

 

[refujiunderground]

Okay REACHING! U speak as if men are the greatest thing on Earth? Not all women are like that and the majority of the time it's the man the woman constantly struggles to please despite being too good for him. Sorry if some of the Gold Diggers and shallow hoes have U feeling like this, but not all the goddesses are bitches. Woman are no saints, but neither are men. This forum seems to have a bad habit in bashing women.

if there is a forum full of gay men that don't think highly of today's women and there are other forums with straight men that feel the same, then obviously, we all see something that you aren't seeing or don't want to see. i would talk about the ills of men but this is about women and that's what we're going to talk about for now.

i'm not generalizing women at all. i'm just saying that there's a lot of women outthere that aren't being realistic and a part of that may be how society influences them. most men are willing to settle down with somebody because they love them. most women nowadays look at 20 things before they even decide to get into a relationship with a man which is ridiculous. they look at his car, they look at his job status, they look at his height, what their friend think of him, and all this bullshit. most women will not go out with a guy simply because they like him or have a connection.

a lot of men have to cater to these women to even be looked at or taken seriously and the sad thing is a lot of these women expect the man to come correct as in looking right, having their whole lives together when they can't even get their shit straight themselves. the funny thing is that these same women claim to be "independent" and can hold themselves down because they know how to cook, clean, and survival skills basically yet they need support as in someone to help them pay for shit. very rarely will you hear about a woman nowadays that is living on her own and has her own apartment but you'll always hear about a woman living with her parents, living with her boyfriend and the whole nine. if she's living on her own, she probably has kids or at least.

all i'm saying is that women want a fantasy or someone that they themselves can't keep on with and they have the audacity to think everyone besides them is crazy. then when things don't work out, they have the nerve to blame men and everyone but themselves. same like how some women stay with fucked up men and act all helpless like there isn't a way out. i know this because i've seen it my whole life with my parents. my mom basically is pulling my father along. he treats her like shit and she takes it. if she was serious, she would have done what she was SUPPOSED to do and moved on but she's still with him and she has been carrying his weight for the past 20 something years. i would help her out and i've tried but you can't force somebody to do something they don't want to do. i'm worrying about myself at this point because i'm in some shit myself. money issues, job issues, being in the closet and having acceptance issues with being gay.

 

[luvme4evr]

i work with a few waitresses, and they know i am gay, i think. they r so dumb they have these fine ass men at home and they come 2 work complaining cuz the husband or bf wants 2 have sex. then they actually ask me if i will go out with them. i mean tht's what u have bf's for idiots. i am so happy i dont have a gf, i mean i like women, but sometimes they r dumb. i would give ne thing 2 have wht they have at least 4 one night.