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Why does life always have to be so damned complicated?

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get the police or any other law enforcement agency to warn the thuggish guy that they are keep an eye on him.

Tell you sister to choose which one she want and cut the other one off.
 
My big sister has a boyfriend. A very violent, aggressive, thuggish, drug-dealing boyfriend with many underworld connections. She just told me that he wants to "kill" my coworker.

So what's your sister going to do about this?
 
What's your sister doing with that guy? A "very violent, aggressive, thuggish, drug-dealing boyfriend with many underworld connections" doesn't sound like the ideal mate. I hate being judgmental: but the words 'violent' and 'aggressive', for me, have 'wife-beater' written all over them.

Anyway. I don't really know how to help you and all options have their pros and their cons, as you know. However, against better judgment: does your coworker know about this? If not, I would tell him. He kinda deserves to know when there's a bounty on his head (so to speak). Also, I wouldn't go to the boyfriend (unless you two have some sort of bond outside the common connection. I would, however, talk to your sister.

Good luck. Keep us updated.
 
Don't choose number 3! Don't put anything in writing w/ your name on it.

Gosh, what an odd situation. Uh, good luck.
 
Let's hope your sister has got some good judgment in her. :)

Let your sister handle this. I feel you might be undermining her authority and questioning her maturity if you intrude. You can advise her to talk to the coworker. She's clearly not in love with him. Let him down nicely. Then get her to placate the boyfriend.

What you can do is, approach the coworker and explain the situation to him. "So-and-so doesn't like that you fancying his girlfriend. He's known to be violent. He will stab you." And that's when you hit on him.
 
^ Seeta took the words right outa my mouth.
 
He's told me he doesn't hit her, and she's told me he doesn't hit her, and I have no reason to suspect either of them are lying.

Well, that's good. Was kinda worried there for a sec. :)

If you're on good terms with the bf and you think there won't be any backlash from anyone, you could cautiously approach him about the subject. Don't say 'stay the fuck away from my colleagues', but, I don't know, let him no there's no need? I don't know anyone in this situation, so I don't know how anyone would react, but I guess you do. Use your best judgment.
 
Alpha has a point, don't put anything in writing. In your own hand or otherwise. In your hand it could be a threat, "get away from my sister or else..." and from an anonymous account, it can be ignored ("who the hell is this...") When you talk to your sister, discuss options 1 & 4 with her. Then either you or she needs to handle the situation and doing it soon might not be a bad idea. You might also talk to your sister about her current beau, if he is dealing and associated with unsavory types, he might be leaving the picture anyway, either going to jail or pissing off the wrong person and getting dead.
 
I think a warning is in order, for his sake, one never know that shit some people do for the smallest reason.

what the old saying: "Never throw caution into the wind"

you should tell the police, worst thing that can happen is the b/f might get popped for the illegal shit he is doing and you save a friend , nothing wrong there..
 
If life was perfect it'd be boring. I've asked this question so many times. I know alot of people are worse off then me but I really do think things happen for a reason. I know its easier said then listened to when this advice is given.
 
I am not trying to be mean--but YOUR sister told her jealous, aggressive boyfriend that SHE likes this sweet innocent guy---I would not trust her to defuse the the situation. Warn the the baker--to stay away from this trainwreck waiting to happen--I would do it in person and not go through channels.
 
I am not trying to be mean--but YOUR sister told her jealous, aggressive boyfriend that SHE likes this sweet innocent guy---I would not trust her to defuse the the situation. Warn the the baker--to stay away from this trainwreck waiting to happen--I would do it in person and not go through channels.

yep, she already have 1 boy friend.
Warn the other guys friends not to go near her because of the situation.
 
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