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Why gay & str8 guys dont beleive 1 can be BI ?

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2untru said:
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Straight people don't understand being gay while gay people are incapable of being straight. It makes sense for a person in the middle to be misunderstood as well.
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Your answer does really make sense but either the straight or the gay people think that their way is the best and normal one.
Dont u think that they should be much more open minded and accept that there might be another way of having fun ?
 
curiousguyUNT said:
I think that this is where most of the denial comes from: you claimed you were bi when you knew you were gay, therefore anyone who claims to be bi must also be gay. It's a logical fallacy but gets repeated because of personal experience. It's the same as me saying I liked broccoli, when in fact I really hated it, so I think that anyone who says they like broccoli must also hate it.
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Yes that's where it comes from. People can't help it, but people have to expect it in life. I think it's perfectly logical, but it's not like I'm perfectly doubtless.
 
Y'all usually think I'm just a smart ass. Often my posts read that way.
Then some few of you take an extra minute to think about an oblique
angle of interpretation.......YES.

Straights and Gays are both jealous and curious. Always wondering
about the other "side of the street" hating what they might miss.

BI's cross the street with frequency thus can make an educated (not
always the best though) choice of what they drive off the lot.:##:(*S*):##:
 
I think, personally, that people put far too much stress on labelling sexuality (and everything else for that matter).

So, basically, I don't think there is a need for labelling as either gay straight, bi. For me it's a simple case of attraction. Whether male, female or other, attraction is all that really matters. It may well be that there are only 6 specific men in the world that I may find myself attracted to, does that make me gay or bi or curious or just a sexual deviant?

I don't care, I have fun. :)

PS, Hooray first post lol
 
DramaKing said:
I think, personally, that people put far too much stress on labelling sexuality (and everything else for that matter).

So, basically, I don't think there is a need for labelling as either gay straight, bi. For me it's a simple case of attraction. Whether male, female or other, attraction is all that really matters. It may well be that there are only 6 specific men in the world that I may find myself attracted to, does that make me gay or bi or curious or just a sexual deviant?

I don't care, I have fun. :)

PS, Hooray first post lol
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Congratulation for your 1st post and also because you are so bloody right in what you are saying.
But i would like to add something else to that thread.
Up to now we've been speaking only about the way guys react about str8, gay or bi but what i'd liked to ask too is for the BI how does the girls react when they learn that you're having sex as well with boys and girls ?
As for me as long that i have a condom most of them dont mind ( and to be true i often tell them before starting to play -if u see what i mean ?)
 
That's a good point to raise actually, for me, I've never had the reaction because I have never mentioned it to any girl I've slept with.

I'd quite like to know other people's experiences on that really, I've never particularly thought about it before!
 
Calagang said:

Up to now we've been speaking only about the way guys react about str8, gay or bi but what i'd liked to ask too is for the BI how does the girls react when they learn that you're having sex as well with boys and girls ?
As for me as long that i have a condom most of them dont mind ( and to be true i often tell them before starting to play -if u see what i mean ?)
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DramaKing said:
That's a good point to raise actually, for me, I've never had the reaction because I have never mentioned it to any girl I've slept with.

I'd quite like to know other people's experiences on that really, I've never particularly thought about it before!
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So come on guys tell us how they react when you tell them ??? ..|
 
We have been told that the correct and appropriate expression of our love is through a committed monogamous relationship. Opposite sex if you are straight and same sex if you are gay.

If you have remained faithful to your wife for all intents and purposes an observer would assume you are straight.
 
fetaby said:
We have been told that the correct and appropriate expression of our love is through a committed monogamous relationship. Opposite sex if you are straight and same sex if you are gay.

If you have remained faithful to your wife for all intents and purposes an observer would assume you are straight.
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I dont know how old u are, I've been told that i must have a monogamous relationship BUT only on the str8 side of the stuff. Gay thing was not even a thought that could be part of a relationship.
As for me i am married ( to a woman),and bi (only from time to time though)

The question i am asking is, in fact much more for BI people, to see how girls react when they (BI guys) tell them (girls) that they sleep as well with boys & girls ?
 
Telstra said:
sorry but i have to ask this question.
Are you still having sex at the age of 61 ?
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How old are u to ask such a silly question ?
You have to know that at 61 I have had sex as usual and now at 74 I am still having sex 2 or 3 times in a week!!!
Hope you’ll be able to do so and even more when you’ll have my age ???🥰
 
I learned that I’m hetro-romantic but bisexual. I’ll have sex with men and women but I can’t see myself in a same sex relationship but then again I’ve never been in that position. Why label anyone anyway. We’re all humans and love fellow humans..
 
not all gays believe this. those who do often just have biases against bi people. they say all of this outdated bs like "they're greedy" or some such. people sometimes fail to move with the times or adapt to changing thinking. some lie to be mentally stuck in th 1980s since it gives them comfort.
 
Hi. My ex-boyfriend was bisexual. He left me for a woman after 6 long years together. I as a gay man would never date another bisexual man for fear of being dumped again. My best friend is a bisexual and gay men reject him all the time for the same reason as I. I'm not taking any kind of jabs Here ❤️ the topic of "Bisexuals" is very important and complicated. We all have different feelings on the matter... And no real answers from anyone. My friend is "95% gay and 5% straight" he told me. Karol, leans towards men for love. But is constantly being turned down and call a "freak" by many. It's heartbreaking because Karol, thinks he's going to be alone forever.
 
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