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Why I don't like high schoolers

ladygrey said:
Although I can't be racist (as it is a term that can only be used by a majority color, commonly white), I certainly was being prejuiced. ...
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That's not true.

Anybody can be racist.

Wiki has collected a few definitions from top sources:

Racism is any form of bigotry, prejudice, violence, oppression, stereotyping or other socially divisive practice whose primary basis is the concept of race.

However, beyond that, the term has varying and often hotly contested definitions. According to the Oxford English Dictionary, racism is a belief or ideology that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially to distinguish it as being either superior or inferior to another race or races. The Merriam-Webster's Webster's Dictionary dictionary defines racism as a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race, and that it is also the prejudice based on such a belief. The Macquarie Dictionary defines racism thus: the belief that human races have distinctive characteristics which determine their respective cultures, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule or dominate others.
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xcasex said:
I've kinda had a similar situation. Except the guy bothering me was going around lying saying that we had sex and a whole bunch of other bullshit, when we didn't. So instead of trying to tell people my side, I saved out AIM conversations and posted them in my Xanga, and since he gave the link to my site out to all his friends so they could leave me nasty comments, they got to read our conversations and see what was really said by whom. He didn't like it, but you know what, if he wasn't lying in the first place I wouldn't have done that. He doesn't bother me anymore though. Sometimes you have to go to that last resort so motherfuckers get the point.
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In case you don't realize this is childish, I'll give you a head's up -- it is.
 
Sheesh...will these threads EVER go away?
 
Hm...I know I had something vaguely similar to this happen once, except the guy wasn't a kid (he was like 20 and I was 21 at the time.) He kept making up things, not exactly "we slept together", but saying I said things I didn't and twisting things to make them fit his story, and taking bits of our IM conversations out of context and posting them for people to see.

What's funny is that I took ONE full conversation, no edits, no breaks, where the full context of each remark could be seen, and posted it (and it was one he had already posted some parts of.) It pissed him off bigtime, and he started making complaints that I had edited and altered it, when I hadn't at all, and that it cast him in a bad light (which taking my remarks out of context didn't to me?) Basically, to me, it was perfectly alright to do since he had already been posting bits of "private" conversations, including that same one, and had actually done a little splicing to make it look like he wanted to. I just gave the unadulterated truth, and also made neither commentary or observations, leaving it for people to judge for themselves. I was, in fact, asking my friends to tell me if I was really in the wrong or not, as if I was, I wanted to apologize. This guy had been bothering me for like three months, but I just wanted peace with him, and was trying to find, out from people I felt would know, if I was exhasterbating the situation. If I was, I was fully prepared to issue a public apology...but the fact that even HE saw that he was the one in the wrong cleared everything up.

I dunno, honestly, I see nothing wrong in it if the person just WILL NOT stop their lying and, at least in my case, resisted ALL attempts at apology and peacemaking on my part...and also in my case, he was the one that started the posting of private conversations (even the one I posted, I ASKED him, and that was the last line of what I posted, if he really wanted it posted...it was actually his idea to do it in the first place.)


So yeah, I'm not sure why all of you are saying this is bad. If it can be done anonymously or to a group of close friends and not public/strangers (which was again my case), then I see nothing wrong with it, as it puts on the record who said what and what the truth is. And the truth is the most powerful weapon in existance...lies are just easier to poke at people with. Truth can also be a shield, use it as such, since shields are better than weapons anyway when it comes down to it.


So, was this evil? Considering my adversary, whom I was ever trying to make peace with, wanted it, I'd say it wasn't. It was simply exposing the truth for all to see...which made my life a hecka easier since he finally decided to leave me alone. I would have prefered peaceful resolution, but an uneasy disquiet is still preferable to a one-sided war.
 
Trust me, if meheart had anything to do with it, it was probably evil, or at least thoughtless and mean spirited. The difference here is that we're dealing with a 14 year old kid and as I read it, the underlying story is quite different.
 
Nightmare said:
The problem with that is any one can go into wiki an edit all that.
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I just didn't feel like cutting and pasting all that from each source.

But if you go the sources you'll find what's reproduced in that Wiki piece is accurate.

Any human being can be racist. Being racist has to do with one's view of race, not the race one is oneself. The idea that a white man can be racist but a black man cannot completely misses the definition of racism.
 
pretty sure i'm 20 and 80% of my friends 17 or under - HIGH SCHOOLERS.

i only have 2 friends who r the same age as me.

ppl at uni frown at me and say i'm immature coz i hang around with school kids, but they r so much more fun and they actually respect me and love me, unlike most ppl my own age who have no respect for me.

btw i am probbaly going to bcome a high school teacher so talking to school kids is a good skill to have.
 
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