Why is it easier to pick up guys than girls?

[flixelblix]

With a girl, it's like:
"So, I was thinking, there's a new exhibit at the art museum, indigenous folk art of Honduras and Guatemala. It's something I 've been interested in for a while. Would you like to meet me there and we can see it together? And then afterwards, there's a great little coffee place that's just right around the corner, that makes the best scones and spiced chai latte. I just love going there. Does that sound like a nice time? We can get to know each other a little better and learn something about another culture."

With guys, it's more like:
"Want a blow job?"
"Sure what time?"

I've been trying to get into this girls panties for a while now and she seems real interested but when we get alone time, she wants to go look for diseased trees or whatch a chick flick. I've given up

 

[cklover]

It's easier because the majority of guys are always horny and are less inhibited when it comes to sex.

 

[mantikohr]

Simple:

Women don't think logically.

Men do.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Simple:

Women don't think logically.

Men do.

I'm hoping that was a joke...

 

[954dude]

Simple guys are horndogs. There are horndog girls but they arent as commen as their male counterparts.

Well said and I agree. I think when you're in a club many guys are willing and ready to hook up. Girls like sex too and it's on their mind, but of course, they wanna have a good time more than anything.

 

[FLGG2007]

This has been around for ages, but it's true.

"Women need a reason....Men need a place."

It's as simple as that!

 

[bulge]

Sex between guys is common and obvious, but the appearance of the gay identity has put some spokes in the wheels as rightly said in this article "Homosexuality, from common to a rarity"

http://www.youth-suicide.com/gay-bisexual/a-gay-male-youth-suicide.htm

 

[Crackberry]

Simple guys are horndogs. There are horndog girls but they arent as commen as their male counterparts.

That isn't really accurate, at all.

 

[Kraseviya]

Recently a cute guy--no HOT guy--I met while dancing one night joined me for breakfast after dancing. He's 22...he models for A & F in DC and is gorgeous. I almost spit my eggs when he looked at me across the table, took my hand, and asked, "So, do you want to be fuck buddies or date?"

I hate you.

 

[snowgrouse]

In a nutshell: male and female socialisation, and hormones. It's much, much more difficult for even the horniest of chicks to get any action without being labelled sluts or being looked down upon, but for guys, having an active sex life isn't a problem. Plus, I don't even want to get into the whole aspect of women being sexually harassed and abused through all sorts of fucked-up cultural patterns. This is a shame, because it means a fuckload of women will never be able to enjoy a good fuck, or orgasm during sex, or even masturbate because other women (and prudish men) will reject them for it. I can't tell you how many times I've been flamed by prudes just for admitting that I masturbate often and enjoy sex, because I'm (gasp) a female. How many guys get flamed for admitting they like wanking?

Yes, I'm a chick. I don't do chick flicks or play hard to get or other stupid social games, but I've also found it's easier to pick up girls than guys just because of that having-grown-up-with-the-same-gendered-socialisation thing. Except there's usually far more potential for emotional fuckuppance in there (yeah, I don't like the passive-aggressive shit that female socialisation brings with it either). I've found it much easier to discuss masturbation, porn, kinky sex and have wild sex with guys (especially bi guys). In RL, I get along with guys far better than women, anyway. It's much, much more difficult to find a chick who's a complete perv and comfortable in her sexuality. Really, in the end it's far more to do with social crap than actual biology!

 

[hothunk222]

Easy, cause guys are horny!

 

[Crackberry]

In a nutshell: male and female socialisation, and hormones. It's much, much more difficult for even the horniest of chicks to get any action without being labelled sluts or being looked down upon, but for guys, having an active sex life isn't a problem. Plus, I don't even want to get into the whole aspect of women being sexually harassed and abused through all sorts of fucked-up cultural patterns. This is a shame, because it means a fuckload of women will never be able to enjoy a good fuck, or orgasm during sex, or even masturbate because other women (and prudish men) will reject them for it. I can't tell you how many times I've been flamed by prudes just for admitting that I masturbate often and enjoy sex, because I'm (gasp) a female. How many guys get flamed for admitting they like wanking?

Yes, I'm a chick. I don't do chick flicks or play hard to get or other stupid social games, but I've also found it's easier to pick up girls than guys just because of that having-grown-up-with-the-same-gendered-socialisation thing. Except there's usually far more potential for emotional fuckuppance in there (yeah, I don't like the passive-aggressive shit that female socialisation brings with it either). I've found it much easier to discuss masturbation, porn, kinky sex and have wild sex with guys (especially bi guys). In RL, I get along with guys far better than women, anyway. It's much, much more difficult to find a chick who's a complete perv and comfortable in her sexuality. Really, in the end it's far more to do with social crap than actual biology!

Wow, someone in this thread actually has a brain instead of just spouting out sexist crap.

 

[accorn]

I find the opposite for me however, I am no mr. universe or anything close but it seems that women gravitate towards me (maybe its the soap I use). Having been closeted for most of my life it might be due to the fact that I was conditioned well enough to attract the opposite sex.

Being also a relationship centered individual I think may be the bigger reason why I dont tend to pick up guys....

So it may be true that quick lay will be easier to find with guys but dating is harder.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

In a nutshell: male and female socialisation, and hormones. It's much, much more difficult for even the horniest of chicks to get any action without being labelled sluts or being looked down upon, but for guys, having an active sex life isn't a problem. Plus, I don't even want to get into the whole aspect of women being sexually harassed and abused through all sorts of fucked-up cultural patterns. This is a shame, because it means a fuckload of women will never be able to enjoy a good fuck, or orgasm during sex, or even masturbate because other women (and prudish men) will reject them for it. I can't tell you how many times I've been flamed by prudes just for admitting that I masturbate often and enjoy sex, because I'm (gasp) a female. How many guys get flamed for admitting they like wanking?

Yes, I'm a chick. I don't do chick flicks or play hard to get or other stupid social games, but I've also found it's easier to pick up girls than guys just because of that having-grown-up-with-the-same-gendered-socialisation thing. Except there's usually far more potential for emotional fuckuppance in there (yeah, I don't like the passive-aggressive shit that female socialisation brings with it either). I've found it much easier to discuss masturbation, porn, kinky sex and have wild sex with guys (especially bi guys). In RL, I get along with guys far better than women, anyway. It's much, much more difficult to find a chick who's a complete perv and comfortable in her sexuality. Really, in the end it's far more to do with social crap than actual biology!

This is probably one of the most reasonable answers in this thread.

 

[Swim69mer]

Now for me I think that woman are easier to pick up. Know I know that I am gay but I have a lot of bi friends and they have thier theorys and I have mine. My first reason is that I think guys are harder to pick up because it mainly goes against to whole guy norm and being afraid that they actually might be if they tried it.

The second reason is that I think woman are more open to change or can see this as more of a natural thing because they are in more touch with thier feelings. so they think if you really like some one you should go for it.

SAME HERE!

Now for me I think that woman are easier to pick up. Know I know that I am gay but I have a lot of bi friends and they have thier theorys and I have mine. My first reason is that I think guys are harder to pick up because it mainly goes against to whole guy norm and being afraid that they actually might be if they tried it.

The second reason is that I think woman are more open to change or can see this as more of a natural thing because they are in more touch with thier feelings. so they think if you really like some one you should go for it.

SAME HERE!!

I find the opposite for me however, I am no mr. universe or anything close but it seems that women gravitate towards me (maybe its the soap I use). Having been closeted for most of my life it might be due to the fact that I was conditioned well enough to attract the opposite sex.

Being also a relationship centered individual I think may be the bigger reason why I dont tend to pick up guys....

So it may be true that quick lay will be easier to find with guys but dating is harder.

SAME HERE!!!

 

[Storybook_Man]

Is it because guys are way more open? Is it because I'm more attractive to guys than I am to girls?

Anyone else find that it's easier for them to pick up a guy than to pick up a girl?

All that needs to be said is, that men are dogs like women say. We want sex, its easier with men because we give in easy, as for a women they don't at times..

 

[AngelFromAbove]

All that needs to be said is, that men are dogs like women say. We want sex, its easier with men because we give in easy, as for a women they don't at times..

No. Women have more to consider from a biological as well as a sociological perspective than men. However, all men are not irrational horndogs who cannot control their sexual desires.

 

[tylersf]

Wish I had this problem.
Girls like me.
In grad school in New York, this dancer chick asked me to go home with her on my birthday. I played stupid even though I talked to her all night.
Also, I made out with one of my female friends at a bar all night in front of all our friends. Everyone knows I'm gay.
When I lived in Boston, this Japanese girl I talked to blatantly asked me for my phone number and wanted to date.
Any suggestions on getting more guys?

Is it because guys are way more open? Is it because I'm more attractive to guys than I am to girls?

Anyone else find that it's easier for them to pick up a guy than to pick up a girl?

 

[biguy732]

Like what was posted earlier - women need a reason - guys need a place. It is simple - guys just want to blow their load - simple as that. We don't get into our feelings towards the guy who just gave us a blow job - you just enjoy seeing him either eating your cum or enjoy seeing the facial you just gave him. We are not concerned about if he feels cheap or used cuz we just came all over him and we feel great! And now that our load has been shot - we wipe up our cock, get dressed and leave - but I always say "Thanks!" before I leave.
We are a selfish breed.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Like what was posted earlier - women need a reason - guys need a place. It is simple - guys just want to blow their load - simple as that. We don't get into our feelings towards the guy who just gave us a blow job - you just enjoy seeing him either eating your cum or enjoy seeing the facial you just gave him. We are not concerned about if he feels cheap or used cuz we just came all over him and we feel great! And now that our load has been shot - we wipe up our cock, get dressed and leave - but I always say "Thanks!" before I leave.
We are a selfish breed.

Sweeping generalization, you say? Unfortunately, it is not that simple; you make it simple. There's a difference. As I said before, I've known plenty of horny, selfish women who would love to do the same. However, they have social and biological reprecussions about which they have to worry.